Ke kū nei i ke kaumaha ma ke ala Karistiano
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ʻO kekahi mau ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo e lanakila ai me ka lilo ʻole o ka hilinaʻi.
ʻO ke kaumaha ka maʻi a ʻo ka lilo ʻana i Kalikiano ʻaʻole ia he kumu ʻaʻole ʻoe e ʻehaʻeha iā ia. Mālama ka manaʻoʻiʻo, ʻaʻole ia e ola; ʻaʻole mau, ma nā hihia āpau. ʻAʻole ka lāʻau ʻo ka hilinaʻi, ʻoi aku ka nui o ka panacea a i ʻole ka lāʻau hoʻolauna. Eia naʻe hāʻawi ia, no ka poʻe makemake e ʻae iā ia, kahi manawa e ʻike ai i kou ʻehaʻeha ʻana ʻokoʻa a e hoʻomaopopo i kahi ala o ka manaʻolana, he mea nui ia no ka mea ʻo ke kaumaha ka mea e hoʻohoka ai ka manaʻolana. Eia mākou ke hōʻike nei i nā ʻōlelo aʻoaʻo no ka hoʻokahuli ʻana i kēlā mau manawa paʻakikī o Fr. ʻO Jean-François Catalan, psychologist a me Iesuita.
He mea maʻamau ka nīnau ʻana i kou hilinaʻi a hāʻawi hoʻi iā ia ke ʻeha ʻoe i ke kaumaha?
Ua hele nā haipule nui he nui i loko o nā aka mānoanoa, kēlā mau "pō pouli", e like me kā St. John o ke Keʻa i kāhea ai iā lākou. Ua ʻeha pū lākou mai ka minamina ʻole, ke kaumaha, ka luhi o ke ola, i kekahi manawa a i ka hopena o ke kaumaha. Ua hoʻohana ʻo Saint Alphonsus o Ligouri i kona ola i ka pouli ʻoiai e hōʻoluʻolu ana i nā ʻuhane ("ʻeha au i ka pō", e ʻōlelo ʻo ia), e like me ka Curé o Ars. No Saint Teresa o ke Keiki ʻo Iesū, "he pā i hoʻokaʻawale iā ia mai ka Lani". ʻAʻole ʻo ia i ʻike hou inā aia ke Akua a ʻo ka lani paha. Eia naʻe, ua ʻike ʻo ia i kēlā alahele ma o ke aloha. ʻAʻole i kāohi ko lākou mau manawa o ka pouli iā lākou mai ka lanakila ʻana me ka lele o ka hilinaʻi. A ua hoʻolaʻa pololei ʻia lākou no ia manaʻoʻiʻo.
Ke kaumaha ʻoe, hiki iā ʻoe ke hāʻawi pio i ke Akua I kēlā manawa, loli ke ʻano o ka maʻi. wehe ka māwae i ka paia, ʻoiai ʻaʻole e pau ka ʻeha a me ka mehameha. ʻO ia ka hopena o ka paio mau. He lokomaikaʻi pū kekahi i hāʻawi ʻia mai iā mākou. Aia nā neʻe ʻelua. Ma kekahi ʻaoʻao, hana ʻoe i ka mea hiki, ʻoiai inā he mea liʻiliʻi a kūpono ʻole ia, akā hana ʻoe ia - lawe ana i kāu meds, nīnau aku i ke kauka a i ʻole therapist, e hoʻāʻo nei e hoʻohou hou i ka noho aloha ʻana - i hiki i kekahi manawa ke paʻakikī loa, no ka mea he mau hoaaloha paha ka haʻalele ʻana, a ʻo ka poʻe pili iā mākou e kaumaha. I kekahi ʻaoʻao, hiki iā ʻoe ke hilinaʻi i ka lokomaikaʻi o ke Akua e kōkua iā ʻoe e kāohi i ka hopohopo.
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Ua ʻōlelo ʻoe i ka poʻe haipule, akā pehea ka poʻe maʻamau?
ʻAe, ʻo kahi laʻana o ka poʻe haipule he mamao loa paha mai kā mākou ʻike. Noho pinepine mākou i kahi pouli pouli ma mua o ka pō. Akā, e like me ka poʻe haipule, hōʻike mai ko mākou ʻike iā mākou i kēlā me kēia ola Kalikiano, ma kekahi ʻano a i ʻole kekahi, he paio: he hakakā me ka hopohopo ʻole, kūʻē i nā ʻano ʻokoʻa a mākou e hemo ai i loko o mākou iho, ko mākou makemake pilikino, mākou hopohopo. He hakakā kēia a mākou i kēlā me kēia lā a pili i nā mea āpau.
