Pehea e aloha ai iā ʻoe iho: 15 ʻ tipslelo aloha e aloha ʻoe iā ʻoe iho a hauʻoli
E kamaʻilio mākou e pili ana i ke aloha iā ʻoe a no ke aha e kōkua ai. Mea maikaʻi ke loaʻa i ke ala ʻoi aku ke aloha iā ʻoe iho, ʻoiai ʻoe e aʻo hou ai i nā mea hou e pili ana iā ʻoe iho a hoʻomaka e hoʻāʻo i nā mea hou i ka hana.
ʻOiai ʻē aʻe paha kekahi o kēia mau kaʻina i ka wā mua, akā i ka manawa e aʻo ai ʻoe i nā ʻano e hana no ʻoe, e hōʻoliʻoli nui ʻoe a hiki iā ʻoe ke haʻi aloha iā ʻoe iho. Eia kekahi 15 mau ʻōlelo aloha pilikino hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻāʻo i kēia lā e ʻike i ke aloha e aloha iā ʻoe iho a loaʻa i kou hilinaʻi!
1. I leʻaleʻa wale nō ʻoe
Kena mau ana i ka lā mau lā e hana no ʻoe, ʻo ia wale nō kāu mea e hana ai i kahi leʻaleʻa. Ma o kēia ala ke aʻo ai ʻoe i ka leʻaleʻa o kāu ʻoihana a ʻoi aku ka manaʻo e palekana ʻoe e hana wale.
Hiki iā ia ke hele i nā kiʻiʻoniʻoni, hele i waho me ʻoe a i ʻole ke loaʻa ʻana i nā mea hou e ho'āʻo ai.
2. Hele ma hoʻokahi makahiki
Hiki paha i kēia mai ke ʻoluʻolu o kāu wahi ʻoluʻolu, akā ʻo ia ka mea maikaʻi! Inā hiki iā ʻoe ke hele hoʻokahi wale, e lilo kēia i mea aloha nui kūʻokoʻa. E aʻo ʻoe i nā mea hou ʻaʻole wale nō iā ʻoe iho, akā e pili ana i ka moʻomeheu ʻē aʻe. Hāʻawi kēia i ka mea e haʻalele iā ʻoe mai kāu papa maʻamau.
3. E kala iā ʻoe iho i kāu hewa
ʻO ka noʻonoʻo ʻana i kāu mau hana hewa e hiki ke kōkua iā ʻoe e kala a poina. Inā hiki iā ʻoe ke nānā i nā koho hewa paha āu i hana ai a kalaʻi iā ʻoe iho, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻomaka e neʻe a poina i ka wā ma mua. E aloha aku iā ʻoe iho me nā hewa a ʻoe i hana i ka wā i hala.
4. E kāhāhā iā ʻoe iho
E hoʻāʻo i nā mea ma waho o kou mana a ʻōlelo i nā mea i ʻole e maʻamau ai ʻoe e ʻae. E kōkua pū kēia iā ʻoe e ʻike iā ʻoe iho. Hiki iā ʻoe ke makemake i nā mea āu i hana ʻole ai a hoʻāʻo paha ma mua. E ho'āʻo e haʻalele i kou wahi hōʻoluʻolu a ʻike i ka mea e tupu nei (e kūleʻa maikaʻi paha ia!).
5. Hoʻomaka ka papa inoa
Inā hiki iā ʻoe ke kākau i kou mau manaʻo a me kou mau manaʻo, hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻi mai i hope a ʻike i ke ʻano ʻana me ʻoe i kekahi mau kūlana.
He ala maikaʻi kēia e hōʻalo ai i kekahi mau mea maikaʻi a me nā manaʻo, e kōkua ana iā ʻoe e noʻonoʻo i nā mea maikaʻi a aʻo hoʻi mai nā hōʻea maikaʻi ʻole.
6. Hāʻawi iā ʻoe iho he hoʻomaha
I kekahi manawa hiki iā mākou ke paʻakikī i ko mākou iho, he mea maoli nō ia, akā pono ʻoe e hoʻomaha i kekahi manawa i kekahi manawa.
ʻAʻohe kanaka kūpono ʻole a ʻaʻole hiki iā ʻoe ke manaʻo e like me kēia.
E hala ana kekahi mau mea, akā pono ʻoe e ʻae iā lākou a mai paʻakikī ʻole iā ʻoe iho.
7. E aloha e aloha ʻoe iā ʻoe iho me ka ʻōlelo ʻole ʻana i kekahi
I kekahi manawa hana mākou i nā mea nui loa no nā poʻe, makemake mākou e ʻoluʻolu i kekahi, no laila ke ʻano nei mākou he ʻili a lahui e hoʻāʻo e hana i nā mea āpau i hiki iā mākou. Hiki iā mākou ke poina i ke mālama pono iā mākou iho i kekahi manawa, ʻo ia ke kumu a maikaʻi e ʻōlelo ʻole ai. E nānā ʻoe iā ʻoe iho i ka wā e hiki ai, a i ʻole e hoʻokaumaha ʻia ʻoe.
