4 kōkua e kōkua iā ʻoe e hoʻokuʻu i ka huhū

Nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo a me nā palapala hemolele e kōkua iā ʻoe e lawe i ka ʻawaʻawa mai kou puʻuwai a me kou ʻuhane.

Hiki i ka huhū ke lilo i ʻāpana maoli o ke ola. Aka, ua ao mai ka Baibala: "Pepehi ka inaina i ka mea lapuwale, a luku ka lili i ka mea maʻalahi" (Ioba 5: 2). Ua ao aku ʻo Paulo "ʻaʻole pono ke kauā o ke kauā a ka Haku, akā pono ia e ʻoluʻolu i nā mea āpau, hiki ke aʻo aku, ʻaʻole huhū" (2 Timoteo 2:24). ʻOi aku ka maʻalahi o kēia ma mua o ka hana! ʻO kā mākou hana mua i ka lilo i poʻe piha i ka lokomaikaʻi a me ka maluhia (1 Peter 1: 2) e hoʻomaʻamaʻa i ko mākou naʻau e ʻike i nā hōʻailona hōʻailona e kūkulu nei ka huhū i loko o mākou.

Hōʻike kekahi mau "hae ʻulaʻula" e ʻimi ana paha mākou i nā pilikia.

Loaʻa iā ʻoe ke makemake e pane, e hoʻopaʻi?
Akā ʻaʻole hāʻawi ke Akua iā mākou i ka ʻae e hana ʻino i kekahi, i ka ʻōlelo a i ʻole ka hana. Ua kauoha ʻo ia: "Mai hoʻopaʻi aku a i ʻole huhū aku i kekahi o kou poʻe kānaka, akā e aloha aku i kou hoalauna e like me ʻoe iho" (ʻOihk 19:18).

Pono ʻoe e hōʻoia i pololei ʻoe?
ʻAʻole makemake nui mākou nā mea make ke lohe mākou i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe e manaʻo hewa a naʻaupō paha mākou; huhū pinepine mākou iā haʻi no ka mea hōʻeha lākou i ko mākou haʻaheo. ʻLelo aʻoaʻo! "Hoʻohaʻahaʻa ka haʻaheo i ke kanaka," wahi a ʻ Proverbslelo ʻOlelo 29:23.

Loaʻa ʻoe iā ʻoe iho "kuhi" i kahi ʻano like me ka cud?
Ke paʻa paʻa nei mākou e noʻonoʻo nei i ko mākou mau manaʻo ʻaʻole hiki iā mākou ke haʻalele, ʻaʻole hiki iā mākou ke ukali hou i ka ʻōlelo aʻo a Paulo e "E lokomaikaʻi a me ke aloha aku kekahi i kekahi, me ke kala ʻana i kekahi i kekahi, e like me kā ke Akua i kala ai ke Akua" (ʻEpeso 4: 32 ).

ʻO ka hoʻokuʻu i ka huhū he mea ia e pono ai mākou e hana no ka maluhia o ka noʻonoʻo a hoʻomaikaʻi i kā kākou pilina me ke Akua. ʻOiai hewa ka poʻe ʻē aʻe, ua kāhea ʻia mākou e nānā i ko mākou naʻau a pane aku i kekahi me ke aloha.

No laila pehea mākou e hoʻomaka ai? E hoʻāʻo i nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo ʻehā i hoʻokumu ʻia i ka ʻōlelo a ke Akua e kōkua iā ʻoe e haʻalele i ka ukiuki a me ka ʻawaʻawa a loaʻa ke kala.

1. Inā ʻoe e ʻehaʻī, e ʻeha iā ʻoe iho.
ʻ Saylelo aku me ka leo nui, mai kahi lohe o haʻi, he aha ka mea ʻeha maoli. "Ua ʻeha au ke nānā haʻahaʻa ʻo ia iaʻu" a i ʻole "Ua ʻeha wau i ka mālama ʻole ʻana e hoʻolohe." No laila e hāʻawi i ka manaʻo iā Karisto, ka mea i ʻike pono i ka pui ʻia o ka manaʻo. "E maʻule koʻu ʻiʻo a me kuʻu puʻuwai, akā ʻo ke Akua ka ikaika o kuʻu puʻuwai a me koʻu ʻāpana a mau loa" (Halelu 73:26).

2. E hele mākaʻikaʻi pōkole.
E puhi i kekahi mau manaʻo i mea e maʻemaʻe ai kou poʻo. ʻ telllelo mai nā palapala hemolele iā mākou "ʻO ka mea inaina i ka hoahānau a i ʻole kaikuahine, aia i ka pouli a hele i ka pouli." (1 John 2: 11). Hiki iā mākou ke puka pinepine i waho o kēlā pouli me kahi hoʻoikaika ikaika. Inā ʻoe e pule ʻoiai ke hele wāwae nei, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi!

3. Nānā i ke ʻano o ke kanaka āu e makemake ai.
E ʻae ʻoe i ka huhū i ke ala? Loiloi i ka papa inoa o nā ʻano Karistiano ma 2 Petero 1: 5-7 a ʻike inā pili kou mau manaʻo me lākou. Inā ʻole, e noi i ka Haku e hōʻike iā ʻoe pehea e hoʻopili ai i kou mau manaʻo paʻakikī me kou makemake e hoʻokauwā iā ia.

4. Hoʻonui i ka maluhia i kekahi.
ʻAʻole pono ʻoe e leo nui pū, akā pono ʻoe e hana ma kou puʻuwai. Inā ʻaʻole hiki i kēia, e pule i ka Salamo 29:11 me ka huli ʻana: “E ka Haku, e hāʻawi aku i ka ikaika i kēia mea i hana ʻino mai iaʻu; Na ke Akua e hoʻomaikaʻi i kēia kanaka me ka maluhia. " ʻAʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hewa i ka pule ʻana no ka maikaʻi o kekahi.