ʻO nā hiʻohiʻona nui o nā hoa Kristiano maoli

Hele mai nā hoaaloha, ka
hele na hoaaloha,
akā aia kahi hoaaloha maoli e kiaʻi iā ʻoe e ulu ana.

Hōʻike kēia mele i ka manaʻo o ka noho aloha ʻana me ka maʻalahi piha, ʻo ia ke kahua o nā ʻano ʻekolu o nā hoa aloha Kalikiano.

Nā ʻano o ka launa Karistiano
ʻO ke aloha aloha: ʻo ke ʻano mua o ka launa Karistiano kahi pilina alakaʻi. I loko o kahi pilina alakaʻi, aʻo mākou, paipai, a i haumāna paha i nā hoa Kalikiano ʻē aʻe. ʻO kēia kahi pilina ma waena o ka lawelawe, e like me ke ʻano o Iesū me kāna poʻe haumāna.

ʻO Mentee Friendship: i loko o kahi pilina haumāna, ʻo mākou ka mea i aʻo ʻia, aʻo ʻia a i aʻo ʻia paha. Aia mākou i ka hopena o ka loaʻa ʻana o ka lawena, lawelawe ʻia e kahi alakaʻi. Ua like kēia me ke ʻano o ka loaʻa ʻana mai o nā haumāna mai o Iesū lā.

ʻO ke aloha aloha: ʻaʻole hoʻokumu ʻia nā pilina aloha ma ke aʻo ʻana. Akā, i kēia mau kūlana, ua kaulike nā mea ʻelua i ka ʻuhane, ke kaulike i ke kahe kūlohelohe o ka hāʻawi ʻana a me ka loaʻa ʻana ma waena o nā hoa aloha Kalikiano maoli. E ʻimi hou aku mākou i nā hoa aloha like, akā ʻo ka mea mua he mea nui ia e ʻike akāka i ka pili alakaʻi, no laila ʻaʻole e huikau nā mea ʻelua.

Hiki ke maʻalahi ka lilo ʻana o nā pilina aloha ʻana inā ʻaʻole ʻike nā ʻaoʻao ʻelua i ke ʻano o ka pilina a kūkulu i nā palena kūpono. Pono paha ke alakaʻi e hoʻomaha a lawe i ka manawa no ka hoʻohou ʻana i ka ʻuhane. E ʻōlelo paha ʻo ia ʻaʻole i kekahi manawa, kau palena ʻana i kāna hoʻokō i ka haumāna.

Pēlā nō, kahi haumāna e manaʻo nui ana i kā lākou kumu aʻo e ʻimi nei paha i kahi pilina paʻa me ka mea hewa. Pono nā mea aʻo e mahalo i nā palena a ʻimi i kahi pilina pili loa me kekahi mea ʻē aʻe ma mua o ke kumu aʻo.

Hiki iā mākou ke lilo i kumu aʻo a haumāna, akā ʻaʻole me ka hoa like. ʻIke paha mākou i kahi mea manaʻoʻiʻo makua e alakaʻi iā mākou i ka ʻōlelo a ke Akua, ʻoiai mākou e manawa manawa e alakaʻi i kahi mea ukali hou na Kristo.

ʻOkoʻa ka pilina aloha ma mua o ke alakaʻi ʻana i nā hoa aloha. ʻAʻole hana maʻamau kēia mau pilina i ka pō hoʻokahi. ʻO ka maʻamau, hoʻomohala lākou i ka manawa ke hele nei nā hoa ʻelua i ka naʻau ʻuhane a me ke oʻo. Pua maoli ka launa aloha Kalikiano ke ulu ʻelua mau hoa i ka manaʻoʻiʻo, ka maikaʻi, ka ʻike a me nā lokomaikaʻi akua ʻē aʻe.

Nā ʻano o nā hoa aloha Kalikiano maoli
No laila, he aha ke ʻano o ka pili aloha Kalikiano? E wāwahi iā ia i mau ʻano i maʻalahi e ʻike.

Mohai aloha

John 15: 13: ʻAʻohe o ke aloha nui loa o kēia, ka mea i waiho i kona ola no kāna mau hoaaloha. (NIV)

ʻO Iesū ke kumu hoʻohālikelike maikaʻi loa o ka hoa aloha Karistiano. ʻO kāna aloha iā mākou he mōhai, ʻaʻole kūʻē. ʻAʻole ʻo ia i hōʻike i kēia ma o kāna mau hana mana hoʻōla wale nō, akā ʻoi aku ka nui ma o ka lawelawe haʻahaʻa ʻana o ka holoi ʻana i nā wāwae o kāna poʻe haumāna, a ʻo ka hopena i ka wā i haʻalele ai i kona ola ma ke keʻa.

