Pili ma ka Baibala

ʻO ka male ka pilikia nui i ke ola Kalikiano. Hāʻawi ʻia nā puke, nā makasina, a me nā kumuwaiwai aʻoaʻo a ka male i ke kumuhana o ka hoʻomākaukau male a me ka hoʻomaikaʻi o ka male. I ka Baibala, aia ma mua o 500 mau kuhikuhi i ka Old and New Testament i nā huaʻōlelo "male", "male", "kāne" a me "wahine".

Male male Keristiano i kēia lā
Wahi a nā hōʻike helu helu i mālama ʻia ma nā hui kanaka like ʻole, kahi male i hoʻomaka i kēia lā ma kahi o 41-43 pākēneka paha e pau i ka male male. ʻO ka noiʻi i hōʻuluʻulu ʻia e Glenn T. Stanton, ka luna o Global Insight no ka hoʻohou moʻomeheu a me ka ʻohana a me ka loiloi kiʻekiʻe no ka male a me ka moekolohe ma Focus on the Family, e hōʻike ana he poʻe Kalikiano euanelio e hele mau nei i ka hemo ʻana o ka hale pule ma kahi haʻahaʻa haʻahaʻa 35% i hoʻohālikelike ʻia me nā kāne o kēia ao. ʻIke ʻia nā ʻano like i ka hana a ka poʻe Kakolika a me nā Protestant e hana nei ma ka laina mua. I ka hoʻohālikelike ʻana, ʻo nā Karistiano inoa, ʻo ka mea liʻiliʻi a hele ʻole i ka hale pule, ʻoi aku ka nui o ka nui o ka male ma mua o nā kāne.

ʻO Stanton, ʻo ia nō ka mea nāna i kākau No ke aha he mea nui o ka male ʻana: nā kumu e manaʻoʻiʻo ai i ka male ma ka Postmodern Society, e hōʻike ana: "ʻO ka hoʻokō haipule, ma kahi o ka pili haipule maʻalahi, e kōkua i nā pae kiʻekiʻe o ka kūleʻa o ka male."

Inā he kūpaʻa maoli i kāu hilinaʻi Karistiano e hopena i ka male ikaika, a laila paha he ʻōlelo nui kā ka Baibala e pili ana i kēia kumuhana.

Ua hoʻolālā ʻia ka haleʻaina no ka launa a me ka launa pū
ʻ said maila ʻo Iēhova ke Akua, ʻAʻole maikaʻi ke noho wale ʻo ke kanaka. E hana wau i kōkua kūpono nona '... a ʻoiai ʻo ia e hiamoe ana, lālau akula ia i kekahi o nā iwi ʻaoʻao o ke kāne a pani ʻia me ka ʻiʻo o kahi.

A hana iho la o Iehova ke Akua i ka wahine mai ka iwi aoao ona i lawe mai ai mai ke kane mai, a alakai ae la ia ia i ke kane. ʻ saidlelo aku ua kāne nei, “ʻO kēia ka iwi o kuʻu mau iwi a me ka ʻiʻo o kuʻu ʻiʻo; e kapa ʻia ʻo ia "wahine", ʻoiai ua lawe ʻia ʻo ia mai ke kāne ". No kēia kumu e haʻalele ke kāne i kona makuakāne a me kona makuahine a hui me kāna wahine, a lilo lāua i ʻiʻo hoʻokahi. Kinohi 2:18, 21-24, NIV)
Maanei mākou e ʻike ai i ka hui mua ma waena o ke kāne a me ka wahine: ka male mua. Mai kēia moʻolelo i loko o Genesus hiki iā mākou ke hoʻopau i ka manaʻo o ke Akua no ka male, i hoʻolālā ʻia a hoʻokumu ʻia e ka Mea Hana. ʻIke pū mākou aia ma ke kikowaena o ka hoʻolālā a ke Akua no ka male ka pilina a me ka pilina.

Nā kuleana o nā kāne a me nā wahine i ka male
No ka mea, o ke kane, he poo o kana wahine a me Kristo o ke poo o kona kino, ka ekalesia; hāʻawi ʻo ia i kona ola e lilo i Ola nona. E like me ka hāʻawi ʻana o ka halepule iā Kristo, pēlā nō ka wahine e hāʻawi i kāu kāne i nā mea a pau.

