Our Lady in Medjugorje tells you how to behave with others

November 7, 1985
Dear children, I urge you to love your neighbor, and above all to love those who cause you harm. Thus, with love, you will be able to appreciate the intentions of the heart. Pray and love, dear children: with love you can also do what seemed impossible to you. Thanks for answering my call!
Some passages from the Bible that can help us understand this message.
John 15,9: 17-XNUMX
Just as the Father loved me, so did I love you. Stay in my love. If you keep my commandments, you will remain in my love, as I have observed the commandments of my Father and remain in his love. This I have told you so that my joy is within you and your joy is full. This is my commandment: that you love one another, as I have loved you. Nobody has a greater love than this: to lay down one's life for one's friends. You are my friends, if you do what I command you. I no longer call you servants, because the servant does not know what his master is doing; but I have called you friends, because all that I have heard from the Father I have made known to you. You did not choose me, but I chose you and I made you to go and bear fruit and your fruit to remain; because everything you ask the Father in my name, grant it to you. This I command you: love one another.
1.Corinthians 13,1-13 - Hymn to charity
Even if I spoke the languages ​​of men and angels, but did not have charity, they are like a bronze that resounds or a cymbal that clinks. And if I had the gift of prophecy and knew all the mysteries and all science, and possessed the fullness of faith so as to transport the mountains, but had no charity, they are nothing. And even if I distributed all my substances and gave my body to be burned, but I didn't have charity, nothing benefits me. Charity is patient, charity is benign; charity is not envious, does not boast, does not swell, does not disrespect, does not seek its interest, does not get angry, does not take into account the evil received, does not enjoy injustice, but is pleased with the truth. Everything covers, believes, everything hopes, everything endures. Charity will never end. The prophecies will disappear; the gift of tongues will cease and science will vanish. Our knowledge is imperfect and imperfect our prophecy. But when what is perfect comes, what is imperfect will disappear. When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I thought as a child, I reasoned as a child. But, having become a man, what was a child I abandoned. Now let's see how in a mirror, in a confused way; but then we'll see face to face. Now I know imperfectly, but then I will know perfectly, as I am also known. So these are the three things that remain: faith, hope and charity; but of all greater is charity!
1.John 4.7-21
Dear friends, let us love one another, because love is from God: whoever loves is generated by God and knows God. Whoever does not love has not known God, because God is love. In this was manifested the love of God for us: God sent his only-begotten Son into the world, so that we would have life for him. In this lies love: it was not we who loved God, but it was he who loved us and sent his Son as the victim of expiation for our sins. Dear ones, if God loved us, we too must love one another. Nobody has ever seen God; if we love one another, God remains in us and his love is perfect in us. From this it is known that we remain in him and he in us: he has given us the gift of his Spirit. And we ourselves have seen and attest that the Father has sent his Son as savior of the world. Anyone who recognizes that Jesus is the Son of God, God dwells in him and he in God. We have recognized and believed in the love that God has for us. God is love; whoever is in love dwells in God and God dwells in him.

For this reason love has reached its perfection in us, because we have faith in the day of judgment; because as he is, so are we, in this world. In love there is no fear, on the contrary perfect love casts out fear, because fear presupposes punishment and whoever fears is not perfect in love. We love, because he loved us first. If anyone says, "I love God," and hates his brother, he is a liar. For whoever does not love his brother who sees cannot love God who does not see. This is the commandment we have from him: whoever loves God, also love his brother.