He paio ponoʻī kā mākou pākahi e kū i mua o nā ikaika o ka luku e kūʻē i ke ola maoli, inā paha mai nā kumu kūlohelohe (maʻi, maʻi maʻi, virus, maʻi ʻaʻai, a pēlā aku), nā kumu psychological (kekahi ʻano o ke kaʻina neurotic, nā hakakā. pilikino, hoka, a pēlā aku) a i ʻole ʻuhane. E hoʻomanaʻo he hiki i ke kaumaha ke loaʻa i ke kino a i ʻole ke kumu noʻonoʻo, akā hiki ke lilo i ʻuhane i ke ʻano. I ka ʻuhane kanaka aia ka hoʻowalewale, aia ke kūʻē, aia ka hewa. ʻAʻole hiki iā mākou ke noho mālie ma mua o ka hana a Sātana, ka ʻenemi, nāna e hoʻāʻo e "hoʻohina iā mākou ma ke ala" e pale aku ai iā mākou mai ka hoʻokokoke ʻana aku i ke Akua. Hiki iā ia ke hoʻohana i ko mākou kūlana o ka ʻeha, ka ʻeha, ke kaumaha. ʻO kāna mea nui ka hoʻonāwaliwali a me ke kaumaha.
Hiki i ke kaumaha ke lilo i hewa?
ʻAʻole loa; he mai. Hiki iā ʻoe ke ola i kou maʻi ma ka hele ʻana me ka haʻahaʻa. Ke hele ʻoe i lalo o ka hohonu, ua nalowale kāu mau kikoʻī a ke ʻike nei ʻoe me ka ʻehaʻeha ʻaʻohe wahi e huli ai, ʻike ʻoe ʻaʻole ʻoe mana loa a ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻopakele iā ʻoe iho. Eia nō naʻe, i loko o ka manawa pōuliuli loa o ka ʻeha, ua noa ʻoe: manuahi e ʻike i kou kaumaha mai kahi ʻano haʻahaʻa a huhū paha. Kuhi ke ola ʻuhane āpau i kahi hoʻohuli, akā ʻo kēia hoʻohuli, ma ka liʻiliʻi i ka hoʻomaka ʻana, ʻaʻohe mea ʻē aʻe o ka hoʻololi ʻana o ka kuanaʻike, kahi a mākou e hoʻohuli ai i kā mākou kuanaʻike a nānā i ke Akua, hoʻi mākou iā ia. ʻO kēia huli ka hopena o kahi koho a me ka hakakā. ʻAʻole hoʻokuʻu ʻia ka mea kaumaha.
Hiki i kēia maʻi ke lilo i ala i ka laʻa?
ʻOiaʻiʻo. Ua helu mākou ma luna o nā laʻana o kekahi mau haipule. Aia kekahi o kēlā poʻe maʻi hūnā ʻia ʻaʻole e hiki ke canonized akā ua ola i ko lākou maʻi i ka hemolele. ʻO nā ʻōlelo a Fr. ʻO Louis Beirnaert, kahi psychoanalyst haipule, kūpono loa ia ma aneʻi: "I loko o kahi ola pōʻino a hoʻomāinoino ʻia, ua ʻike ʻia ka hūnā ʻia ʻana o nā ʻano theological (Faith, Hope, Charity). ʻIke mākou i kekahi poʻe neurotics i nalowale i ko lākou mana noʻonoʻo a i ʻole lilo i mea hopohopo, akā nona ka manaʻo maʻalahi, ka mea e paʻa ana i ka lima akua i hiki ʻole iā lākou ke ʻike i ka pouli o ka pō, e ʻālohilohi e like me ka hanohano o Vincent de Paul! Hiki ke pili i kēia i nā mea kaumaha.
ʻO kēia ka mea a Kristo i hele ai ma Gesemane?
Ma kekahi ʻano, ʻae. Ua kaumaha nui ʻo Iesū i ke kaumaha, ka ʻehaʻeha, ka haʻalele ʻana a me ke kaumaha i loko o kona kino holoʻokoʻa: "Ua kaumaha loa kuʻu ʻuhane, a hiki i ka make" (Matiu 26:38). ʻO kēia nā manaʻo e ʻike ai kēlā me kēia kanaka kaumaha. Ua noi pū ʻo ia i ka Makua e "hoʻokuʻu i kēia kīʻaha iaʻu" (Matiu 26:39). He hakakā hakakā a weliweli loa ia nona! A hiki i ka manawa o "hoʻohuli", ke loaʻa hou ka ʻae: "akā ʻaʻole e like me kaʻu e makemake ai, akā e like me kāu e hana ai" (Matiu 26:39).
Ua hoʻopau kona manaʻo o ka haʻalele ʻana i ka manawa āna i ʻōlelo ai, "E kuʻu Akua, e kuʻu Akua, no ke aha ʻoe i haʻalele ai iaʻu?" Akā ke ʻōlelo nei ke Keiki "E kuʻu Akua ..." ʻO kēia ka hoʻohālikelike hope loa o ka Passion: ua hilinaʻi ʻo Iesū i kona Makua i kēia manawa me he mea lā ua haʻalele kāna Makua iā ia. ʻO kahi hana o ka hilinaʻi maoli, i hoʻōho ʻia i ka pouli o ka pō! ʻO kekahi manawa kēia pehea mākou e ola ai. Me kona lokomaikaʻi. E noi ana, "E ka Haku, e kōkua mai iā mākou."