Kūkākūkā o ka lā "moekolohe ma mua o ka male"

Kūkākūkā o ka lā "moekolohe ma mua o ka male" Ninau. He mau hoaaloha koʻu e hana moekolohe. Mālama wau iā lākou a manaʻo he poʻe maikaʻi lākou, no laila ʻaʻole wau makemake e hōʻino iā lākou. Akā pehea wau e paipai pono ai iā lākou e noʻonoʻo hou i kā lākou hana?

Pane. Mahalo no kāu nīnau a me ka mea nui loa no kou hopohopo no kāu mau hoaaloha! E hāʻawi wau i kekahi mau manaʻo.

ʻLelo wau he mea maikaʻi ʻaʻole ʻoe makemake e "hōʻino" i kāu mau hoaaloha e like me kāu e ʻōlelo nei. ʻO ka maʻamau, pehea mākou e ʻōlelo ai i kekahi mea e like ka nui me ka mea a mākou e ʻōlelo ai. Inā manaʻo kou mau hoaaloha ʻaʻole maopopo iā ʻoe iā lākou, hoʻokolokolo iā lākou, a huhū paha iā lākou, ʻaʻole paha lākou e hoʻolohe iā ʻoe. Akā he aha kāu e kaʻana like ai me lākou he mea nui na lākou e hoʻolohe! Loaʻa ka pilina moekolohe, ma waho o ka pōʻaiapili o ka male, ʻaʻole ʻāpana o ka hoʻolālā a ke Akua no kekahi. No laila e nānā i nā leka ʻelua āu e pono ai e kaʻana a me ke ala ʻoi loa e haʻi aku ai iā lākou.

Ua hana ke Akua i ka moekolohe i mea maikaʻi loa. Ma ka hoʻolilo ʻana iā mākou i mau moekolohe, ua ʻae ke Akua i ke kāne a me ka wahine e hui pū i kahi ala hohonu, kūmau a kūʻokoʻa hoʻi. Ua hiki nō hoʻi i ke kāne a me ka wahine e kaʻana like i kona mana o ka hana ʻana i ka wā he keiki a kēia kūkaʻi moe kolohe. Akā kaʻana like ʻia ka moekolohe ma waena o ʻelua inā aia kēia paʻa paʻa paʻa paʻa e wehe ʻia i nā keiki.

Pule no ka lokomaikaʻi i ka ʻohana

Moekolohe me ka male ʻole

Kūkākūkā o ka lā "moekolohe ma mua o ka male" He mea nui e ʻike i ka moekolohe pū kekahi, ma ke ʻano, he "ʻōlelo". Ma ke ʻano he ʻōlelo, he ala ka moekolohe na kekahi mau kāne e haʻi i kekahi mau ʻoiaʻiʻo. ʻAʻole hiki ke hoʻokaʻawale ʻia kēia mau ʻoiaʻiʻo mai ka moekolohe no ka mea ʻo ke Akua ka mea nāna i hoʻolālā. ʻO kahi mea a ka moekolohe e ʻōlelo ai, "pili wau iā ʻoe no ke ola!" Eia kekahi, ua ʻōlelo ʻo ia: "Ke hāʻawi aku nei wau iaʻu iho iā ʻoe a ʻo ʻoe wale no ke ola!" ʻO ka pilikia nui me ka moekolohe ma waho o ka male he wahaheʻe ia. ʻO nā kānaka ʻelua i kūpaʻa ʻole a kūpaʻa wale kekahi i kekahi i ka male ʻaʻole pono e hoʻāʻo e ʻōlelo, me ko lākou kino, ʻo lākou nō.

Ke kū kēia, manaʻo wau e huikau ka hana moekolohe i nā mea i ka nui! A hohonu, manaʻo wau ua ʻike nā mea āpau. ʻO ka pilikia, i kekahi manawa, kēia mau makemake maikaʻi, i manaʻo ʻia e kaʻana like ʻia me kāu wahine, e hana ʻino loa inā hoʻohana ʻia ma kekahi ʻano ʻē aʻe. ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, hilinaʻi nui wau i kou mau hoaaloha, a i ʻole kekahi i ka moekolohe ma waho o ka male, ʻike hewa lākou i kā lākou hana. A, ʻoiai, ʻaʻole hiki iā mākou ke poina i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo e hana ʻia ka moekolohe no ka hiki o nā keiki. No laila ke kumu, ke moe kolohe ʻelua a ʻōlelo pū kekahi ua mākaukau wau e loaʻa kahi keiki inā koho ke Akua e hoʻopōmaikaʻi iā mākou me hoʻokahi.

ʻO ka male ʻana: he Sakarameta nui loa

Akā ke kamaʻilio aku nei i kāu mau hoaaloha ʻo ia paha ka ʻāpana paʻakikī loa. ʻO kaʻu e ʻōlelo ai e hoʻomaka ʻoe ma ka haʻi ʻana iā lākou e mālama iā lākou a ʻo ia ke kumu e hopohopo nei ʻoe i ke koho a lākou e koho nei. ʻAʻole paha lākou e ʻae i kāu mea e ʻōlelo ai i ka wā mua a huhū paha me ʻoe. Akā, ʻoiai ʻoe e hoʻāʻo e kamaʻilio me lākou me ka hoʻohaʻahaʻa, ʻoluʻolu, me ka minoʻaka, a me ka maopopo, hiki paha iā ʻoe ke loaʻa kahi manawa ʻokoʻa.

ʻO ka ʻike e pili ana i ka moʻomeheu a me ka nohona: nā makemake āpau mai kahi manaʻo wahine

I ka hopena, inā ʻaʻole lākou e hoʻolohe koke iā ʻoe, ʻaʻole wau e huhū loa. ʻO ka hāʻawi ʻana iā lākou i kou mau manaʻo aloha hiki ke kanu i kahi hua e hoʻolōʻihi i kahi manawa e noʻonoʻo ai iā lākou. No laila e hoʻomau i ka hana, kūlike, aloha, a ʻo ka mea nui loa, e pule no lākou. A hoʻomanaʻo e pono maoli lākou, a makemake paha, e hoʻolohe i kāu mea e ʻōlelo ai.