8. E hoʻokumu i kahi papa o kāu mau hoʻokō
Ke hana nei i kahi papa inoa o kahi āu i hoʻokō ai he ala maikaʻi loa ia e aloha ai iā ʻoe iho. ʻO kēia mea e hōʻoluʻolu maikaʻi iā ʻoe iho a loaʻa i ka hauʻoli mai nā mea āu i hana ai. I kekahi manawa hiki iā mākou ke kau i nā mea maikaʻiʻole a poina nā mea kūpono, no laila he ala maikaʻi kēia e hoʻomanaʻo iā ʻoe iho i nā mea i loaʻa.
9. E hoʻokumu i kahi hulina inoa
ʻO ka ʻike ʻana i kāu mau pahuhopu he ala maikaʻi loa ia e manaʻo i ka loulou a hauʻoli i ka wā e hiki mai ana. Hiki iā ʻoe ke kuhikuhi i kou mau moe a hoʻomaka i ke aloha ʻana i kou ola a me ʻoe iho.
Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe maopopo i ka pehea e hana ai i ka papaʻaina ʻoi, e nānā i kā mākou alakaʻi i ka pehea e ʻike ai.
10. Ke ʻimi nei i nā pono hou
Maikaʻi ka hoʻāʻo ʻana i kahi mea hou āu e makemake ai e hoʻāʻo no kekahi manawa a makaʻu ʻole paha e hana.
ʻAʻole ʻoe e ʻike i ka mea āu e hoʻāʻo ai a hiki ʻoe i kou hoʻāʻo ʻana, no laila e noʻonoʻo e pili ana i kahi hana hou āu e hoʻāʻo ai, a i ʻole e hele i kahi kahi āu e makemake ai e hele no kekahi manawa.
11. Pehea e aloha ai ʻoe iā ʻoe iho ma ka hoʻomaikaʻi ʻana iā ʻoe iho
Inā hiki iā ʻoe ke hoʻohālikelike iā ʻoe iho, e ʻike ʻoe iā ʻoe iho a me ka mea āu e hiki ai. Malia paha ʻoe he mea hīmeni, ke hīmeni e like me ka leʻaleʻa akā makemake ia e hīmeni i kahi ʻoka no nā makahiki inā hiki iā ʻoe ke hana i kēlā lipa a hoʻopaʻa ʻia i kahi leʻaleʻa e hoʻomaʻamaʻa wau iā ʻoe a makemake ʻoe e loaʻa ka palekana. E lawe a ʻike i ka mea e hana nei.
12. Hāʻawi iā ʻoe iho he hoʻomaha
E hoʻāʻo e waiho i ka 30 mau minuke o kou manawa e hoʻomaha mālie. ʻO ka hoʻomaha ʻana i ka hustle a me ke poko o ke ola he ala maikaʻi loa ia e aloha ai a mālama pono iā ʻoe iho. Hiki iā ia ke kau wela i ka heluhelu ʻana i ka puke a noʻonoʻo paha. ʻO ke ʻano noʻonoʻo he ala maikaʻi loa ia e hoʻomaha ai, inā makemake ʻoe e aʻo pehea e noʻonoʻo ai, e nānā i kā mākou papaʻi i ka hōʻike alakaʻi.
13. Hāʻawi iā ʻoe iho i ka ʻai o ka hōʻaiʻē
Hoʻonui i kou mau hopena! Pēlā ʻoe e papa inoa ai i kāu mau makana E kamaʻilio me nā poʻe ʻē aʻe e pili ana i kāu hana, e kaʻana like i kāu ʻike a haʻaheo i kāu mea i hana. Hāʻawi iā ʻoe iho i ka ʻai āu e pono ai.
14. E hana ma kou ʻano hilinaʻi iho
ʻO ke ala maikaʻi e hōʻike ai i ke aloha pilikino iā ʻoe iho ʻo ia e hilinaʻi iā ʻoe iho a me kāu mau ʻano.
E ʻike paha ʻoe i ka mea maikaʻi loa iā ʻoe a me ke hilinaʻi ponoʻī he kahi kūpono i ke aloha kūʻokoʻa.
Pono ʻoe e hilinaʻi iā ʻoe iho ma mua o ka hiki iā ʻoe ke hilinaʻi i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe, no laila e hoʻolohe iā ʻoe i kāu ʻano a me ka hilinaʻi i kou manaʻo.
15. E mālama pono iā ʻoe iho
ʻO ka ʻike paha ia, akā he mea nui ka mālama ʻana iā ʻoe e hana i ke aʻo ʻana e aloha ʻoe iā ʻoe iho, a ʻaʻole nui ka poʻe. Inā ʻoe e mālama iā ʻoe iho, ʻo ʻoe ke ʻano maikaʻi loa iā ʻoe iho. E nānā i kā mākou manaʻo noʻonoʻo pono e hoʻomaka.