Mahaifiya ta kai kara firist bayan ta ce dan ta dansa ya kashe kansa "ya sabawa Allah"

Murna a wurin jana'izar Maison Hullibarger ya fara ne ta hanyar da ta dace: firist ɗin ya fahimci baƙin cikin da iyayen ɗan shekara XNUMX suka yi kuma ya roƙi Allah ya yi amfani da kalmominsa don haskaka su.

Sannan sakon daga Reverend Don LaCuesta ya dauki kaikayi.

"Ina ganin ba lallai ne mu kira abin da ba shi da kyau ba, abin da ba daidai ba," in ji Mista LaCuesta ga masu makoki a cocinsa a Temperance, Michigan.

"Tun da mu Krista ne, dole ne mu ce abin da muka sani gaskiya ne: cewa ɗaukar ran mutum ya saba wa Allah wanda ya halicce mu da kuma duk waɗanda suke ƙaunarmu".

Jeffrey da Linda Hullibarger sun yi mamaki. Ba su bayyana yadda dansu ya mutu a waje kusa da abokai da dangi ba, amma Mista LaCuesta ya ci gaba da furta kalmar "kashe kansa" sau shida kuma ya ba da shawarar cewa mutanen da suka kawo karshen rayuwarsu sun kasance Ina fuskantar Allah.

Kusan shekara guda bayan da Mista LaCuesta ya jagoranci jana'izar a ranar 8 ga Disamba, 2018, Linda Hullibarger ta shigar da kara a kansa, Cocin Katolika na Uwargidanmu na Dutsen Karmel da Archdiocese na Detroit, suna masu ikirarin cewa wanda ba zai iya gyarawa ba ya lalata iyalinsa da ya riga ya lalace.

Aikin da aka gabatar a ranar Laraba da ta gabata ya ɗaukaka ci gaban ƙoƙarce-ƙoƙarcen na hullibargers don samun babban nauyi daga babban cocin zuwa yankin doka.

"A ganina, ya sanya jana'izar ɗanmu a kan ajandarsa."

Melinda Moore, wata mataimakiyar shugaban kungiyar hadin gwiwar kungiyoyin addinai a kungiyar National Action Alliance for Rigakafin Kashe Kashe, ta ce shugabannin addinai suna da mahimmammar kawance wajen hana kashe kai da kuma mayar da martani lokacin da hakan ta faru.

Ya ce iyalai irin na LaCuesta suna nuna kyamar da har yanzu kashe kansa ke dauke da shi a cikin al'ummomin masu imani kuma galibi yana karfafa jin nauyi, kunya da damuwar masoya.

Madam Hullibarger tana jayayya a kan kararta, wacce aka shigar a Kotun Jihar Michigan, cewa Mr. LaCuesta ta haifar da irin wannan damuwar bayan ita da mijinta sun juya zuwa ga cocinsu da suka daɗe don ta'aziyya.

Mista LaCuesta ya kasa nuna jin kai lokacin da ya sadu da ma'auratan don shirin jana'izar, karar ta ce, kuma a maimakon haka ya tafi kai tsaye don yin magana game da shirye-shiryen cocin.

Hullibargers sun gaya wa firist din cewa suna son jana’izar don murnar rayuwar Maison, wani dalibi daga Jami’ar Toledo wanda ke karatun shari’ar laifi. Ma'auratan sun kuma so jana'izar ta yada kyakkyawar sako game da alheri ga wasu, kuma karar ta ce Mista LaCuesta ya amince da bukatun.

Bayan daruruwan mutane sun taru a coci don hidimar, Mista LaCuesta ya ce a cikin sakon cewa Allah na iya gafarta kashe kai kamar yadda yake gafarta dukkan zunubai yayin da mutane suka nemi jinƙansa. Ya ce Allah zai iya yin hukunci a kan rayuwar wani ba tare da yin la’akari da “mafi munin kuma na ƙarshe da mutumin ya yi ba”.

"Saboda sadaukarwar da Kristi ya yi duka a kan gicciye, Allah na iya jinƙan kowane irin zunubi," in ji Mista LaCuesta, a cewar wani kwafin gidansa da babban cocin ya wallafa.

