Bambanci tsakanin bikin aure da bikin farar hula
Ana maganar aure gabaɗaya a zaman aure ko halin yin aure, wani lokacin kuma matsayin bikin aure. Kalmar ta fara fitowa a cikin Turanci na Tsakiya a cikin karni na XNUMX. Shigar da Turanci ta hanyar tsohuwar kalmar Faransanci matrimoignie, wanda ya samo asali daga matrimonium na Latin. Tushen tushen daga mater latin, don "uwa"; suffix - mony yana nufin yanayin kasancewa, aiki ko aiki. Don haka, aure a zahiri shine jihar da ke sanya mace ta zama uwa. Kalmar ta bada haske ga yaya haihuwar da kula da yara mahimmancin aure ne.
Kamar yadda Dokar Canon ta lura da (Canon 1055), “Alkawarin aure, wanda mace da miji suka kafa dangantaka ta rayuwa gabaɗaya, bisa ga dabi'arta aka umurce su da kyautata wa ma'aurata da haihuwa da ilimi. zuriya ".
Bambanci tsakanin aure da aure
A zahiri, aure bashi da ma'amala tare da aure. Kamar yadda p. A cikin ƙamus na Katolika na zamani, John Hardon ya lura cewa aure "yana nuna alaƙar dangantaka da miji fiye da bikin ko halin aure." Abin da ya sa, a takaice magana, sacrament na aure ne sacenment na aure. Lokacin Catechism na cocin Katolika, ana kiran Bautar Aure a matsayin Sacadiyar Aure.
Sau da yawa ana amfani da kalmar miji don bayyana 'yancin mutum da mace don shiga aure. Wannan yana nuna yanayin shari'a, kwangila ko yarjejeniya ta aure, wanda shine dalilin, ban da ana amfani dashi don nuna sacramar aure, har yanzu ana amfani da kalmar aure a yau dangane da batun aure.
Menene illar aure?
Kamar kowane nau'ikan bukukuwan aure, aure yana ba takamaiman alherin alherin ga waɗanda suka shiga cikin ta. Balkimore ta girmamawa mai ƙyalli yana bayyana illar aure, wanda falalar alherin ke taimaka mana mu cimma, a cikin tambaya ta 285, wanda aka samo a Darasi na XNUMX na Fitowa ta Farko da Darasi na XNUMX na Tabbatarwa:
Tasirin sacrament na aure sune: 1 °, don tsarkake kaunar miji da mata; 2d, don basu alheri don ɗaukar raunin juna; 3d, don basu damar renon ‘ya’yansu cikin tsoro da kaunar Allah.
Shin akwai banbanci tsakanin aure na soja da aure mai tsarki?
A farkon karni na 21, yayin da ƙoƙarin doka don sake fasalin aure don haɗa ƙungiyoyin ƙungiyoyin jinsi guda ɗaya ya haɓaka a Turai da Amurka, wasu sunyi ƙoƙarin rarrabe tsakanin abin da suka kira auren jama'a da aure mai tsarki. A wannan hangen nesa, Cocin zai iya tantance abin da ya ƙunshi yin aure, amma jihar na iya ayyana aure mara aure.
Wannan rarrabuwa ya samo asali ne daga rashin fahimta game da yadda Ikilisiya tayi amfani da kalmar aure mai tsarki. Sintin tsarkakakken yana nufin gaskiyar cewa aure tsakanin Kiristocin da aka yi musu baftisma hutu ne - kamar yadda Codea'idar Dokar Canon ya ce, "yarjejeniyar aure mai inganci ba zata wanzu tsakanin masu yin baftisma ba tare da yin wannan ba". Ainihin yanayin aure babu banbanci tsakanin aure da aure tsarkakakke saboda gaskiyar haduwar aure tsakanin mace da namiji ya gabata ma'anar aure a shari'ance.
Gwamnati zata iya sanin gaskiyar aure da kuma samar da dokokin da zasu karfafa ma'aurata su shiga aure kuma ya basu dama ta yin hakan, amma jihar ba zata iya sake yin aure ta hanyar aure ba. Kamar yadda majalissar Baltimore ta fada (a cikin tambaya ta 287 na rubutun catechism), "Cocin ita kadai ce ke da 'yancin kafa dokoki a kan sakakkiyar aure, kodayake ita ma jihar tana da' yancin kafa dokoki a kan tasirin rikice-rikicen aure".