4 ki e loaʻa ai ka hauʻoli i kou home

E hōʻoia me kēia ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo e loaʻa ka hauʻoli ma nā wahi āpau a kau i kou pāpale.

Hoʻomaha i ka home
"ʻO ka hauʻoli i ka home ka hopena o nā ʻiʻini āpau," i ʻōlelo ʻia e ka mea kākau mele Pelekane 18th ʻo Samuel Johnson. Noʻu, ʻo ia hoʻi, ʻo nā mea āpau a mākou e hana ai, ma ka hana, ma ka launa aloha ʻana a ma ke kaiāulu paha, ʻo ia ka hoʻokomo kālā ʻana i ka hauʻoli nui a koʻikoʻi e hiki mai ana ke ʻoluʻolu a ʻoluʻolu mākou ma ka home.

ʻO ka hauʻoli ma ka home he mea ʻokoʻa ia no kākou pākahi. Akā aia he mau mea nui ʻehā e kōkua mau i ka nānā ʻana inā ʻoe e hana i nā mea āpau e wehe i ka puka i kahi home hauʻoli.

1) Mahalo La
ʻo ke aloha ka hoʻomaʻamaʻa olakino a hiki ke lawe i nā ʻano like ʻole ma ka home. Hiki iā ʻoe ke mahalo no ka ʻoluʻolu maʻalahi o ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi home e hoʻi ai i kēlā me kēia lā, ka leʻaleʻa āu e loaʻa ai i ka lā o ke kakahiaka ma o ka puka aniani, a i ʻole ke akamai o kou hoalauna i ka māla. He ʻōpio a ʻelemakule paha, ke hoʻomaopopo nei i nā mea e mahalo ai e alakaʻi iā ʻoe i ka hauʻoli ma ka home.

2) Kaʻana like ʻia nā waiwai
ʻO ka manaʻo o kekahi poʻe no ke ahiahi kūpono ma ka home kahi hōʻuluʻulu aloha o nā hoaaloha a me nā ʻohana. Pāleʻa kekahi i nā pāʻani papa a me nā kamaʻilio liʻiliʻi, e makemake ana i ka noho maluhia ma ka home. Inā ʻo ʻoe wale nō ka mea e noho nei i kou home a i ʻole inā ʻoe e kaʻana like i kou wahi, he mea nui ia e maopopo ai kou hauʻoli e pili ana i nā mea e māʻona ai a hoʻoluʻolu ai a hoʻolohe ai i nā mea e makemake ai a makemake paha kekahi i ka hale like.

3) ʻoluʻolu a me ke aloha
ʻO kahi home hauʻoli kahi manaʻo a me kahi keʻena kino. E hoʻolohe i ka pehea āu e kamaʻilio ai i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe a iā ʻoe iho i kou home e ʻike pono i kou aloha i ke aloha, ke aloha a me ke aloha. He mākau kēia i ke kanu ʻana, keu aku ke kaʻana like ʻoe i kou hale me kekahi kanaka a ʻaʻole e launa pū. E like me kā kā mākou hoaaloha ʻo Samuel Johnson i ʻōlelo ai, "ʻO ka ʻoluʻolu i ko mākou mana, ʻoiai ʻaʻole ia."

4) Hoʻonohonoho i nā mea nui
ʻAʻole hiki i kekahi kanaka ke mālama i nā mea āpau i ka home i nā manawa āpau. Aia nā pila e uku, nā hana e hana ai, nā mīkini pono e mālama - nui loa no kahi papa inoa o nā hana e pau pono loa. E hoʻonui ʻoe i kou hauʻoli inā hoʻonohonoho mua ʻoe i ka mea nui loa, e like me ka hana ʻana i kāu pila a me ka hoʻopau ʻana i ka ʻōpala "ʻala", a hoʻokuʻu i ke koena. Inā pono, e hoʻohui i kahi ʻōkuhi pololei i kāu papa inoa hana e hana i kahi mea e hauʻoli ai iā ʻoe i hiki ai iā ʻoe ke maopopo ke hana nei ʻoe i ka hana mua o ka mālama ʻana iā ʻoe iho.