Inā koho mākou i kā mākou mau hoaaloha ma muli wale nō o kā lākou mea e hāʻawi ai, ʻaʻole ʻike pinepine mākou i nā hoʻomaikaʻi o kahi aloha akua maoli. 'Sayslelo nā Pilipi 2: 3, "Mai hana i kekahi mea no ka makemake pilikino a lapuwale paha, akā i ka hoʻohaʻahaʻa e manaʻo i nā poʻe ʻē aʻe ma mua o ʻoe iho." Ma ka hoʻowaiwai ʻana i nā pono o kāu hoa ma luna o kāu pono iho, e hele pono ʻoe i ke aloha e like me Iesū. I ke kaʻina hana, e loaʻa paha iā ʻoe kahi hoaaloha maoli.

ʻAe me ka ʻole

Nā Huaʻōlelo 17:17: aloha mau kahi hoaaloha a hānau ʻia kahi hoahānau ma waho o ka pilikia. (NIV)

ʻIke mākou i ka maikaʻi o ka launa aloha ʻana me nā kaikunāne e ʻike a ʻae i ko mākou nāwaliwali a me nā hemahema.

Inā huhū maʻalahi a aloha ʻole mākou i ka ʻawaʻawa, e hakakā mākou e hana i mau hoaaloha. ʻAʻohe mea hemolele. Hana hewa mākou a pau mai kēlā manawa a kēia manawa. Inā mākou e nānā pono iā mākou iho, e ʻae mākou he hewa kā mākou i ka wā e hewa ai nā mea i kahi aloha. Ua mākaukau kahi hoa aloha e noi no ke kala ʻana a mākaukau e kala.

Hilinaʻi paʻa loa ʻo ia

ʻ Proverbslelo 18:24: ʻO ke kāne o nā hoa aloha he nui e hele i ka luku, akā aia kekahi hoaaloha pili pili ma mua o ke kaikaina. (NIV)

Hōʻike kēia ʻōlelo nūhou he mea hilinaʻi ka hoaaloha Karistiano ʻoiaʻiʻo, akā hōʻike pū kekahi i ka ʻoiaʻiʻo nui ʻelua. Pono mākou e kaʻana i ka hilinaʻi piha me kekahi o nā hoa aloha. ʻO ka hilinaʻi maʻalahi hiki ke alakaʻi i ka hōʻino, no laila e akahele mai hilinaʻi ʻole i ka wahine maʻalahi. Ma ka hala ʻana o ka manawa, e hōʻoia ko mākou mau hoa aloha Kalikiano i ko lākou hilinaʻi ma ka noho kokoke ʻana ma mua o kahi kaikunāne a kaikuahine paha.

Mālama i nā palena olakino

1 Korinto 13: 4: ahonui ke aloha, lokomaikaʻi ke aloha. Mai lili ... (NIV)

Inā kuhi ʻia ʻoe i kahi aloha, ua hewa kekahi mea. Pēlā nō, inā ʻoe e hoʻohana a hoʻomāinoino ʻia, hewa kekahi mea. Ke hoʻomaopopo nei i ka mea maikaʻi loa no kekahi a me ka hāʻawi ʻana i kahi i kēlā kanaka i mau hōʻailona o ka pilina olakino. ʻAʻole mākou e hoʻokuʻu i kahi hoaaloha e hele mai ma waena o mākou a me kā mākou wahine. E pale ke hoa aloha Kalikiano maoli i ke komo hewa ʻana a e ʻike ʻo ia i kou pono e mālama i nā pilina ʻē aʻe.

Hāʻawi ia i nā loli like

Nā Hanana 27: 6: Hiki ke hilinaʻi ʻia nā ʻeha a ke hoa ... (NIV)

ʻO nā hoa aloha Kalikiano e kūkulu kekahi i kekahi i ka naʻau, ka ʻuhane, a me ke kino. Makemake nā hoa e noho maʻalahi no ka mea maikaʻi ka manaʻo. Loaʻa mākou i ka ikaika, ka hoʻoikaika a me ke aloha. Kamaʻilio mākou, uē mākou, hoʻolohe mākou. Akā i kekahi manawa pono mākou e ʻōlelo i nā mea paʻakikī a kā mākou hoaaloha pili pono e lohe ai. Ma muli o ka hilinaʻi like a me ka ʻae ʻia, ʻo mākou wale nō ka mea hiki ke hoʻopili i ka puʻuwai o kā mākou hoaaloha, ke ʻike mākou pehea e lawe ai i ka leka paʻakikī me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo a me ka lokomaikaʻi. Ke manaʻoʻiʻo nei wau i kēia manaʻo ʻOlelo 27:17 i ka ʻōlelo ʻana, "E like me ka hao e hoʻokala ai i ka hao, pēlā nō kekahi e hoʻokala ai i kekahi."

I ko mākou nānā ʻana i kēia ʻano o ke aloha lani, ua ʻike paha mākou i nā wahi e pono ai kekahi mau hana i kā mākou hana e kūkulu i nā paʻa paʻa. Akā inā ʻaʻohe ou mau hoa pili, mai paʻakikī loa iā ʻoe iho. E hoʻomanaʻo, ʻo nā hoaaloha Kalikiano maoli he waiwai waiwai ʻole ia. Lawe lākou i ka manawa e mahi, akā i ke kaʻina hana, lilo mākou i Karistiano.