"Ee, godiya ga jinƙansa, Allah na iya gafarta kashe kansa kuma ya warkar da abin da ya karye."

Masu juyayin sun kasance cikin damuwa don sanin dalilin mutuwar Maison, bisa ga dalilin.

Jeffrey Hullibarger ya wuce zuwa kan mumbari ya rada wa Mista LaCuesta ya ce "don Allah a daina" magana game da kashe kansa, karar ta ce, amma firist din bai canza hanya ba. An yi zargin cewa ya ƙare sabis ɗin ba tare da barin dangin su karanta zaɓaɓɓun nassosi ko faɗi kalmomin ƙarshe game da Maison ba.

Sauran mutanen daga baya sun gaya wa Linda Hullibarger cewa sun ji irin maganganun rashin mutunci game da ƙaunatattun su daga Mr. LaCuesta, in ji karar.

Iyalan sun gana da Archbishop Allen Vigneron da Bishop Gerard Battersby, amma an kore su daga aiki, a cewar karar. An zargi Mista Battersby ya gaya wa Linda Hullibarger cewa "ta bari."

Iyalan sun nemi a cire Mista LaCuesta, amma firist din ya fada wa mabiyansa cewa ya fi son ya zauna ya yi wa al’ummar Ikklesiyar hidima. Ya rage a jera akan gidan yanar gizon cocin.

Linda Hullibarger ta fada wa Post cewa tana ganin cewa sakon da aka sanya a yanar gizo ya fi kyau fiye da abin da Mista LaCuesta ya bayar. Archdiocese sun ƙi yin tsokaci game da wannan zargin.

Mai magana da yawun Archdiocese, Holly Fournier ta ƙi yin sharhi game da dalilin, amma ta yi nuni ga bayanin da babban limamin ya yi a watan Disamba don neman gafara don cutar da dangin Hullibarger, maimakon ta'azantar da su.

"Mun gane… cewa dangin sun yi tsammanin nuna girmamawa ne kan yadda dan uwansu ya rayu, ba yadda ya mutu ba," in ji sanarwar.

"Mun kuma san cewa dangin ya kara bata rai saboda zabin da mahaifin ya yi na raba koyarwar Cocin game da kashe kansa, lokacin da ya kamata a fi nuna karfi ga kusancin Allah da wadanda ke makoki."

Cocin Katolika ta dade tana jayayya cewa kashe kansa ya sabawa nauyin kowane mutum na kare rayuwar da Allah ya ba su.

Har zuwa Majalisar Vatican ta Biyu a cikin shekarun 60, mutanen da suka kashe kansu ba a ba su izinin jana’izar Kirista ba. Catechism na Cocin Katolika, wanda Paparoma John Paul II ya amince da shi a shekarar 1992, ya yi ikirarin cewa kisan kai "ya saba wa kaunar kai tsaye" amma ya san cewa mutane da yawa da suka kawo karshen rayuwarsu suna da tabin hankali.

"Mummunan rikice-rikice na hankali, damuwa ko tsananin damuwa, wahala ko azabtarwa na iya rage nauyin waɗanda suka kashe kansu," in ji katako.

Yawancin membobin malamai ba su da horo yadda ya kamata game da kashe kansu kuma ba su san yadda za su taimaka wa dangi da abokai na mutumin da ya mutu ba, in ji Madam Moore, wacce ita ma farfesa ce a ilimin halayyar dan adam a Jami'ar Kentucky ta Gabas.

Ya ce ya kamata shugabannin addinai su saurari bacin rai, su nuna juyayi, su koma ga nassosi don shiriya, kuma su yi magana a kan yadda mamacin ya rayu, ba yadda suka mutu kawai ba.

"Idan aka ce laifi ne, aikin shaidan ne, don sanya tunaninku a kan wannan kuma da gaske ba koyarwar majami'arku a kan wannan ba wani abu ne da nake ganin shugabannin addinai ba za su yi ba," in ji Madam Moore.

Jaridar Washington Post