Lub hom phiaj ntawm sab ntsuj plig txog kev kho siab
Peb kawm tau dab tsi los ntawm phau Vajlugkub txog kev nyob ib leeg?
Solitude. Txawm hais tias nws yog txoj kev hloov tseem ceeb, kev sib tawg, kev sib ncaim, kev tso quav zes, lossis vim tias qee lub sijhawm, peb txhua tus tau xav nyob ib leeg. Qhov tseeb, raws li kev tshawb nrhiav los ntawm lub tuam txhab kev tuav pov hwm Cigna, kwv yees li 46% ntawm cov neeg Amelikas qhia txog qee zaum lossis ib txwm nyob ib leeg, thaum tsuas muaj 53% hais tias lawv muaj kev sib tham sib tham txhua hnub.
Nws yog qhov kev nkag siab ntawm "kev kho siab" no uas cov kws tshawb nrhiav thiab kws tshaj lij tau hu xov tooj rau kab mob loj rau tiam 21 no thiab muaj kev txhawj xeeb txog kev mob nkeeg. Nws muaj kev phom sij rau kev noj qab haus huv, cov kws tshawb fawb ntawm Brigham Young University tau tsim, zoo li luam yeeb 15 luam yeeb ib hnub. Thiab Lub Chaw Haujlwm Saib Xyuas Kev Noj Qab Haus Huv thiab Kev Tswj Xyuas Kev Noj Qab Haus Huv (HRSA) kwv yees tias cov neeg laus muaj hnub nyoog 45% muaj feem yuav ua kom tuag taus.
Vim li cas kev nyob ib leeg kho siab khuav? Muaj ntau qhov laj thawj, los ntawm kev siv ntau dua ntawm kev siv cuab yeej technology hla ntawm kev cuam tshuam nrog tus neeg, kom qhov nruab nrab tsev neeg tsawg dua qub nyob rau xyoo, ua rau ntau thiab ntau tus neeg nyob ib leeg.
Tab sis kev kho siab nws tus kheej tsis yog qhov kev xav tshiab, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog thaum nws los txog rau sab ntsuj plig.
Tom qab ntawd, qee tus neeg uas muaj kev ntseeg txaus nyob hauv keeb kwm thiab txawm hais tias yog tus neeg muaj yeej rau ntawm phau Vaj Lug Kub tau ntsib kev kho siab dhau los ua neeg nyob ntsiag to. Yog li puas muaj seem ntawm sab ntsuj plig rau kev kho siab? Vajtswv xav kom peb mus rau qhov kev tab meeg ua neeg twm zeej?
Cov lus qhia tau pib thaum pib, hauv phau ntawv Chiv Keeb, hais tias Lydia Brownback, tus hais lus thiab tus sau ntawm In Search of God hauv Kuv Solitude. Hais tawm tsam qhov nws yuav zoo li, kev nyob ib leeg tsis yog kev rau txim los ntawm Vajtswv lossis kev ua txhaum ntawm nws tus kheej. Nqa qhov tseeb tias tom qab tsim neeg, Vajtswv hais tias, "Tsis zoo uas tus txiv neej yuav tsum nyob ib leeg."
"Vajtswv tau hais tias txawm hais tias ua ntej peb poob rau kev txhaum, nyob rau hauv qhov kev paub tias Nws tsim peb kom muaj lub peev xwm xav tias ib leeg txawm nyob rau lub sijhawm thaum lub ntiaj teb ua tau zoo rau txhua txoj kev," "Qhov tseeb hais tias kev nyob ib leeg kho ua ntej kev txhaum nkag los rau hauv lub ntiaj teb yuav tsum txhais tau tias nws yog qhov zoo uas peb tau ntsib nws thiab nws tsis yog qhov tshwm sim ntawm ib yam dab tsi tsis zoo."
Yog lawm, thaum peb nyob ib leeg txoj kev kho siab tag, ib leeg yeej pab tsis tau tab sis xav tsis thoob: Yog vim li cas Vajtswv thiaj li yuav pub kom peb nyob taus ib leeg? Yuav kom teb tau qhov ntawd, Brownback tau saib ntxiv rau Chivkeeb. Txij thaum chiv keeb los, Vajtswv tsim peb nrog ib qho chaw khoob uas tsuas yog Nws thiaj li sau tau. Thiab rau cov laj thawj zoo.
