ʻO ka kūleʻa a i ʻole kūleʻa o nā mākua (na Father Giulio Scozzaro)

Hoʻomaopopo wau iā St John Bosco, kahi mea aʻo nui i ka poʻe ʻōpio, i kēia mau manawa o ka wāwahi ʻana o ka ʻuhane a me ke kaumaha o ka poʻe ʻōpio. Lohe mākou i nā hōʻike hou aku o ka poʻe ʻōpio i make i kau ʻia e nā lāʻau a i ʻole nā ​​hakakā huhū ma waena o lākou. ʻO ka pākēneka o ka poʻe ʻōpio i kēia lā ʻaʻole pule a ʻike paha he kiʻekiʻe ʻo Iesū, ma mua o 95%. Pehea ka manaʻo o nā mākua?
He mea kupaianaha ʻo San Giovanni Bosco me nā keiki, ka poʻe ʻōpio, he mau kaukani mau keiki i haʻalele ʻia ma ke alanui o ke kūlanakauhale ʻo Turin me ka haunaele, a me ka hoʻolaʻa nui ʻana ua hoʻolaʻa ʻo ia iā ia iho i ko lākou ola. Ua hōʻiliʻili ʻo ia iā lākou mai ke alanui, he mau keiki makua ʻole ka hapa nui o lākou, ua haʻalele ʻia kekahi poʻe e ko lākou mau mākua no ka ʻilihune a me ka nānā ʻole.
ʻO ka haʻiʻōlelo a San Giovanni Bosco i hāpai ai he wahi ia e mālama ai i ka nui o ka poʻe ʻōpio mai ka palaualelo weliweli, mai ka palaualelo kūwaho a me kēia hōʻoluʻolu ʻole e alakaʻi i ka makemake e ulu i nā lāʻau, ka wai ʻona a me ka moekolohe maikaʻi ʻole.
ʻO ka pilikia maoli i kēia lā ka nele o ka hoʻokumu haipule, ʻaʻohe o lākou ʻike kūpono i nā waiwai kanaka a ola e like me ka nalowale a me ka hopena.
ʻO nā hemahema nā mākua. Hōʻike nā hanauna ʻelua hope loa i nā mākua e pili wale ana me ka ʻoluʻolu i kā lākou keiki i nā mea āpau, e waiho manuahi ana lākou i ka home i kēlā me kēia hola o ka pō, e ʻae ana i nā mea kūpono ʻole a kūpono ʻole hoʻi i ke kanaka.
Hoʻopunipuni lākou iā lākou iho i ka loaʻa ʻana o nā keiki maikaʻi loa i ka ʻike ʻana iā lākou hauʻoli akā hele mai kēia mai ka hāʻawi ʻana iā lākou i nā mea āpau a lākou e noi ai.
Koe wale no kekahi, ʻaʻole ʻike nā mākua ʻē aʻe āpau i nā hoʻolālā a me nā wahaheʻe o kā lākou keiki, ka mea a lākou e hana ai ke hele lākou i waho, kahi a lākou e hele ai a me kā lākou hana. ʻAʻole lākou i ʻike i nā hewa o kā lākou keiki a hoʻomaikaʻi iā lākou me he mea lā he kūpono ʻole a hana pololei ʻoiai ke kaʻawale lākou mai ka home ...
ʻO nā mākua i ʻike i nā hewa nui loa o kā lākou mau keiki a pani i ko lākou mau maka i nā mea āpau, nānā ʻole a wehewehe paha lākou i nā hemahema a me ka ʻoiaʻiʻo me ke koʻikoʻi koʻikoʻi, no ko lākou aloha hewa a waiho i kā lākou keiki e ʻae iā lākou e hana i nā mea āpau.
Pono nā mākua e aloha mau i kā lākou keiki, akā pono lākou e ʻike i ka palena o kā lākou keiki a me nā hemahema e kōkua iā lākou a, inā pono, hōʻino pinepine iā lākou. ʻO ke aloha maoli kēia, pono lākou e hōʻike mau i ka mea pololei e hana ai, he aha ka mea e pōmaikaʻi ai ka ʻuhane, ka lunamanaʻo.
Me ka hoʻoponopono ʻole, me ka holo pono ʻole ʻana, ulu ka poʻe ʻōpio i waho, waho o ke poʻo, ʻoiai he mau mele maikaʻi, hōʻike maikaʻi a mālie hoʻi i ka hale.
I KE KEIKI A KE ANA O KA HAMU, LAWE OE I KANAKA A PAU E HIKI I KANA makemake, ʻaʻole nō e hōʻike i kāna mau mea a me ka nui o ka ʻeha a me nā HOA!
