Possessive love destroys your life “Love is freedom not a prison”
Today we want to talk to you about'love possessive taking inspiration from the words of Cardinal Matteo Zuppi. Possessive love destroys because it limits and controls the other, preventing the loved one from having freedom and autonomy. Love is freedom, that feeling that unites partners but gives space to expression and creates a deep connection. Love is not a prison of jealousy or control, where one fears even to breathe.
A few days after the death of Giulia, we find ourselves talking about again femicide and of a love that has nothing to do with what this word means. Want to possess a person is not loving him. Everything that makes one unhappy person, it has nothing to do with love.
The consequences of possessive love
Possessive love can be a lot harmful and destructive for a relationship. When a person is possessive, he has a strong need for controllare the partner, of limit his freedom on every aspect of his life. This type of behavior creates a constant tension and anxiety. The possessive person can become jealous even small things, such as your partner's friends, his daily activities or even family members. As a result, constantly monitor the movements of the partner, who in the meantime He suffocates emotionally.
This unhealthy shape of feeling can also lead to a social isolation, since the possessive person distances the partner from his world, in order to have everything under control. This isolation can lead to the loss of important relationships and a feeling of loneliness by those who are prey to all this.
Another consequence of this unhealthy relationship is themanipulative attitude that the possessive person implements towards the partner, influencing his decisions and actions. This undermines and destroys the selfidentity and self-esteem of the other party, who may feel useless.
The sad reality is that unfortunately all this ends in aggressive attitudes, which have devastating consequences for the person who suffers it and which too often, end up take life to those who have the sole fault of loving the wrong person in the right way.