Kodi mungathandize bwanji ana anu kusiyanitsa chabwino ndi choipa?

Kodi zikutanthauza chiyani kwa kholo kulera mwana kuti akhale ndi chikumbumtima chabwino? THE ana safuna kusankha kapena chisankho kuti chiperekedwe kwa iwo. Awonetseratu kuti pali chabwino ndi choipa, ndipo nthawi zambiri amadziwa kuti akulakwitsa, ndichifukwa chake amabisala.

Nthawi yomweyo amapuma kuti agwiritse ntchito 'kudzilamulira kupanga zisankho. Koma pafupi ndi zomalizirazi ndikofunikira kuwonjezera kukhulupirika, chinthu chofunikira pakukhazikitsa njira zopangira zisankho. Ndi chitsimikizo chotsatira malinga kuzindikira. Apa ndipomwe kudzipereka kwamaphunziro aubereki kumabwerako. Tikukhala m'dziko lomwe zoipa zili ponseponse ndipo ndichifukwa chake, nthawi zambiri, timafuna kusankha m'malo mwa ana athu, chifukwa timawawona ngati osalimba, osakhoza. M'malo mwake, tiyenera kuphunzira kupanga zikumbumtima m'malo mwazina. Ntchito yathu ndi chowongolera zofunikira kuti chikumbumtima cha ana athu chiziphunzitsidwa, kupangidwa.

Kafukufuku wa zabwino ndi gawo lathu tokha koma nthawi zambiri timayimilira pazabwino zathu, timayeza zosankha ndi zomwe timakonda, chifukwa izi timayamba kudzikonda. Achinyamata ndi achinyamata omwe amawaimba mlandu wosakhudzidwa kwenikweni akulimbana ndi tanthauzo la chikhalidwe chawo. Tsoka ilo amapitiliza kulandira mauthenga ndikupuma chikhalidwe chomwe chimatsimikizira a chopanda kanthu zamakhalidwe. Kwa iwo zili ngati chilichonse chili ndi mtengo wofanana. Potere pamavuto awa,kusapezeka kulera komanso kusokonekera kwa chikhalidwe chakunja, komwe ana athu amakhala ovuta kwambiri, kumatsimikizira kusowa kwamakhalidwe komwe angagwe. Chifukwa chake, kuchita chikumbumtima lero kungatanthauze kuyesetsa kuchita zabwino.

Malingaliro abwinowa azabwino sizogwirizana ndi zabwino zenizeni. Chikumbumtima chomwe chimachita izi sichimazindikira munthuyo. Chidziwitso ndicho danga Malo oyera amene Mulungu amalankhula ndi munthu, ndi malo omwe amamvera mawu a Mulungu scegliere ndiye maziko ochitira malinga ndi chikumbumtima ndipo ndi imodzi mwazofunikira kwambiri. Ana ayenera kupatsidwa ana malamulo zomwe zimawathandiza kusankha. Ayenera kuzindikira kuti nthawi zina amalakwitsa, ayenera kumvetsetsa kuti chikumbumtima chimazindikira choonadi ndipo amalandira ngati mphatso. Tiyenera kuthandiza ana kuzindikira kuti kuchitapo kanthu nthawi zonse kumatsata muyezo. Ichi ndichifukwa chake kuphunzitsa chikumbumtima kumatanthauza aiutare mwana kuti azindikire momwe akuchitira.

Kuchita chikumbumtima kumatanthauza kusuntha ndikusankha momasuka kuti tichite mogwirizana ndi mfundo izi, ndiye cammino kuchita. Chofunika ndikuti mwanayo asunthe ndikusankha mosasamala zaka zake, mkati mwa chimango chomwe ali chitsimikizo zabwino. Makhalidwe oyenera kuperekedwa kwa ana ndi ntchito yophunzitsa pomwe makolo amafunsidwa kuti agwire ntchito.