7 ʻ Tipslelo Aʻo Baibala no ka Hoʻolālā ʻana i nā Hoa Pono

"Kū ka launa aloha ʻana mai ka launa maʻalahi ʻana inā ʻike ʻia he mau hoa ʻelua a ʻoi paha he ʻike like a i ʻole he hoihoi a i ʻole he ʻono a ka poʻe ʻē aʻe i kaʻanalike ai a hiki i kēlā manawa, ua manaʻo ka poʻe āpau i kā lākou waiwai kūikawā (a i ʻole ka ukana. ). ʻO ke ʻano hiʻohiʻona o ka wehe ʻana o ka Hoʻolauna e like me, 'He aha? O 'oe kekahi? Ua manaʻo wau ʻo wau wale nō. '”- CS Lewis, Ke Aloha ʻEhā

Kupanaha ka loaʻa ʻana o kahi hoa e kaʻana like i kekahi mea like me mākou a laila lilo i aloha maoli. Eia nō naʻe, aia kekahi mau manawa ke maʻalahi ʻole ke aloha ʻana a me ke kākoʻo mau ʻana.

No nā mākua, hiki i ke ola ke hana nui me ke kaulike ʻana i nā kuleana like ʻole ma ka hana, ma ka home, i ka nohona ʻohana, a i nā hana ʻē aʻe. Hiki ke paʻakikī ka loaʻa ʻana o ka manawa e hānai ai i ka noho aloha ʻana, a aia nō kekahi e ʻaʻa nei e hoʻopili aku. ʻO ka hana ʻana i nā aloha aloha he manawa a me ka ikaika. Ke hana nei mākou i mea nui? Aia kekahi mau mea hiki iā mākou ke hana e hoʻomaka a hoʻomau i kahi aloha?

Hiki i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo a ke Akua mai ka Baibala mai ke kōkua iā mākou i nā manawa ke paʻakikī ka loaʻa ʻana, ka hana ʻana, a me ka mālama ʻana i nā aloha.

He aha ke aloha?
"ʻO ka mea he mau hoaaloha pono ʻole ka hopena e pau i ka make, akā aia kekahi hoa e pili kokoke ma mua o kahi kaikunāne" (ʻ Proverbslelo 18: 24).

ʻO ka hui ʻana ma waena o ke Akua ka Makua, ke Keiki a me ka ʻUhane Hemolele e hōʻike nei i kahi pili a me kahi pilina a mākou āpau e makemake ai, a ke kono nei ke Akua iā mākou e lilo i ʻāpana. Ua hana ʻia ka poʻe no ka launa like me nā mea lawe i ke kiʻi o ke Akua kolu a ua ʻōlelo ʻia ʻaʻole maikaʻi no ka noho kaʻawale ʻana o ke kanaka (Genese 2:18).

Ua hana ke Akua iā Eva e kōkua iā Adamu a hele pū me lākou i ka mahina ʻai ʻo ʻEdena ma mua o ka hāʻule ʻana. Pili ʻo ia me lākou a pili lākou iā ia a me kekahi. ʻOiai ma hope o ka lawehala ʻana o ʻAdamu lāua ʻo Ewa, na ka Haku nō i ʻapo mua iā lāua a wehewehe i kāna kumumanaʻo o ka hoʻōla e kūʻē i ka ʻino (Genesis 3:15).

Hōʻike maopopo loa ʻia ka launa aloha ʻana i ke ola a me ka make ʻana o Iesū, ua ʻōlelo ʻo ia, “ʻAʻohe mea i ʻoi aku ke aloha ma mua o kēia, ka mea i hāʻawi i kona ola no kāna mau hoaaloha. ʻO ʻoe koʻu mau hoaaloha ke hana ʻoe i kaʻu e kauoha aku nei. ʻAʻole au e kapa hou aku iā ʻoukou he mau kauā, no ka mea, ʻaʻole ʻike ke kauwā i ka hana a kona haku. Akā, ua kāhea aku wau iā ʻoukou i mau hoaaloha, no ka mea, ʻo nā mea a pau aʻu i aʻo ai mai koʻu Makua, ua hōʻike aku au iā ʻoukou. "(John 15: 13-15).

