Shin abin kunya ne ka dauki murkushewa ka fada cikin soyayya?

Daya daga cikin manyan tambayoyin da matasa Krista shine ko rashin murkushe wani shine ainihin zunubi. An gaya mana lokuta da yawa cewa sha'awar sha'awa zunubi ce amma murkushe ta yi daidai da muguwar sha'awa ko wani abu ne daban?

Crushing da muguwar sha'awa
Ya danganta da ra'ayinku, sha'awar sha'awa ba zata bambanta da samun murkushewa ba. A gefe guda, suna iya bambanta sosai. Wannan duk a cikin abin da murkushe ka ya ƙunsa.

Littafi Mai-Tsarki ya bayyana a sarari cewa sha'awa tana da zunubi. Mun san gargadi game da zunubin jima'i. Munsan doka akan zina. A cikin Matta 5: 27-28, “Kun dai ji an faɗa, 'Kada ka yi zina'; Amma ni ina gaya muku duk wadanda suka kalli mace da sha'awar sha'awa, sun riga sun yi zina a cikin zuciyarta. " mun koya cewa kallon mutum da sha'awar sha'awa wani nau'in zina ne. To yaya kuke kallon murkushe ku? Shin wani abu ne kuka nema gare shi ko ita?

Koyaya, ba kowane murƙushe ya shafi sha'awar sha'awa ba. Wasu murkushewa a zahiri suna haifar da dangantaka. Lokacin da muke so, zamu mai da hankali ga nishaɗin kanmu. Yana sarrafa tunanin jima'i. Koyaya, idan mukayi tunanin dangantaka a cikin hanyar littafi mai tsarki, an bishe mu zuwa ga kyakkyawar alaƙa. Ana son sanin wani da kyau, har zuwa yau, ba laifi bane idan ba mu ƙona sha'awar yin lalata da ita ba.

Murkushewa kamar sharewa
Sha'awa ba ita ce kawai haɗarin zunubi da ke tare da murƙushewa ba. Sau da yawa zamu iya shiga cikin rushewarmu har zuwa lokacin da suke zama damuwa. Tunanin yadda zaku tafi don burge murƙushewa. Kuna canzawa don farantawa murƙushewa? Shin kuna musun imanin ku don ku ci nasara tare da murkushe ku ko abokan sa? Shin kana amfani da mutane don isa gareshi? Lokacin da murƙushewa suka zama wata damuwa ko kuma wasu masu lahani su zama masu zunubi.

Allah yana so mu fada cikin ƙauna. Ya tsara mana wannan hanyar. Koyaya, canza komai game da kai ba shine hanyar zama cikin ƙauna ba, kuma canza komai ba garantin bane zai sanya ka zama murkushe ka. Dole ne mu sami wasu waɗanda suke ƙaunarmu kamar yadda muke. Dole ne mu fita tare da mutanen da suka fahimci bangaskiyarmu kuma suka yarda da shi, har ma su taimaka mana mu girma cikin ƙaunarmu ga Allah. Lokacin da dunkuna suka sa mu rabu da mahimman ƙa'idodin Allah, wannan yana haifar da mu ga zunubi.

Idan muka sanya murkushe mu ga Allah, lallai ne mu masu zunubi ne. Dokokin a bayyane suke cewa muna guje wa bautar gunki kuma gumaka suna zuwa ta kowane nau'i, har ma mutane. Sau da yawa namu yakan fara ɗaukar tunanin mu da sha'awar mu. Muna yin abubuwa da yawa don farantawa Allahnmu rauni, Yana da sauki mutum ya sami kansa cikin waɗannan sha'awoyi, amma lokacin da aka yanke ko aka rage, muna keta dokokin Sa. Shine Allah na farko.

Crushes wanda ya juya cikin dangantaka
Akwai wasu lokutan da murkushe mutane na iya haifar da alakar abota. Babu shakka muna fita tare da mutanen da muke jan hankalinsu kuma muna so. Yayinda wani abu mai kyau zai iya farawa da murƙushewa, dole ne mu tabbatar da gujewa duk matsalolin da zasu kai mu ga yin zunubi. Ko da a lokacin da tsaranmu suka ƙare cikin dangantaka, ya kamata mu tabbatar cewa waɗannan haɗin gwiwar suna da ƙoshin lafiya.

Lokacin da murƙushe ya juya zuwa dangantaka, sau da yawa akwai mummunan tsoro wanda mutumin zai bar baya. Wani lokaci yana nuna cewa mun fi kusanci da juna fiye da murkushewar, ko kuma muna jin sa'ar yadda murƙushewa ke damun mu, don haka sai mu ɓata kanmu da Allah. Tsoron ba shine tushen kowace dangantaka ba. Dole ne mu tuna cewa Allah koyaushe yana tare da mu kuma Allah zai ƙaunace mu koyaushe. Wannan ƙaunar tana ƙaruwa. Ana son ingantacciyar dangantaka a gare mu.