A ʻo ke kāne hoʻi, e aloha ʻoe i kā ʻoukou wahine me ke aloha like a Kristo i hōʻike aku ai i ka ʻekalesia. Hoʻolau ʻo ia i kona ola e hoʻāno a maʻemaʻe, holoi ʻia e ka bapetizo a me ka ʻōlelo a ke Akua: a hana ʻo ia i mea e ʻoi ai iā ia i ʻaha o kahi hale pule hanohano me ka ʻole o ka ʻāʻī, nā ʻūhā a i ʻole nā ​​ʻano like ʻole. Ma kahi hoʻi, e hoʻāno a hala ʻole. Pēlā nō, e aloha nā kāne i kā lākou wahine me ke aloha nui i ko lākou kino. No ka mea aloha ke aloha ʻo ke kāne iā ia iho i kāna aloha i kāna wahine. ʻAʻohe kanaka e poina i ko lākou kino akā mālama iā ia me ke aloha, e like me Kristo e mālama pono i kona kino, ʻo ia ka ʻekekema. A ʻo mākou kona kino.
E like me kā ka Palapala Hemolele i ʻōlelo ai, "Haʻalele ke kāne i kona makuakāne a me kona makuahine a hui pū me kāna wahine, a hui pū ʻia lāua ʻelua i hoʻokahi." He mea pohihihi nui kēia, akā he kiʻi ia no ka ʻano o Kristo a me ka hale pule. Epeso 5: 23-32, NLT)
Hoʻonui kēia kiʻi o ka male ma Epeso i kahi mea ākea ākea ma mua o ka ʻoihana a me ka pili aloha. Hōʻike ka pilina male i ka pilina ma waena o Iesū Kristo a me ka hale pule. Kono ʻia nā kāne e haʻalele i ko lākou ola i ke aloha mōhai a me ka pale o nā wahine. I ka ʻapo paʻa a aloha ʻia o ke kāne aloha, he aha ka wahine e makemake ʻole e hāʻawi i kāna alakaʻi?

ʻOkoʻa nā kāne a me nā wahine
Pēlā nō, e ʻae nā wahine i ka mana o kā ʻoukou kāne, ʻo ka poʻe hōʻole i ka ʻeuanelio maikaʻi. E ʻōlelo aku kou mau ola akua iā lākou ma mua o nā huaʻōlelo āpau. E lanakila lākou e ka nānā ʻana i kāu lawena maʻemaʻe a me ke akua.
Mai hopohopo e pili ana i ka nani o waho ... E ʻike ʻia ʻoe no ka nani e hele mai ana mai loko mai, ka nani paʻa ʻole o ka ʻuhane akahai a mālie, a he mea waiwai loa ia i ke Akua ... Pēlā nō, e mahalo nā kāne i kā ʻoukou wahine Hana iā ia me ka ʻike i kou noho pū ʻana. Ua nāwaliwali paha ʻo ia ma mua ou, akā ʻo ia kou hoa like i ka makana a ke Akua o ke ola hou. Inā ʻaʻole ʻoe e mālama iā ia e like me kāu e pono ai, ʻaʻole e pane ʻia kāu mau pule. (1 Petero 3: 1-5, 7, NLT)
E haʻalele kekahi poʻe mea heluhelu ma aneʻi. ʻO ka haʻi ʻana i nā kāne e lawe i kahi hana mana i loko o ka male a me nā wahine i kēia manawa, ʻaʻole ia he kuhikuhi kaulana i kēia lā. ʻOiai, ʻo kēia hoʻonohonoho ma ka mare ʻana ke ʻano o ka pilina ma waena o Iesū Kristo a me kāna wahine mare, ka halepule.

