Long-distance relationships, how to manage them?

There are many people who live there today relations a distance with your partner. In this period then it is very complicated to manage them, unfortunately the pandemic has multiplied distances and isolation due to prohibitions of displacements. Living the long distance relationship is hard, but not impossible.

It is evident that a long-distance relationship is difficult to nurture because it is not always all pink and flowers but this does not mean that it should be excluded. This type of relationship requires motivation in the couple's ability to function in everyday life. One of the fundamental principles on which long-distance relationships are founded is the confidence. In the absence of this, we find ourselves in jealousy, in constant suspicion. Then there is the the heat, the physical manifestation of affection. If you don't communicate even with a tender hug, very little remains of the relationship.

The other element is the idea of ​​one common perspective, in fact, after a while, relationships tend to fortify themselves with the idea of ​​building something together. At this point, it is necessary to understand whether the two partners see the same perspective by staying apart. Then there is the complicity which increases the understanding. It represents the fruit of an understanding matured over time. Complicity is nourished by virtues such as sincerity, confidence, intimacy.

Long-distance relationships: finding oneself in prayer

Let God enter your relationship because he is the foundation on which to build your relationship. Make an appointment Invisible every day in the prayer. Whether you see each other or not, whether you are near or far, you are together in the hand of God, the heart of Christ is the shortest way from one heart up. L'Eucharist it is the place where the conjugal community is renewed, purified and strengthened. Our God is a good God who has always known us, who knows our good. He speaks to our hearts, let's listen to him. But he also speaks through the sacraments and with the word of God. We base our journey on the word.

Feelings in difficult moments they will begin to waver and fear will take over. Only the password of God will remain standing to guide us as a lighthouse in the night. Let's remember that if the love it is built on a solid foundation will strengthen and prepare both for even greater challenges.