Betrayal: he aha nā hopena maikaʻi a me nā hopena ʻole
He aha kā mākou e ʻōlelo ai e pili ana i ka kumakaia? ʻAʻole hoʻokau hou ʻia ka male male i kēia lā e like me nā makahiki i hala. ʻAʻole kuleana hou ka loaʻa ʻana o nā keiki a ʻaʻole paha he kuleana hou e lilo i wahine. Akā pono mākou e ʻae i kēia lā ua male mākou no ke aloha a kokoke i kahi liʻiliʻi no nā hoihoi. I kekahi manawa hana ʻia kahi ʻano nui o ka pilina male ma ke ʻano haʻahaʻa: kuleana! A aia kekahi hopena!
Dal manaʻo pili kānāwai ʻAʻole hiki ke manaʻo ʻia he kipi ke kolohe a me ka hana kolohe. Me kēia ʻaʻole hiki iā mākou ke ʻōlelo e pakele me ia no ka mea he hopena nō ka i hiki ʻole ke noʻonoʻo ʻia he koʻikoʻi kona.
No laila, he kumakaia ka mea hoʻokahi pilina me kahi kāne male ʻē aʻe ma mua o kāu wahine. Me he mea lā he ʻāpana lākou o ka kumakaia nā pilina platonic a i ʻole ka pili pūnaewele. Hana mākou i ka hoʻokaʻawale ma waena o ka kipi a me ka moekolohe e like me ke kānāwai mokuʻāina. Kuhi ka Betrayal i kahi mea i kapa ʻia "haule" a me kamoe kolohe hana ʻia ia i kahi pilina pili maoli i nā hihia ʻelua i hoʻopaʻi ʻia me ka hoʻopaʻi kālā.
Akā mai ia manawa manaʻo pono o ka manaʻo He mea liʻiliʻi ka mea nāna lākou e hoʻokau i nā kumukūʻai, he mea ʻole ke hemo a he mea ʻole ia i ka male hou. Hoʻopaʻi ʻia ʻo Treason e Baibala Hemolele 18.20 "ʻAʻole ʻoe e launa kino aku me ka wahine a kou hoalauna e hoʻohaumia iā ʻoe iho me ia". Hoʻāhewa ʻia ka moekolohe e ke kānāwai akua, i ka wā kahiko a ʻo ka hoʻopaʻi make ka mea i hoʻohana ʻia, ʻoiai no ka poʻe i hoʻopau i nā pilina ma mua o ka male.
Kipi, pehea ka hale pule?
No ka Halepule Kakolika ka male ʻana hoʻokahi wale nō i koe no ke ola, ke make ʻole kahi o nā kāne ʻelua. ʻAʻole ia e haʻalele i nā liturgies akā ʻaʻole hiki ke komo i ka papa ʻaina a ka Haku a i ʻole mālama i nā kuleana o nā kūpuna makuahine. A ʻokoʻa iki ua hana ʻia i ka hale pule a i ʻole hiki ke hoʻopau i ka male ma o ka ʻaha pule inā hōʻike ʻia aia ka hope ma mua o ka male.