Nws tau hais tias "Yog tias peb tsis tsim nrog qhov ntawd, peb yuav tsis xav tias muaj ib yam dab tsi ploj lawm," nws hais. "Nws yog ib lub txiaj ntsig kom muaj peev xwm xav tau nyob ib leeg, vim hais tias nws ua rau peb pom tias peb xav tau Vajtswv thiab ua rau peb mus cuag ib leeg".
Tib neeg kev twb kev txuas yog qhov tseem ceeb rau kev txo cov kev kho siab
Saib rau ntawm rooj plaub ntawm Adas, piv txwv li. Tswv Ntuj thiaj kho nws ib leeg kho siab khuav nrog tus khub, Eve. Qhov no tsis txhais tau tias kev ua txij nkawm yog kev kho mob siab rau kev kho siab. Qhov kis, txawm tias cov neeg sib yuav lawm yuav kho siab. Hloov chaw, Brownback hais tias, kev ua khub yog qhov tseem ceeb. Taw rau Phau Ntawv Nkauj 68: 6: "Vajtswv teeb tsa cov neeg kho siab nyob hauv tsev neeg".
Nws hais tias "Qhov ntawd tsis tau txhais hais tias yog ib tus txij nkawm thiab 2.3 tus menyuam," nws hais. “Qhov tseeb mas Vaajtswv tsim tuabneeg lug nyob uake nrug lwm tug, nrug kev sib hlub hab sib hlub. Kev sib yuav tsuas yog ua kom raws nws lub siab xwb. "
Yog li peb yuav ua li cas thaum peb ntsib kev kho siab? Brownback ib zaug tau qhia ntau ntxiv rau zej zog. Hu rau thiab tham nrog ib tug neeg, ua nws cov phooj ywg, tsev neeg, tus kws pab tswv yim, lossis tus kws pab sab ntsuj plig. Koom nrog pawg ntseeg thiab pab cov neeg uas tej zaum yuav yog lonelier dua li koj.
Tsis txhob ntshai lees tias koj nyob ib leeg, rau koj tus kheej lossis rau lwm tus, qhia Brownback. Ua siab ncaj, tshwj xeeb nrog Vajtswv. Koj tuaj yeem pib los ntawm kev thov qee yam xws li, "Vajtswv, Kuv tuaj yeem ua dab tsi los hloov kuv lub neej?"
Brownback hais tias, "Muaj ntau qhov kev paub zoo uas koj tuaj yeem ua tau kom tau txais kev pab tam sim ntawd," “Koom nrog pawg ntseeg, tham nrog ib tus neeg uas koj ntseeg siab, daws lwm tus qhov kev kho siab, thiab thov kom Vajtswv paub txog qhov kev hloov koj tuaj yeem ua raws sijhawm. Thiab qhib rau qee lub caij nyoog tshiab koj tau ntshai dhau sim, txawm nws yog dab tsi los xij. "
Nco ntsoov tias tsis yog koj ib leeg xwb
Tswv Yexus tau nyob ib leeg kho siab khuav tshaj lwm tug, txij ntawm kev yoo mov tom roob moj sab qhua mus rau lub vaj Kebxemanes rau saum ntoo Khaublig.
Brownback hais tias, "Yexus yog tus yawg loj tshaj plaws uas muaj sia nyob." Nws hlub cov neeg uas ntxeev siab rau nws. Nws tau raug mob thiab txuas ntxiv mus sib hlub. Yog li txawm tias qhov xwm txheej phem tshaj, peb tuaj yeem hais "Yexus to taub". Thaum kawg, peb yeej tsis nyob ib leeg vim nws nrog peb nyob. "
Thiab txais kev nplij siab hauv qhov tseeb tias Vajtswv tuaj yeem ua tau ntau yam tshwj xeeb nrog koj lub caij sov.
Brownback hais tias, "Siv koj txoj kev kho siab thiab hais tias, 'Kuv tsis nyiam nws lub siab, tab sis kuv yuav pom nws yog Vajtswv qhov kev pom zoo kom hloov qee yam," "Txawm hais tias nws yog kev rho tawm ntawm koj tus kheej lossis qhov xwm txheej uas Vajtswv tau muab tso rau koj, Nws tuaj yeem siv nws."