Ua hōʻike ʻo Iesū iā ia iho iā mākou a ʻaʻole ia i mālama i kekahi mea, ʻaʻole i kona ola. Ke hahai a hoʻolohe mākou iā ia, ua kapa ʻia mākou he mau hoaaloha nona. ʻO ia ka nani o ka nani o ke Akua a me ke ʻano kikoʻī o kona ʻano (Hebera 1: 3). Hiki iā mākou ke ʻike i ke Akua no ka mea ua lilo ʻo ia i kino a hōʻike iā ia iā mākou. Hāʻawi ʻo ia i kona ola no mākou. ʻO ke ʻike ʻia a aloha ʻia e ke Akua a kāhea ʻia kāna mau hoaaloha pono e hoʻonāukiuki iā mākou e hoa me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe no ke aloha a me ka hoʻolohe iā Iesū. Hiki iā mākou ke aloha i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe no ka mea ua aloha mua ʻo ia iā mākou (1 John 4:19).

7 mau ala e hana ai i ka launa aloha
1. Pule no kahi hoa ʻelua a ʻelua paha
Ua noi mākou i ke Akua e hana i mau hoaaloha? Mālama ʻo ia iā mākou a ʻike i nā mea āpau a mākou e pono ai. ʻAʻole paha ia he mea a mākou e noʻonoʻo ai e pule.

Ma 1 John 5: 14-15 e ʻōlelo ana: "ʻO kēia kā mākou hilinaʻi iā ia, inā noi mākou i kekahi mea e like me kona makemake, hoʻolohe ʻo ia iā mākou. A inā ʻike mākou e hoʻolohe mai ʻo ia iā mākou i nā mea āpau a mākou e noi aku ai iā ia, ʻike mākou he noi kā mākou i noi aku ai iā ia.

I ka manaʻoʻiʻo, hiki iā mākou ke noi iā ia e lawe mai i kekahi i loko o ko mākou ola e paipai iā mākou, e hoʻokūkū iā mākou, a hoʻomau e kuhikuhi iā Iesu. Inā ua noi mākou i ke Akua e kōkua iā mākou e mahi i nā hoaaloha pili e hiki ai ke paipai iā mākou i ko mākou manaʻoʻiʻo a me ko mākou ola, pono mākou e manaʻo e pane ʻo ia iā mākou. Manaʻo mākou e hana nui ke Akua ma mua o ka hiki iā mākou ke noi a noʻonoʻo paha ma o kona mana e hana ai i loko o mākou (ʻEpeso 3:20).

2. E ʻimi i ka Baibala i ka naʻauao e pili ana i ka noho aloha ʻana
Ua piha ka Baibala i ka naʻauao, a he nui nā mea e pili ana i ka puke o Nā ʻ aboutlelo e pili ana i ka launa aloha ʻana, me ke koho pono ʻana i nā hoaaloha a me ka lilo ʻana i hoa aloha. Kaʻana i nā ʻōlelo aʻoʻao maikaʻi mai kahi hoaaloha: "ʻO ka ʻaʻala a me ka mea ʻala e ʻoliʻoli ai ka naʻau, a ʻo ka ʻoluʻolu o ka hoaaloha mai kā lākou ʻōlelo aʻo ʻoiaʻiʻo" (ʻ Proverbslelo Pepelu 27: 9)

Hoʻomaʻamaʻa pū kekahi ia i ka poʻe hiki ke uhaʻi i ka launa aloha ʻana: "Hoʻokū ka mea hewa i ka hakakā a hoʻokaʻawale ka makamaka i nā hoaaloha" (ʻ Proverbslelo Kekahi 16:28) a "ʻO ka mea e hoʻolaha i ke aloha e uhi nei i ka hewa, akā ʻo ka mea nāna e hana hou i kēia mea, hoʻokaʻawale loa i nā hoaaloha "(ʻ Proverbslelo Pepelu 17: 9).