ʻO kēia pauku ma 1 Peter ua hoʻohui nui i nā wahine e hoʻouna i kā lākou kāne, ʻo ia hoʻi i ka poʻe ʻike ʻole iā Kristo. ʻOiai he paʻakikī paʻakikī kēia, ʻōlelo ka mokuna i ka mana o ka wahine a me ka nani o loko e lanakila ai ke kāne ma mua o kāna mau ʻōlelo. Pono nā kāne e hoʻomaikaʻi i kā lākou wahine, ʻoluʻolu, lokomaikaʻi a hoʻomaopopo hoʻi.

Akā, inā ʻaʻole mākou e makaʻala, e poina i ka ʻōlelo ʻana o ka Baibala, he poʻe like kāne nā kāne a me nā kāne i ke hāʻawi ʻana o ke Akua no ke ola hou. ʻOiai ua hana ka kāne i ka hana o ka mana a me ke kauoha a hana ka wahine i ka hana i ke kumupaʻa, ʻelua nā kuleana hoʻoilina ma ke aupuni o ke Akua. He ʻokoʻa a kā lākou kuleana

Ke ulu pū nei ke kumu o ka mare ʻana me ka hoʻāno
1 Kolinito 7: 1-2

… Maikaʻi ke kāne ʻaʻole e mare. Akā no ka nui o ka moekolohe, pono i kēlā me kēia kāne kāna wahine ponoʻī, a ʻo kēlā wahine kēia wahine kāna kāne ponoʻī. (NIV)
Hōʻike kēia paukū ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka male ʻole ʻana. ʻAe koke ka poʻe i ka male paʻakikī. Ma loko o ka mōʻaukala a pau, ua manaʻo ʻia he hiki ke hoʻokō ʻia i ka ʻuhane hohonu ma o ke ola i hoʻolaʻa ʻia i ka launa ʻole.

ʻO kēia paukū e pili ana i ka moekolohe moekolohe. I nā huaʻōlelo ʻē, ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi o ka male ma mua o ka moekolohe moekolohe. Akā inā mākou e wehewehe pono i ka manaʻo e hoʻohui i nā ʻano moekolohe a pau, hiki iā mākou ke hoʻopili maʻalahi i ka manaʻo pilikino, kuko, makemake e kāohi, inaina a me nā pilikia āpau e kū aʻe ke komo mākou i kahi pili pili.

Hiki paha i kekahi o nā kumu hohonu o ka male (ma waho o ka hānau ʻana, ka pilina, a me ka noho aloha ʻana) ke hoʻoikaika iā mākou e kūʻē i ko mākou ʻano kīnā. E noʻonoʻo e pili ana i nā lawena a me nā ʻano a mākou e ʻike ʻole ai ma waho o kahi pili pili. Inā mākou e ʻae i nā pilikia o ka male e koi iā mākou i ka hakakā ponoʻī, hana mākou i ka aʻo ʻuhane waiwai nui.

I kāna puke, The Holy Marriage, ua nīnau ʻo Gary Thomas i kēia nīnau: "He aha inā ke hoʻolālā ke Akua i ka male e hoʻāno iā mākou ma mua o ka hoʻohauʻoli ʻana iā mākou?" Hiki paha i kahi mea hohonu loa i ka puʻuwai o ke Akua ma mua o ka hoʻohauʻoli ʻana iā mākou?

Me ke kānalua ʻole, hiki i kahi male olakino ke kumu o ka hauʻoli nui a me ka hōʻoluʻolu, akā manaʻo ʻo Toma i kahi mea ʻoi aku ka maikaʻi, kahi mea mau loa - ʻo ia ka male a ke Akua e hana hou ai iā mākou e like me Iesū Kristo.

I ka hoʻolālā a ke Akua, ua kāhea ʻia mākou e hoʻokumu i nā makemake e aloha a lawelawe i kā mākou wahine. Ma o ka male ʻana ua aʻo mākou e pili ana i ke aloha, ka mahalo, ka hanohano a pehea e kala aku ai a kala ʻia ai mākou. ʻIke mākou i ko mākou kīnā a ulu aʻe mai kēlā hihiʻo. Hoʻokumu mākou i ka naʻau o kahi kauā a hoʻokokoke aku i ke Akua. A ʻo ka hopena, ʻike mākou i ka hauʻoli maoli o ka ʻuhane.