Nzira gumi dzekuda muvakidzani wako sezvaunozviita

Mwedzi yakati wandei yapfuura, patakatyaira nemunharaunda yedu, mwanasikana wangu akataura kuti imba "yakaipa mukadzi" yaitengeswa. Mukadzi uyu hapana chaakamboita kumwana wangu kuti afunge zita rakadai. Nekudaro, pakanga pasina asingasviki manomwe "Zviratidzo zvekupinda" muchivanze chake. Sezviri pachena, mwanasikana wangu akanzwa kutaura kwandakaita pamusoro pezviratidzo uye saka zita racho rakazvarwa. Ndakabva ndangonzwa kupomedzerwa hunhu hwangu.

Ini handina kumboziva zvakawanda nezvemukadzi aigara kuzasi kwemugwagwa, kunze kwekuti zita rake ainzi Mary, aive mukuru uye aigara ega. Ndakavasimudzira ruoko pandakapasa, asi handina kumbomira kuzvizivisa. Izvi zvaive zvichikonzerwa nenyaya yekuti ini ndaive ndakabatikana nehurongwa hwangu zvekuti handina kubvira ndavhura moyo wangu kune chingangodiwa. Chimwe chikonzero cheuyu mukana wakarasika waingove wekuti ndainzwa kuti hapana chakafanana neni.

Tsika dzakakurumbira dzinowanzo dzidzisa kutsigira vamwe nemaonero akafanana, zvido, kana zvitendero. Asi murairo waJesu unopokana netsika. MunaRuka 10, gweta rinobvunza Jesu kuti anofanira kuitei kuti agare nhaka yehupenyu husingaperi. Jesu akapindura nenyaya yatinoti, Musamariya Akanaka.

Hezvino zvinhu gumi zvatinogona kudzidza kubva kune uyu muSamaria murume nezve kuda vavakidzani vedu sezvatinozviita.

Muvakidzani wangu ndiani?
MuEastern East yekare paive nekukamukana pakati pemapoka akasiyana. Ruvengo rwaivapo pakati pevaJuda nevaSamaria nekuda kwekusiyana kwenhoroondo nekunamata. MaJuda vaiziva mutemo weTestamente Yekare kuti vade Ishe Mwari nemoyo yavo yose, nemweya, nepfungwa, uye nesimba, uye nekuda vavakidzani vavo sezvavanozviita (Deut. 6: 9; Revhitiko. 19:18). Nekudaro, dudziro yavo yemuvakidzani ane rudo yaingogumira kune avo vane mavambo akafanana.

Apo gweta rechiJuda rakabvunza Jesu, "Ndiani muvakidzani wangu?" Jesu akashandisa mubvunzo kupokana nemaonero ezuva iri. Mufananidzo weSamaria Akanaka unotsanangura zvazvinoreva kuda muvakidzani. Munyaya, murume anorohwa nembavha uye osiyiwa ava kufa padivi penzira. Paanorara asingabatsiri mumugwagwa une njodzi, mupristi anoona murume uye anobva afamba nemugwagwa nemaune. Shure kwaizvozvo, muRevhi anopindura nenzira imwechete paanoona murume ari kufa. Pakupedzisira, muSamaria anoona nyajambwa ndokupindura.

Nepo vatungamiriri vaviri vechiJuda vaona munhu ari kushaya uye vachidzivirira nemaune mamiriro acho, muSamaria uyu akataura sepedyo. Akaratidza ngoni kune mumwe munhu zvisinei nekwaakabva, chitendero, kana mukana wekubatsirwa.

Ndinoda sei muvakidzani wangu?
Nekuongorora nyaya yeMusamaria Akanaka, tinogona kudzidza kuda zvirinani vavakidzani vedu nemuenzaniso wemunhu ari munyaya. Hedzino gumi nzira isu dzatinogonawo kuda vavakidzani vedu sekuzvida kwatinoita:

1. Rudo rune chinangwa.
Mumufananidzo, muSamaria paakaona munhu akuvadzwa, akaenda kwaari. MuSamaria aive munzira achienda kune imwe nzvimbo, asi akamira paakaona murume aishaiwa. Tiri kurarama munyika inomhanyisa-mhanya uko kuri nyore kurerutsa zvinodiwa nevamwe. Asi kana tikadzidza kubva mumufananidzo uyu, tichava vakangwarira kuti tizive kune avo vakatikomberedza. Ndiani arikuisa Mwari mumoyo mako kuratidza rudo?

2. Rudo runoteerera.
Imwe yematanho ekutanga kuve muvakidzani akanaka uye kuda vamwe sezvaunozviita kucherechedza vamwe. MuSamariya akaona murume akakuvara kekutanga.