ʻO ke ala e hele ai me nā keiki i ka makahiki o ka hoʻomohala pono he aloha, kūmau a formative, e kamaʻilio nui ana iā lākou e hoʻoponopono iā lākou. He nui nā mākua e ʻike iā lākou iho he mau keiki kiʻekiʻe ke hele aku lākou me nā hoaaloha, a i ʻole nā ​​mea hōʻalo lāʻau, a i ʻole ka mea i pili i ka ʻōlelo pelapela ʻole a laila hoʻi i ko lākou mau home me ka maka e like me nā ʻānela liʻiliʻi ... Aia i hea nā mākua?
Koe no kekahi, ʻaʻohe mālama nā mākua ʻē aʻe i ka aʻo haipule o kā lākou keiki, malia paha ua māʻona lākou i ka wā i hele ai i Mass akā ʻo kēia wale nō ka hana mua. Pono e hoʻokumu ʻia nā keiki e ke kamaʻilio nui ʻana me lākou i ka wā he kamaliʻi lākou i mea e ʻike ai i ke ʻano a me nā nāwaliwali, a ʻo nā hilahila hoʻi e hāmau e hōʻike ʻole i ko lākou nāwaliwali.
Pono nā keiki e hoʻolohe, hoʻolohe a hāhai i nā ʻōlelo aʻo a nā mākua no ko lākou ola a no ka makahiki a pono ke kaulike kēia, akā ʻaʻole ia ma muli o ka huikau o ka noʻonoʻo a me ka nāwaliwali o ka honua o nā mākua.
Aloha maoli ka makua i kāna mau keiki ke mālama nui ʻo ia i ko lākou ʻuhane, e ola mau loa lākou, ʻoiai e pala ke kino. Akā ʻaʻole wale nā ​​mākua e hopohopo e pili ana i nā ʻuhane, he mea nui ia i ke olakino kino o kā lākou keiki, me ka meaʻai kūpono a me nā mea e pono ai no kahi ola hanohano.
Aia ke aloha ʻuhane a makua hoʻi o nā mākua no kā lākou poʻe keiki ke lawe lākou i kahi aʻo haipule e like me kaʻeuanelio.
ʻO ke kiʻi kupaianaha o St. John Bosco ke kumu hoʻohālikelike o nā mākua āpau, ʻo ia me ka "ʻano hana pale" i hiki ai iā ia ke hoʻopaʻa i nā moʻo ʻōpio e like me nā holoholona, ​​hoʻolaʻa ʻia no ka moekolohe, ʻaihue a me nā ʻano lawehala āpau.
Hiki ke hoʻōla i ka poʻe ʻōpio pae, he aloha nui, he pili, he alakaʻi paʻa a hoʻomau hoʻi, pule mau no lākou.
I ke aʻo a me ka nohona civic o nā keiki a me nā ʻōpio, he mea nui ia e aʻo aku iā lākou i nā hopena o ko lākou ʻano kolohe a me ka hana kolohe pinepine, hāʻawi ia iā lākou i ka makaʻala i hana pinepine ʻole ʻia e lākou no ka mea palaka lākou a ʻaʻole hoʻi hoʻomanaʻo i nā ʻōlelo aʻo a ko lākou mau mākua.
Me ka ʻole o kēia mau hoʻomanaʻo a me ka nele o ka hopena no kekahi mau lā o ka makemake o kā lākou keiki, ʻaʻole kōkua nā mākua i nā keiki a me nā keiki.
He hana maoli ke aloha iā lākou e kāhea iā lākou me ke kūpaʻa a me ke aloha nui, a i ʻole inā lawe lākou a pono nā mea āpau.
ʻAʻole pono e hāʻawi ʻia nā keiki (keiki a ʻōpio paha) i nā mea āpau a lākou e koi ai he capricious, inā nāwaliwali lākou i kēia a legitimize iā lākou iho, ua lanakila lākou.
He hana maikaʻi e hoʻolilo iā lākou i "loaʻa" me ka mahalo i nā lālā o ka ʻohana, kahi hana kūpono ʻole i loko a i waho hoʻi, me ka hoʻokō ʻana i nā hana, nā mea e pili ana iā lākou, e like me ka pule, ka hoʻokō e hoʻopaʻa haʻawina, ka mahalo i nā mea āpau. o ka lumi a kōkua e hāʻawi a puni ka hale.
Hāʻawi ka ʻike Civic i ke kumu aʻo i nā hanauna e hiki mai ana, ka poʻe e noho ana i nā kūlana, a pono e hana ʻia ka lunamanaʻo e nā mākua.
