Wehe ʻia i nā leka Kristiano

E ka Wahine Kalikiano aloha, inā ua hele ʻoe i kahi seminare a heluhelu paha i kahi puke e aʻo ai i ka makemake o nā kāne Kalikiano i loko o ka wahine, ua lohe paha ʻoe i ka ʻimi ʻana o nā wahine i ke aloha a me ka pili aloha a ʻimi nā kāne i ka mahalo.

Ma ka inoa o ke kanaka i kou ola, makemake wau e haʻi aku iā ʻoe i ka nui o ka mahalo iā mākou.

Mai nā comedies e pili ana i ke kūlana The Honeymooners in the 50s to The King of Queens i kēia lā, ua hōʻike ʻia mākou nā kānaka he buffoons. Hiki i kēia ke hoʻohauʻoli i nā hōʻike TV, akā i ke ola maoli, ʻeha ia. Hiki iā mākou ke hana i nā mea lapuwale a i ʻole nā ​​​​mea ʻōpio, akā ʻaʻole mākou he clowns, a ʻoiai ʻaʻole hiki iā mākou ke hōʻike pinepine i ko mākou mau manaʻo, loaʻa iā mākou nā manaʻo maoli.

He aha nā kāne Karistiano e makemake ai i ka wahine: ʻO ka mahalo iā ʻoe he mea nui ia iā mākou. Ke paio nei makou. Ke hoʻāʻo nei mākou e hoʻokō i kāu mau manaʻolana kiʻekiʻe no mākou, akā ʻaʻole maʻalahi. Ke hoʻohālikelike ʻoe iā mākou me nā kāne a i ʻole nā ​​hoaaloha o kāu mau hoaaloha e kuhikuhi i ko mākou mau hemahema, ʻike ʻole ʻia mākou. ʻAʻole hiki iā mākou ke lilo i mea ʻē aʻe. Ke ho'āʻo nei mākou, me ke kōkua o ke Akua, e ola e like me ko mākou hiki.

ʻAʻole loaʻa iā mākou ka mahalo e pono ai mākou i kā mākou hana. Ke makemake nui ka luna iā mākou, mālama ʻo ia iā mākou me ka mahalo ʻole. I kekahi manawa ʻaʻole maopopo, akā loaʻa iā mākou ka leka. Hoʻomaopopo ikaika mākou nā kānaka me kā mākou hana a hiki i ka lā paʻakikī ke huhū iā mākou.

Ke ho'āʻo mākou e wehewehe iā ʻoe, mai hōʻemi ʻoe ma ka haʻi ʻana iā mākou ua lawe pilikino mākou iā ia. ʻO kekahi kumu ʻaʻole mākou e haʻi pinepine i ko mākou mau manaʻo iā ʻoe, ʻo ia ka wā e hana ai mākou, e ʻakaʻaka paha ʻoe iā mākou a haʻi paha iā mākou he lapuwale mākou. ʻAʻole mākou e hana pēlā iā ʻoe ke huhū ʻoe. Pehea e hōʻike ai i ke kānāwai gula iā mākou?

Makemake ʻoe e hilinaʻi mākou iā ʻoe, akā haʻi ʻoe iā mākou i kahi mea a kou hoaaloha i haʻi aku ai iā ʻoe e pili ana i kāna kāne. ʻAʻole pono ʻo ia i haʻi mua iā ʻoe. Ke hui ʻoe me kou mau hoaaloha a mau kaikuahine, mai kumakaia i ko mākou hilinaʻi. Ke hoʻomāʻewaʻewa nā wāhine ʻē aʻe i kā lākou kāne a i ʻole nā ​​​​hoa hoa kāne, e ʻoluʻolu mai hui pū me mākou. Makemake mākou e hana pololei ʻoe iā mākou. Makemake mākou e kūkulu ʻoe iā mākou. Makemake mākou e mahalo ʻoe iā mākou.

Ua ʻike mākou ʻoi aku ka wikiwiki o ka oʻo ʻana o nā wahine ma mua o nā kāne a ua lili mākou iā lākou. Ke hana ʻole mākou - a hana pinepine mākou - e ʻoluʻolu, mai ʻakaʻaka iā mākou a e ʻoluʻolu mai ʻakaʻaka iā mākou. ʻAʻohe mea e hōʻeha i ka hilinaʻi o ke kanaka ma mua o ka ʻakaʻaka. Inā ʻoe e hana mai iā mākou me ka lokomaikaʻi a me ka hoʻomaopopo ʻana, e aʻo mākou mai kāu hiʻohiʻona.

Ke hana nei mākou i ka mea maikaʻi loa. Ke kūʻē mākou nā kānaka iā Iesu a ʻike i ko mākou kokoke ʻana, hoʻonāwaliwali loa mākou. Makemake mākou e hoʻomanawanui, lokomaikaʻi a aloha, akā ʻaʻole mākou i laila a me ka lohi o kā mākou holomua.

No kekahi o mākou, ʻaʻole hiki iā mākou ke ana i ko mākou makuakāne. ʻAʻole paha mākou e like me kou makuakāne, akā ʻaʻole pono mākou e hoʻomanaʻo iā ʻoe. E manaʻoʻiʻo mai iaʻu, ua ʻike nui mākou i ko mākou mau hemahema.

Makemake mākou i kahi pilina aloha a hoʻokō e like me ʻoe, akā ʻaʻole pinepine mākou i ʻike pehea e hana ai. Ua ʻike nō hoʻi mākou ʻaʻole nā ​​kāne
ua like lākou me nā wahine, no laila inā hiki iā ʻoe ke alakaʻi mālie iā mākou, e kōkua ia.

Nui nā manawa ʻaʻole mākou maopopo i kāu makemake. Hōʻike ko mākou moʻomeheu iā mākou he waiwai a kūleʻa nā kāne, akā no ka hapa nui o mākou ʻaʻole i holo maikaʻi ke ola a he nui nā lā ke manaʻo nei mākou he hemahema. Pono mākou i kāu hōʻoiaʻiʻo aloha ʻaʻole kēlā mau mea i kāu mea nui. Pono mākou e haʻi mai iā mākou ʻo ko mākou puʻuwai ka mea āu e makemake nui ai, ʻaʻole he hale piha i nā mea waiwai.

Ma mua o nā mea āpau, makemake mākou e lilo ʻoe i hoaaloha maikaʻi loa. Pono mākou e ʻike inā haʻi mākou iā ʻoe i kahi mea pilikino, ʻaʻole ʻoe e hana hou. Makemake mākou iā ʻoe e ʻike i ko mākou naʻau a kala mai iā mākou. Pono mākou e ʻakaʻaka pū me mākou a hauʻoli nui i ko mākou manawa hui.

Inā hoʻokahi mea a mākou i aʻo ai mai iā Iesu, ʻo ia ka mea koʻikoʻi ka lokomaikaʻi no ka pilina maikaʻi. Makemake mākou e haʻaheo ʻoe iā mākou. Makemake mākou e mahalo a nānā mai iā mākou. Ke hooikaika nei makou e lilo i kanaka au e makemake ai.

ʻO kēia ke ʻano o ka mahalo iā mākou. Hiki iā ʻoe ke hāʻawi mai iā mākou? Inā hiki iā ʻoe, e aloha mākou iā ʻoe ma mua o kou manaʻo.

kakauinoa,

ʻO ke kanaka i kou ola.

e Paolo Tescione