“Asi muSamaria, ari parwendo, akasvika pakanga pane murume uya; akati achimuona, akamunzwira tsitsi. Akaenda kwaari ndokusunga maronda ake, akaadira mafuta newaini, ”Ruka 10:33.

Chokwadi, murume ari kurohwa mumugwagwa zvinoita kunge nzvimbo yakaoma kupotsa. Asi Jesu anotiratidzawo kukosha kwekuona vanhu. Zvinonzwika zvakafanana neSamaria muna Mateo 9:36: "Zvino [Jesu] akati achiona vanhu vazhinji, akavanzwira tsitsi, nekuti vakange vaneta, vasina hanya, semakwai asina mufudzi."

Iwe unogona sei kuve wakazvipira uye uchiziva nezve vanhu muhupenyu hwako?

3. Rudo rune tsitsi.
Ruka 10:33 inoenderera mberi ichiti muSamaria paakaona murume akakuvadzwa, akamunzwira tsitsi. Akaenda kumurume akakuvara ndokumupindura pane zvaaida pane kungomunzwira tsitsi. Ungaite sei kuti uratidze tsitsi kune mumwe munhu anoda rubatsiro?

4. Rudo anopindura.
MuSamaria paakaona murume uyu, akamupindura nekukasika kuzadzisa zvaidiwa nemurume uyu. Akasunga maronda ake achishandisa zviwanikwa zvaaive nazvo. Wakamboona chero munhu arikuda munharaunda yako nguva pfupi yapfuura? Ungaita sei kwavari?

5. Rudo runodhura.
Kana muSamaria paakachengeta maronda emunhu wacho, akapa mari yake. Chimwe chezvinhu zvakakosha kwazvo zvatinazvo inguva yedu. Kuda muvakidzani wake hakuna kungobhadharira muSamaria kana mazuva maviri muhoro, asiwo nguva yake. Mwari akatipa zviwanikwa kuti tikwanise kuva ropafadzo kune vamwe. Ndezvipi zvimwe zviwanikwa zvawakapihwa naMwari zvaunogona kushandisa kuropafadza vamwe?

6. Rudo haruna kukodzera.
Fungidzira uchiedza kusimudza murume akakuvara asina mbatya padhongi. Rakanga risiri basa riri nyore uye pamwe raive rakaomarara nekukuvara kwemurume uyu. MuSamariya aifanirwa kutsigira huremu hwemurume ari ega. Asi akaisa murume uyu pachipfuwo chake kuti amuendese kunzvimbo yakachengeteka. Wakabatsirwa sei nemunhu akakuitira zvese? Pane nzira here yekuratidza rudo kumuvakidzani, kunyangwe isinganzwisisike kana isiri nguva yakanaka?

7. Rudo rwuri kupora.
Mushure mekunge muSamaria apedza kusunga maronda emurume uyu, anoenderera mberi nekumutarisira nekumuendesa kuimba yavaeni nekumuchengeta. Ndiani akaona kupora nekuti iwe wakatora nguva kuda?

8. Rudo nderwechibairo.
MuSamaria akapa muchengeti weimba yavaeni madhinari maviri, akaenzana neinenge mari yamazuva maviri. Zvakadaro kuraira chete kwaakapa ndekwekuchengeta vakakuvara. Pakanga pasina kudzoserwa mukudzoka.

Jennifer Maggio akataura izvi nezve kushandira asingatarisiri chero chinhu kudzoka mu aritlce ​​yake, "Zvinhu gumi izvo Chechi Chingaite Kuhwina Vasingatendi:"

“Kunyange chiri chinhu chakanaka kana mumwe munhu watakashandira akatipa chaicho, moyo, maita basa, hazvina basa kana kudiwa. Basa redu kune vamwe uye kuzvipira kwedu kuitira vamwe ndezve izvo izvo Kristu zvaakatotiitira. Hapana chimwe."

Ndeapi mabayiro iwe aunogona kupa kune mumwe munhu anoshaiwa?

9. Rudo rwakajairika.
Kurapa kwevakakuvadzwa hakuna kupera apo muSamaria aifanira kuenda. Panzvimbo pekusiya murume ari ega, akapa mutarisiri kumuchengeti wevaeni. Kana tichida muvakidzani, muSamaria anotiratidza kuti zvakanaka uye dzimwe nguva zvakafanira kupinza vamwe muchiitiko ichi. Ndiani waunogona kusanganisira kuratidza rudo kune mumwe munhu?

