ʻO ka ʻohana i māhele ʻia ma ka lokomaikaʻi o ke Akua

Ua kamaʻilio aloha ke kahuna kipa no kāna homily o kona ulu ʻana. A laila ʻōlelo ʻo ia, "ʻAʻole anei laki kākou āpau i ka nui o nā ʻohana aloha nui?" Ua kūʻai aku māua ʻo kaʻu kāne i kahi ʻano nīnau. Ke ulu mau nei kā mākou ʻoihana hoʻomāinoino parochial; ke hele nei ka ikaika o ka hui hoʻokaʻawale, e like me ka hālāwai o ka poʻe ʻona ʻona me ka inoa ʻole.

Hana kēia iā mākou e like me nā hale ʻē aʻe ʻē aʻe. Manaʻo ka hapa nui o nā pākaukau, "hauʻoli wau nou, e ka makua, akā ʻaʻole ia koʻu ʻike maoli."

ʻIke wau i ka nui o ka poʻe i hānai ʻia e ka poʻe ʻalekohola, ʻo kekahi o lākou i ka wā kamaliʻi ʻaʻole i lawe i kā lākou mau hoaaloha i ka home ma muli o kahi hanana weliweli e hiki ai kēia. ʻO ka poʻe i loaʻa nā kaikaina a me nā mākua kāne i ka hale paʻahao. ʻO nā loio kūleʻa a ko lākou makuakāne i hāʻawi ʻole ai iā lākou i kahi ʻōlelo ʻae. He hoa aloha koʻu na ko lākou kupuna wahine i inaina nui iā ia a ua haʻi aku ʻo ia i kaʻu hoaaloha, a laila he ʻōpio, ʻaʻole i liʻuliʻu ma hope o ka hoʻolewa o kona makuakāne, "ʻAʻole aloha kou makuakāne iā ʻoe." ʻIke wau i ka poʻe a ko lākou mau makuahine i ʻoki pinepine ai iā lākou me nā ʻōlelo huhū a me ka hoʻowahāwahā, ʻoiai he kamaliʻi liʻiliʻi lākou.

ʻO ka hōʻino kino, ka hōʻino ʻana, ka makehewa: ʻaʻole pono ʻoe e hele e hele e ʻike. ʻAʻole maikaʻi mākou e hoʻohālikelike.

ʻO John Patrick Shanley, ka mea kākau o nā kiʻi ʻimi iā Moonstruck lāua ʻo Doubt, ua kākau nei ma New York Times e ukali pū me kona makuakāne i Irlandia, i kahi o kona ʻanakē, koʻu ʻuhane a me nā hoahānau hoʻi, nā mea kūkākūkā a pau. Lawe ʻia kona moho iā ia i ka hale kupapaʻu o kona kupuna kāne, ʻaʻole ʻo ia i ʻike ma ke ʻano, a ʻōlelo ʻo ia e kulou lākou i ka ua e pule ai.

"Ua ʻike wau i kahi pilina me kahi mea weliweli a nui," i ʻōlelo ʻo ia, "a ua manaʻo wau: ʻo kēia koʻu poʻe. "

Ke noi nei ʻo Shanley i nā moʻolelo e pili ana i kona mau kūpuna, eia naʻe, maloʻo koke ke kahawai o nā huaʻōlelo: "[ʻAnakala] ʻaʻole maopopo ʻole iā Tony. Ua lilo koʻu makuakāne i reticent. "

Ma ka hopena ua aʻo ʻo ia he "makaʻu" kona mau kūpuna, e hoʻohaʻahaʻa. Ua launa pū kona kupunakāne me nā mea paʻakikī ʻole: "E holo aku nā holoholona mai ona aku." ʻO kona kupunawahine hakakā, i ka wā i hoʻolauna ʻia me kāna moʻopuna mua, "ua haehae i ka pāpale nani a ke pēpē e kau ana mai kona poʻo, me ka ʻōlelo ʻana:" Maikaʻi loa nona! "

Ua hōʻike ka ʻohana o ka ʻohana i ka haʻalele ʻana o ko Irish e ʻōlelo e pili ana i ka mea make.

ʻOiai he manaʻo makemake loa kēia, hiki iā mākou ke hoʻomaopopo i nā pilikia ʻohana ma ke aloha ʻana no nā poʻe a pau i pili. Ua hōʻole ka papa hōʻole a me ka lewa ʻole me nā huaʻōlelo ma nā ʻohana he nui i haʻalele i nā keiki e ʻike he hewa. Akā, ʻaʻole lākou a huaʻōlelo a ʻae ʻia e kamaʻilio. (A no ka 90 hapa o ka kamaʻilio ʻana he ʻōlelo ʻole ia ka ʻōlelo, ke ʻōlelo ʻole ʻia ka ʻōlelo kūʻokoʻa iā ia iho.)

ʻAʻole wale nā ​​hōʻino, akā nā hanana kaumaha - make, no ka laʻana - pono paha i ka mālama hamū. Ua ʻike wau i nā ʻohana kahi o nā poʻe holoʻokoʻa - nā ʻanakala, a ʻo nā hoahānau hoʻi - i kāpae ʻia mai ka hoʻomanaʻo a ka ʻohana e ka hāmau. Makaʻu loa mākou i ka waimaka? I kēia lā, ka mea a mākou e ʻike ai e pili ana i ke olakino olakino koi e wehe i nā ʻohana ʻohana i ka makahiki kūpono no nā keiki. ʻAʻole anei mākou he poʻe ma muli o ke kanaka no Galilaia, nāna i ʻōlelo mai, Na ka ʻoiaʻiʻo e hoʻokuʻu iā ʻoe?

Ua kākau ʻo Bruce Feiler i loko o ka New York Times e pili ana i ka noiʻi hou e hōʻike nei i ka maikaʻi o nā keiki me nā luʻi ke ʻike nui lākou e pili ana i ko lākou mau ʻohana a hoʻomaopopo he lālā lākou i ʻoi aku ma mua o lākou. ʻO nā moʻolelo ʻohana maikaʻi loa e pili ana i nā puʻupuʻu i ke ala: hoʻomanaʻo mākou i ka ʻanakala i hopu ʻia me ka makuahine i aloha ʻia e nā mea āpau. A, ua ʻōlelo ʻo ia, hoʻoikaika mau ʻo ia "ʻo nā mea i hana ʻia, ua noho mau mākou ma ke ʻano he ʻohana".

Kāhea ka poʻe Kakolika ma muli o ka lokomaikaʻi o ke Akua. ʻAʻole pau nā moʻolelo o kā mākou ʻohana i ka hauʻoli, akā ʻike mākou ke kū paʻa nei ke Akua ma ko mākou ʻaoʻao. E like me kā John Patrick Shanley hopena, "Ke ola nei kāna mau hana mana, kahi pele maikaʻi mai ka pouli ke alakaʻi o lākou"