Me ake nufi da a kira shi zuwa rai guda

Na faɗi sau da yawa game da littafin da nake karantawa don shafin yanar gizon da nake ba da shawarar "kowa ya karanta shi". Dole ne in sami albarka a cikin karatun da zan iya faɗi akai akai. Na sake bayyana shi, ba tare da ajiyar wuri ba, na Babban Cire don Babban buri da Luanne D Zurlo (Cibiyar Nazarin Cibiyar Sophia). Mawallafin, wani manazarci na bangon Amurka Wall Street da ke da hannu a sake fasalin ilimi a cikin kasashe masu tasowa (ya rayu kuma ya yi aiki mai yawa a Latin Amurka), ya rubuta bincike mai ban sha'awa game da abin da ake nufi da jagoranci rayuwa guda Katolika; takensa, "Wani ɓoyayyen farin ciki a cikin cocin Katolika" yana nuna saƙonsa na asali: wannan sana'a ba ta biyu ba ce mafi kyau, amma kira ne da ke kai ga samun biyan bukata na gaskiya da kwanciyar hankali.

A cikin gabatarwar sa, Zurlo ya ɗora wata tambaya wacce take maimaituwa a cikin littafinsa: da aka ba yawan mena singlea maza da mata a yammacin duniya a yau, "Shin Allah yana iya kiran Catholican Katolika da zurfafa tarayya tare da shi, don rayuwa kamar a sa mutane. Shin kuna rikitarwar da kawo kyawawan dabi'un Bishara zuwa al'adun da mahaukaci ya karu? Tambaya ce mai kyau; Ba lallai ne ku zama Kirista mai damuwa ba don lura da yawan rashin sadaukarwa a cikin dangantakar dindindin a cikin al'ummarmu, ko kuma yawan samari da suka sha gaban kansu ta hanyar yarjejeniyar da ba a yi nasara ba kuma waɗanda suka yanke hukuncin rashin tabbas cewa wannan shine rayuwar.

Cocin ma, yana da sha'awar karfafa koyarwar aure da taimakawa mutanen da suka yi aure suyi sana'o'insu, ya yi sakaci wajen yiwa mutane magana a cikin Cocin. Zurlo ya rubuta cewa ya san "ba a san adadin yawan Katolika da suke jin marasa ma'ana, marasa shugabanci, marasa fahimta, fahimta da kuma raina su" saboda ba su da aure ko suna zama cikin firist ko rayuwar addini. A cikin "ɓarkewar duniyarmu mai cike da rikici", wataƙila Allah yana ƙirƙirar sabon nau'i na shaidar Kirista da ridda cikin rayuwar ɓoyayyiyar rayuwar da ta ɓoye?

Zurlo ya yi nuni da cewa, daya daga cikin matsalolin da mabiya darikar Katolika ke fuskanta ita ce, su '' mara-kan gado ne '', suna shirin ko suna fatan yin aure cikin lokaci, ko kuma da gaske Allah yana son su sadaukar da kansu gaba daya a gare Shi yayin da suke cikin duniya. Ta yarda cewa a cikin 'yan shekaru a matsayin budurwa tare da aiki mai ban sha'awa da aiki mai ban sha'awa, ta yi tunanin wata rana zai yi aure. An dauki lokaci mai tsawo, addu'a da fahimi, don yanke shawara cewa, duk da kasancewar wasu lokuta sun nuna wasu matan da zasu aura mai zuwa, Allah yaso ya kasance bai da aure "saboda babban dalili", kamar yadda ta fada a taken ta.

Menene ma'anar muryar gaskiya guda ɗaya take nufi? ta tambaya. "Kira ne zuwa rai na yau da kullun a matsayin dindindin kuma umarnin da aka bayar na ƙauna da bauta wa Allah da zuciya ɗaya." Baya ga sanannun misalan tarihin rayuwar tsarkakakku, irin su Catherine na Siena, Rosa di Lima da Giovanna d'Arco, Zurlo kuma yana nuna masu bautar ƙasa guda ɗaya a cikin lokutanmu, irin su Antoni Gaudi ɗan ƙasar Spain, Jan Tyranowski, mai ba da shawara ga matasa Karol Wojtyla, daga baya Paparoma John Paul na II da Irish Frank Duff, wanda ya kafa Legion na Maryamu.

Zurlo ya hada da daya daga cikin marubutan da na fi so, Caryll Houselander, mai zanen katako da kuma zane-zane, da kuma almara, wacce ta sha wahala a rayuwar samartaka, kafin ta yarda cewa an shirya mata rayuwa daya. Kuma, gargadi cewa an dauki aure a matsayin cikar nutsuwa, ya kwaso Fr Raniero Cantalamessa kan yadda shaidar rayuwar rayuwar wanda bai yi aure ba zai iya "tseratar da [aure] daga yanke ƙauna, saboda sun buɗe har zuwa sararin samaniya wanda ya haɗu har ma da mutuwa. "Wannan littafi ne mai dacewa wanda ya cancanci masu sauraro.