10. Rudo runovimbisa.
MuSamaria paakasiya imba yevaeni, akaudza muchengeti weimba yavaeni kuti achazobhadhara zvimwe zvese paakadzoka. MuSamaria haana kana chikwereti kumuridzi wechinhu, zvisinei akavimbisa kudzoka kuzobhadhara mutengo wechero chekuchengetwa kwaidiwa nemurume uyu. Kana tichida vamwe, muSamaria anotiratidza kuti tinotevedzera tarisiro yedu, kunyangwe isu tisina kusungirwa kwavari. Pane chero munhu waunoda kutendeuka kuti aratidze kuti une hanya zvakadii?

BHONASI! 11. Rudo rune ngoni.
“'Unofunga ndeupi wevatatu ava aive muvakidzani wemurume akawira mumaoko embavha?' Nyanzvi yemutemo yakapindura: "Uyo akamunzwira tsitsi." Jesu akati kwaari, "Enda unoita saizvozvo" "Ruka 10: 36-37.

Nyaya yemuSamaria uyu ndeye yemurume akanzwira mumwe tsitsi. Tsananguro yaJohn MacArthur yetsitsi yakatorwa muichi chinyorwa cheCrosswalk.com, "Zvinofanira Kuzivikanwa nevaKristu Nezve Tsitsi."

“Tsitsi ari kuona murume asina chikafu uye anomupa chikafu. Tsitsi kuona munhu anokumbira rudo uye anomupa rudo. Tsitsi arikuona munhu ega uye achimupa kambani. Tsitsi dzinogutsa zvadzinoda, kwete kungozvinzwira chete, ”akadaro MacArthur.

MuSamaria angadai akaramba achifamba mushure mekuona kushaya kwemurume uyu, asi akabva anzwa tsitsi. Uye aigona kunge akaramba achifamba mushure mekunzwa tsitsi. Isu tese tinoita izvi kazhinji. Asi akaita maererano netsitsi dzake uye akaratidza tsitsi. Ngoni tsitsi mukuita.

Tsitsi chiito chakaitwa naMwari paakanzwa tsitsi nerudo kwatiri. Mundima ine mukurumbira, Johane 3:16, tinoona kuti Mwari anotiona uye anotida. Akaita pane irwo rudo netsitsi nekutumira muponesi.

"Nokuti Mwari akada nyika nokudaro, kuti akapa Mwanakomana wake mumwe oga, kuti ani naani anotenda kwaari arege kufa asi ave noupenyu husingaperi".

Chii chinodiwa nemuvakidzani wako chinotyaira kunzwira tsitsi? Chiito chei chetsitsi chinogona kuperekedza iko kunzwa?

Rudo harutarisiri.
Muvakidzani wangu Mary kubva akatama uye mhuri nyowani yamutengera imba. Kunyange ini ndaigona kuzvimbundikira nemhosva yekuita zvakanyanya semufundisi kana muRevi, ndiri kuzvidenha kuti ndibate vavakidzani vangu vatsva semaSamaria. Nekuti rudo haruratidze rusarura.

Cortney Whiting mukadzi anesimba anoshamisa uye amai vevana vaviri. Akagamuchira Masters ake muTheology kubva kuDallas Theological Seminary. Sezvo akashanda muchechi kweanoda kusvika makore gumi nemashanu, Cortney parizvino anoshanda semutungamiri akasarudzika uye anonyorera kumashumiro akasiyana echiKristu. Unogona kuwana zvimwe zvebasa rake pane rake blog, Rakafukurwa Nyasha.

Kuti uwane rumwe ruzivo nezve maitiro ekuda muvakidzani wako, verenga:
Nzira 10 Dzokuda Muvakidzani Wako Pasina Kusanzwisisika. Ini ndaive nezvikonzero zvese mubhuku rekusada muvakidzani wangu, asi handina kuwana chirevo chemutemo wechipiri mukurusa, Mateo 22: 37-39. Mushure memwedzi yekukakavadzana naMwari, ndakazogogodza pasuo revavakidzani vangu ndikavakoka kuti vanwe kofi patafura yangu yekubikira. Ndakanga ndisingadi kuva chikara kana munhu anonyanyisa. Ini ndaingoda kuve shamwari yavo. Hedzino gumi nzira dzakareruka dzaungade nadzo muvakidzani wako usina kushamisika. "

Nzira nomwe dzekuda muvakidzani wako sezvaunozviita Tinoona zviri nyore kuda vavakidzani vedu sekuzvida kwatinoita. Asi isu hatigaro gumburwa netsitsi kune vanhu, kunyanya vanhu vakaomarara muhupenyu hwedu. Heano nzira nomwe dzinoshanda dzatinganyatsoda nadzo vavakidzani vedu. ”