I loko o ke Kauoha Hou, ʻo Iesū ko mākou hiʻohiʻona nui loa o ke ʻano o ka hoaaloha. Ua ʻōlelo ʻo ia, "ʻAʻohe mea i aloha aku i kekahi ma mua o kēia: e hāʻawi i kona ola no kāna mau hoaaloha" (John 15: 13). Mai Genesus a Hōʻike ʻike mākou i ka moʻolelo o ko ke Akua aloha a me kona aloha me nā poʻe. Alualu mau ʻo ia iā mākou. E alualu anei mākou i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe me ke aloha like me kā Kristo i aloha mai ai no mākou?

3. E lilo i hoa aloha
ʻAʻole wale ia e pili ana i kā mākou kūkulu ʻana a me nā mea e hiki ai iā mākou ke hoʻokō mai kahi pilina. ʻ sayslelo ʻo Pilipi 2: 4, "E nānā ʻole kēlā me kēia o ʻoukou i kāna iho ponoʻī akā i ka pono o haʻi" a ʻōlelo ʻo 1 Tesalonike 5:11, "No laila e paipai i kekahi i kekahi a e hoʻoikaika kekahi i kekahi, e like me kā ʻoukou hana maoli nei."

Nui wale ka poʻe e noho kaʻawale nei a me ka pilikia, e ʻiʻini nei i kahi hoa a me kekahi e hoʻolohe ai. ʻO wai e hiki iā mākou ke hoʻomaikaʻi a paipai hoʻi? Aia kekahi e pono iā mākou e ʻike? ʻAʻole nā ​​makamaka a me nā mea a mākou e kōkua ai e lilo i mau hoa aloha. Eia naʻe, ua kāhea ʻia mākou e aloha i ko mākou hoanoho a me ko mākou mau ʻenemi, a e lawelawe i ka poʻe a mākou e launa pū ai a aloha iā lākou e like me kā Iesū aloha.

E like me kā Roma 12:10 i ʻōlelo ai: “E aloha aku kekahi i kekahi me ke aloha hoahānau. Outdo kekahi i kekahi i ka hoʻohanohano ʻana. "

4. E hoʻomaka i ka hana
He paʻakikī maoli ka lawe ʻana i kahi ʻanuʻu i ka hilinaʻi. Ke noi nei i kekahi e hui no ke kofe, e kono i kekahi i ko mākou hale a hana i kahi mea a mākou e manaʻo ai e kōkua i kekahi e hiki ke loaʻa ka wiwo ʻole. Hiki ke loaʻa nā ʻano pale āpau. Malia paha ke pale nei ʻo ia i ka hilahila a makaʻu paha. Maliʻa paha aia kahi pā moʻomeheu a pilikino paha e pono e haki, kahi prejudice e pono e hoʻopiʻi ʻia a i ʻole e hilinaʻi wale mākou e noho pū ʻo Iesu me mākou i kā mākou hana āpau.

He mea paʻakikī a maʻalahi ʻole ka hahai ʻana iā Iesū, akā ʻaʻohe ala maikaʻi e ola ai. Pono mākou e noʻonoʻo a wehe i ko mākou naʻau a me nā hale i ka poʻe e puni iā ​​mākou, e hōʻike ana i ka hoʻokipa a me ka lokomaikaʻi a aloha iā lākou e like me ke aloha o Kristo iā mākou. ʻO Iesū ka mea i hoʻomaka i ka hoʻōla ma ka ninini ʻana mai i kona lokomaikaʻi iā mākou i ka wā he ʻenemi a hewa ʻole mākou i ke Akua (Roma 5: 6-10). Inā hiki i ke Akua ke hāʻawi mai i ka lokomaikaʻi ʻē ma luna o mākou, hiki iā mākou ke hāʻawi i ka lokomaikaʻi like i kekahi poʻe ʻē aʻe.

