Ka hoʻohaʻahaʻa ʻana i nā sakuna: nā mākua "ka ʻōlelo e hāʻawi aku ai i kā lākou keiki i kēlā me kēia lā"
He kāhea pilikino
ʻAʻole hiki i kekahi ke hoʻopiʻi i ke poʻo o ka ʻelele o haʻi inā ʻaʻole i loaʻa iā ia kēia kūlana. No nā mākua pū kekahi, he manaʻo hoʻokano paha e kāhea iā lākou iho he ʻelele na ke Akua inā ʻaʻohe kāhea kikoʻī no lākou e hana pēlā. ʻO kēia kāhea luna i kā lākou lā male.
Hoʻomaʻamaʻa ka makuakāne a me ka makuahine i kā lāua mau keiki i ka manaʻoʻiʻo, ʻaʻole ma ke kono waho a i ʻole ka naʻau o loko, akā no ka mea ua kāhea pololei ʻia lākou e ke Akua me ka sakrameta o ka male. Ua loaʻa iā lākou mai ka Haku mai, ma kahi ala hanohano i mua o ke kaiāulu, kahi hana kūhelu, kahi kāhea pilikino i ʻelua, ma ke ʻano he kāne.
He mikiona nui
ʻAʻole i kāhea ʻia nā mākua e hāʻawi i ka ʻikepili e pili ana i ke Akua. Hoʻolaha lākou i ke alo o ke Akua, ka mea āna i hana ai i loko o ko lākou ʻohana a me kāna hana. He poʻe hōʻike lākou no kēia alo aloha me ka huaʻōlelo a me ke ola.
ʻO nā mākua he mau hōʻike o ka manaʻoʻiʻo kūlike a i kā lākou keiki a me nā ʻohana ʻē aʻe (AA, 11). ʻO lākou, ma ke ʻano he ʻelele a ke Akua, pono e ʻike i ka Haku e kū mai ana i ko lākou hale a hōʻike iā ia i kā lākou poʻe keiki me kā lākou ʻōlelo a me ko lākou ola. Inā ʻaʻole lākou e kolohe i ko lākou hanohano a hoʻohuli kūpilikiʻi i ka nuʻukia i loaʻa i ka male. ʻAʻole wehewehe ka makuakāne a me ka makuahine i ke Akua, akā hōʻike lākou iā ia i kēia manawa, no ka mea, ua ʻike lākou iā ia a ua kamaʻāina me ia.
Me ka ikaika o ke ola
ʻO ka ʻelele ka mea e walaʻau i ka manaʻo. ʻAʻole e loiloi ʻia ka ikaika o ka hoʻolaha ma ke kani o ka leo, akā he hilinaʻi pilikino ikaika ia, kahi hiki ke hoʻohuli i loko, kahi hoihoi e holo i kēlā me kēia ʻano a me nā kūlana āpau.
I mea na ke Akua ʻelele, pono i nā mākua i nā manaʻo Karistiano hohonu e pili i ko lākou ola. Ma kēia kahua ʻaʻole makemake nā aloha maikaʻi, ke aloha like. Pono nā mākua e loaʻa, me ka lokomaikaʻi o ke Akua, kahi mākau ma mua o nā mea āpau e ka hoʻoikaika ʻana i ko lākou kūlohelohe a me nā hoʻomana haipule, e waiho ana i kahi laʻana, e hōʻike pū ana i ko lākou ʻike, e hōʻike ana me nā mākua ʻē aʻe, me nā mea aʻo loea, me nā kāhuna (John Paul II , ʻEchlelo ma ka III International Congress of the Family, ʻOkakopa 30, 1978).
No laila ʻaʻole hiki iā lākou ke koi aku e aʻo i kā lākou poʻe keiki i ka manaʻoʻiʻo inā ʻaʻole e haʻalulu ka leo o kā lākou mau ʻōlelo a hui pū me ko lākou ola iho. I ke kāhea ʻana iā lākou e lilo i mau ʻelele, ua noi ke Akua i nā mākua he nui, akā me ka ʻākala o ka male ʻana e hōʻoiaʻiʻo ʻo ia i kona alo i loko o kā lākou ʻohana, e lawe ana iā ʻoe i kona lokomaikaʻi.
ʻO ka ʻōlelo e unuhi ʻia i kēlā me kēia lā i nā keiki
Pono e unuhi a hoʻomaopopo i kēlā me kēia leka. Ma mua o nā mea āpau, pono ke alo i nā kūlana o ke ola, no ka mea ke kamaʻilio nei ia i ke ola, nā ʻano hohonu o ke ola kahi e kū ai nā nīnau koʻikoʻi ʻaʻole hiki ke pale ʻia. ʻO ia nā ʻelele, i kā mākou hihia nā mākua, nā lākou e mālama i ka wehewehe ʻana, no ka mea, ua hāʻawi ʻia lākou i ka mana o ka wehewehe.
Hāʻawi ke Akua i nā mākua i ka hana o ka hoʻopili ʻana i nā manaʻo o ka leka i ke ola ʻohana a no laila ke lawe ʻana i ke ʻano Karistiano i kā lākou mau keiki.
ʻO kēia hiʻohiʻona kumu o ka aʻo hilinaʻi i ka ʻohana e pili ana i nā manawa maʻamau o kēlā me kēia ʻike hana: ke aʻo ʻana i kahi code of interpretation, ka loaʻa ʻana o ka ʻōlelo a me ka hoʻokaʻawale ʻana i nā hana kaiāulu a me nā ʻano.