A hiki i ko lākou impregnated me ka ʻino, maʻemaʻe ka poʻe ʻōpio, he kumuwaiwai ia e hoʻoheheʻe ʻia a hana ʻia lākou e nā hiʻohiʻona i loaʻa iā lākou. ʻAʻole wale ia ka noho ʻoluʻolu a kūpaʻa hoʻi o nā mākua, ka ʻoiaʻiʻo o nā kumu, ka mea e hoʻoholo ai i ka kūleʻa o ka naʻau.
ʻAʻole hōʻike pinepine ke alanui, ke kaiapuni, ke olakino, nā manawa kūpono a me nā kūleʻa "aʻo" i nā hopena aʻo a me ka hoʻololi ʻana i nā ʻano civic, ʻaʻole ia no ka moʻomeheu o ka lawehala a me ka hana ʻino, i loaʻa iā lākou mai ka pūnaewele a mai ke kīwī. e nā mea mele me ka ʻole o ka waiwai pono a me ka poʻe mahiʻai pinepine.
I kēia lā ʻaneʻane ulu aʻe ka poʻe ʻōpio me ka palekana ʻole a me nā kuhikuhi pololei mai ko lākou mau mākua mai.
ʻO ka noʻonoʻo i hoʻokomo ʻia i kēia lā e ka pāpāho lehulehu e hāʻawi i ka poʻe ʻōpio i kahi swagger he mau makahiki i hala aku nei i manaʻo ʻole ʻia, a ke hōʻike nei hoʻi kēia i ka nāwaliwali o nā mākua i kuhihewa ʻia no ka maikaʻi, ka lokomaikaʻi, ka lokomaikaʻi. Ma muli o ke kūlike ʻole i ke ʻano hana naʻaupō ʻole, hiki ʻole ke kamaʻilio pū me nā keiki, nāwaliwali ke hāpai aʻe nā keiki i ko lākou mau leo ​​a i ʻole ka uē ʻana.
ʻO ia ka piha ʻole o ka hana a nā mākua a me nā hana aʻo.
Ma ʻItalia ke ulu nui nei ka ulia pōpilikia aʻo a me ka hemahema o ke aʻo ʻōnaehana a koʻikoʻi hoʻi o nā lula o ke ola kīwila, me nā loina maikaʻi a me nā loina maikaʻi.
Pale aku wau i ka ʻōpio a hāʻawi aku i nā mākua i ke kuleana o ka kuleana kūpono ʻole o ka hoʻomana a me ka hana pono. Pono e ʻōlelo ʻia e alakaʻi maʻalahi ʻia i ka poʻe ʻōpio i aʻo maikaʻi ʻia i kēia lā e kekahi poʻe ʻōpio naʻaupō ʻole, ka mea hoʻopilipili i ka moekolohe a hemahema i ke aʻo ʻana.
He paʻakikī ka makua, a laila me ka ʻole o ka pule, me ke kōkua ʻole o Iesū hiki ʻole iā ʻoe ke alo i ka poʻe ʻōpio a he kūleʻa maoli ia.
I loko o ka ʻeuanelio, hoʻāla ʻo Iesū i kaikamahine, no laila pono nā mākua āpau e noi i ka Haku e hānai i kā lākou keiki mai kahi ola lapuwale, ka noʻonoʻo kolohe a me ka make, mai nā ʻano hana āpau i kū ʻole i ka pono Karistiano.
Pono nā mākua e kōkua nui i kā lākou poʻe keiki mai ka wā kamaliʻi mai, ʻaʻole ia ka hauʻoli maoli i ka wā e māʻona ai lākou iā lākou i nā mea āpau, akā ke ulu lākou e like me kā Iesu makemake.
Ke nalowale ke kanaka ʻōpio a pule nui ʻo ia nona, kāna hoʻohuli ʻana, koi ʻia kāna ala ʻuhane, noi pinepine ʻo Iesū a komo i ka wā i loaʻa iā ia ka wehe i ka puʻuwai o ka ʻōpio. Aloha ʻo Iesū i ka poʻe ʻōpio āpau a makemake e hoʻopakele i kēlā me kēia kanaka mai ka hoʻohewa mau loa, iā ʻoukou nā mākua ke kuleana o ke aʻo ʻana i kā ʻoukou poʻe keiki e pule.
Hiki i nā stragglers a me ka hilinaʻi ʻole i ke Akua ke hoʻololi a lilo i mau Karistiano maikaʻi, mālama i ka pono, e nā pule a ko lākou mau mākua.