ʻLelo Aʻo Karistiano: 5 mau mea pono ʻole ʻoe e ʻōlelo e hōʻalo i ka hōʻeha ʻana i kāu wahine
He aha nā mea ʻelima āu e ʻōlelo ʻole ai i kāu wahine? He aha nā mea hiki iā ʻoe ke ʻōlelo? ʻAe, no ka mālama ʻana i ka male olakino ka kuleana o kēlā me kēia Kalikiano.
Oe / Oe Mau
E waiho i kēia ala: mai haʻi i kāu wahine hana mau ʻo ia i kēia hana a hana ʻole paha kēlā. ʻAʻole hiki i kēia mau hoʻopiʻi kahiki ke ʻoiaʻiʻo. E ʻōlelo paha kekahi wahine "ʻaʻole loa ʻoe e hana i kēia a me kēlā" a i ʻole "hana mau ʻoe i kēia a i kēlā". He ʻoiaʻiʻo paha kēia mau mea i ka hapa nui o ka manawa, akā e ʻōlelo ʻaʻole hana lākou i kekahi mea a hana hewa paha. Maikaʻi paha e waiho i kēia ala: "No ke aha ʻaʻole mākou e hana i kēia a i kēlā a i ʻole" a i ʻole "No ke aha ʻoe e hana ai i kēia a i kēlā mea?" Hōʻalo i nā ʻōlelo. E hoʻolilo iā lākou i mau nīnau a hiki iā ʻoe ke pale i nā hakakā.
Makemake wau ʻaʻole wau e male iā ʻoe
ʻĀ, ʻo ia paha ka mea āu i manaʻo ai i hoʻokahi manawa o ka manawa akā ʻaʻole ia ka mea āu i manaʻo ai i kāu lā male, ʻeā? ʻO kēia kahi hōʻailona o nā hakakā male a i ʻole nā pilikia a kēlā me kēia kāne e hele ai i ka male ʻana akā e ʻōlelo ana makemake ʻoe ʻaʻole ʻoe i male iā ia e hōʻeha loa i nā mea. He mea ʻehaʻeha loa ka ʻōlelo ʻana. Me he mea lā e ʻōlelo ana, "He wahine weliweli ʻoe."
ʻAʻole hiki iaʻu ke kala aku iā ʻoe no kēia
He mea ʻole kēia "kēia", e ʻōlelo ana ʻaʻole ʻoe e kala iā ia no kekahi mea e hōʻike ana i kahi ʻano pili ʻole loa iā Kristo no ka mea ua kala ʻia mākou ma mua o ka kala ʻana i kekahi mea ʻē aʻe i ko lākou ola holoʻokoʻa. Malia paha hiki iā ʻoe ke waiho penei: "Ke ʻaʻa nei wau e kala aku iā ʻoe no kēia." Me he mea lā ke hana nei ʻoe ma ia mea akā ʻaʻole ia e like me ke ʻano hopohopo e like me "ʻAʻole wau e kala iā ʻoe no kēlā!"
ʻAʻohe oʻu manaʻo i kāu mea e ʻōlelo ai
Ke ʻōlelo ʻoe i kēia, ke hoʻouna nei ʻoe i kāu pakanā i hōʻailona no ka mea a lākou e ʻōlelo ai, ʻaʻole ia e ʻokoʻa. He mea maikaʻi kēlā e ʻōlelo ai. ʻOiai e hiki ke ʻōlelo ʻia kēia mau mea i ka wela o ka manawa, e ʻōlelo pinepine pinepine ʻana i ka wahine ʻē aʻe e haʻalele i ka haʻi ʻana i kekahi mea a ʻaʻole maikaʻi ia.
Makemake wau e like ʻoe me ...
ʻO ka mea āu e ʻōlelo nei makemake ʻoe i ka wahine a haʻi. Hiki i nā ʻōlelo ke ʻeha maoli. ʻAʻoleʻoiaʻiʻo e ʻōlelo "hiki i nā lāʻau a me nā pōhaku ke haki i koʻu mau iwi akā ʻaʻole hiki i nā ʻōlelo ke hōʻeha iaʻu". I ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, hoʻōla ka ʻeha mai nā lāʻau a me nā pōhaku akā haʻalele nā huaʻōlelo i nā scars hohonu ʻaʻole e nalo loa a hiki ke hōʻeha i ke kanaka no nā makahiki. Ke ʻōlelo ʻoe "no ke aha hiki ʻole iā ʻoe ke ʻano a ʻoi loa", ʻaneʻane like ia me ka ʻōlelo ʻana "Makemake wau ua male wau iā Tizio a i ʻole Caio".
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ʻO nā mea ʻē aʻe a mākou e ʻōlelo ʻole ai he "like ʻoe me kou makuahine / makuakāne", "ua hana mau koʻu makuahine / makua kāne i kēia", "ua aʻo mai koʻu makuahine iaʻu e pili ana i kēia", "poina" a "hana kaʻu ex. Pēlā. "
Hiki i nā ʻōlelo ke ʻeha, akā hoʻōla kēia mau huaʻōlelo: "E kala mai iaʻu", "aloha wau iā ʻoe" a "e kala mai iaʻu." ʻO kēia nā ʻōlelo āu e ʻōlelo nui ai!
Ke Akua pōmaikaʻi iā 'oe.