5. Ola mōhai
Ua neʻe mau ʻo Iesū mai kahi a kahi, e hālāwai me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe ma mua o ka lehulehu a hālāwai i ko lākou kino a me ko lākou ʻuhane. Eia naʻe, ua loaʻa mau iā ia ka manawa e lilo ai me kona Makua i ka pule a me kāna poʻe haumāna. ʻO ka mea hope loa, ua ola ʻo Iesū i ke ola mōhai i ka wā i hoʻolohe ai ʻo ia i kona Makua a kau i kona ola ma ke keʻa no mākou.

I kēia manawa hiki iā mākou ke lilo i mau hoaaloha no ke Akua no ka mea ua make ʻo ia no kā mākou lawehala, hoʻolaulea iā mākou iho i kahi pilina kūpono me ia. Pono mākou e hana like a ola i kahi ola e pili ana iā mākou, e pili ana iā Iesū a aloha ʻole i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe. Ma ka hoʻololi ʻia e ke aloha mōhai a ka Hoola, hiki iā mākou ke aloha i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe a hoʻopukapuka i ka poʻe e like me kā Iesū i hana ai.

6. Kū i nā Hoa i luna a i lalo
Kūpaʻa kahi hoa aloha maoli a noho mau i nā manawa o ka pilikia a me ka ʻeha, a me nā manawa o ka hauʻoli a me ka hoʻoliʻiliʻi. Kaʻana like nā hoaaloha i nā hōʻike a me nā hopena a maopopo a me kaʻoiaʻiʻo. ʻO ka pili aloha i hoʻokaʻawale ʻia ma waena o Dāvida a me Jonathan ma 1 Samuʻela 18: 1 e hōʻike ana i kēia: "A pau kāna kamaʻilio ʻana me Saula, ua hui pū ʻia ka ʻuhane o Jonathan me ka ʻuhane o Dāvida, a aloha ʻo Jonathan iā ia e like me kona ʻuhane. Ua aloha ʻo Jonathan iā Dāvida i ka wā i alualu ai kona makuakāne, ke aliʻi Saula, i ke ola o Dāvida. Ua hilinaʻi ʻo Dāvida iā Jonathan e kōkua i ka hoʻohuli ʻana i kona makuakāne e hāʻawi, akā e aʻoaʻo pū aku iā ia inā ʻo Saula ma hope o kona ola (1 Samuʻela 20). Ma hope o ka make ʻana o Jonathan i ke kaua, kaumaha loa ʻo Dāvida, ka mea i hōʻike i ka hohonu o kā lāua pilina (2 Samuela 1: 25-27).

7. E hoʻomanaʻo ʻo Iesū ka hoaaloha hope loa
He paʻakikī paha ke hana i nā aloha aloha maoli a paʻa hoʻi, akā no ka mea hilinaʻi mākou i ka Haku e kōkua mai iā mākou i kēia, pono mākou e hoʻomanaʻo ʻo Iesū ko mākou hoaaloha hope loa. Kāhea ʻo ia i ka poʻe manaʻoʻiʻo i kona mau hoaaloha no ka mea ua wehe ʻo ia iā lākou a ʻaʻole ia i hūnā i kekahi mea (John 15:15). Ua make ʻo ia no mākou, ua aloha mua ʻo ia iā mākou (1 John 4:19), ua koho ʻo ia iā mākou (John 15:16), a iā mākou i kahi mamao aku mai ke Akua ua lawe mai ʻo ia iā mākou me kona koko, hoʻokahe ʻia no mākou ma ke keʻa (ʻEpeso. 2:13).

He hoa aloha ʻo ia no ka poʻe lawehala a hoʻohiki ʻo ia ʻaʻole e haʻalele a haʻalele paha i ka poʻe i hilinaʻi iā ia. ʻO ke kumu o ka pilina aloha ʻoiaʻiʻo ʻole ka mea e hōʻeuʻeu iā mākou e ukali iā Iesū i loko o ko mākou ola, e makemake ana e hoʻopau i ka heihei i ke ao pau ʻole.