7 Matipi eBhaibheri Ekukudziridza Shamwari Dzechokwadi

"Hushamwari hunovapo nekushamwaridzana zvakapusa kana shamwari mbiri kana dzinopfuura dzikaona kuti vane zvakafanana chiratidzo kana kufarira kana kunyange kuravira izvo vamwe vasingagovane nazvo uye, kusvika panguva iyoyo, munhu wese akatenda yaive pfuma yavo yakasarudzika (kana mutoro ). Chirevo chaicho chekuvhurwa kweUshamwari chingave chinhu chakadai, 'Chii? Newewo? Ndakafunga kuti ndini ndega. '”- CS Lewis, The Four Loves

Izvo zvinofadza kuwana mumwe wako anogoverana chimwe chinhu chakafanana nesu icho chinobva chashanduka kuita ushamwari hwechokwadi. Nekudaro, pane dzimwe nguva apo kuita nekusimbisa hushamwari hunogara hakusi nyore.

Kune vanhu vakuru, hupenyu hunogona kubatikana nekuyera mabasa akasiyana siyana pabasa, pamba, muhupenyu hwemhuri, uye mune zvimwe zviitiko. Kuwana nguva yekurera hushamwari kunogona kunetsa, uye pachagara paine avo vatinonetseka kubatana navo. Kugadzira ushamwari hwechokwadi kunotora nguva uye kushanda nesimba. Tiri kuzviita pekutanga here? Pane zvinhu here zvatingaite kutanga uye kuenderera ushamwari?

Chokwadi chaMwari kubva muBhaibheri chinogona kutibatsira munguva apo kuwana, kugadzira, uye kuchengetedza hushamwari kunogona kunetsa.

Chii chinonzi ushamwari?
"Ani naani ane shamwari dzisina kuvimbika anokurumidza kuparara, asi kune shamwari inoramba iri pedyo kupfuura hama" (Zvirevo 18:24).

Kubatana pakati paMwari Baba, Mwanakomana neMweya Mutsvene kunoratidzira kuswedera pamwe nehukama hwatinoshuva tese, uye Mwari anotikoka kuti tive chikamu chayo. Vanhu vakagadzirirwa kushamwaridzana sevatakuri vemufananidzo waMwari vatatu uye zvakaziviswa kuti hazvina kunaka kuti munhu ave oga (Mavambo 2:18).

Mwari akasika Evha kuti abatsire Adam uye akafamba navo mubindu reEdeni kusati kwawa. Aive ane hukama navo uye ivo vaive vehukama kwaari neumwe neumwe. Kunyangwe mushure mekunge Adhamu naEvha vatadza, ndivo Ishe vakatanga kuvambundira ndokuzarura hurongwa hwavo hwekuregererwa kune wakaipa (Mavambo 3:15).

Hushamwari hunonyanya kuratidzwa muhupenyu nekufa kwaJesu. Akati, “Hakuna munhu ane rudo rukuru kune urwu, uyo akapa hupenyu hwake nekuda kweshamwari dzake. Muri shamwari dzangu kana muchiita zvandinokurayirai. Handichakuidzii varanda, nekuti muranda haazivi tenzi wake; Asi ndakudaidzai shamwari, nekuti zvese zvandakadzidza kuna Baba vangu ndakakuzivisai (Johane 15: 13-15).

Jesu akazviratidza kwatiri uye haana chaakabvisa, kunyangwe hupenyu hwake. Patinomutevera nekumuteerera, tinodaidzwa kuti shamwari dzake. Iko kubwinya kwekubwinya kwaMwari uye mucherechedzo chaiwo wehunhu hwake (VaHeberu 1: 3). Tinogona kusvika pakuziva Mwari nekuti akazova nyama uye akazvizivisa kwatiri. Akatipa hupenyu hwake. Kuzivikanwa uye kudiwa naMwari uye kunzi shamwari dzake kunofanira kutikurudzira kuva shamwari nevamwe nekuda kwerudo uye kuteerera Jesu.Tinogona kuda vamwe nekuti Iye akatanga kutida (1 Johane 4:19).

Nzira 7 dzekuumba hushamwari
1. Namatira shamwari yepedyo kana vaviri
Takambokumbira Mwari here kuti tiite shamwari? Anotitarisira uye anoziva zvese zvatinoda. Zvinogona kunge zvisina kuve chinhu chataizofunga kufunga nezvekunamatira.

Muna 1 Johane 5: 14-15 inoti: "Uku ndiko kuvimba kwatinako maari, kuti kana tikakumbira chinhu maererano nezvaanoda, anotinzwa. Uye kana tichiziva kuti anotinzwa pazvose zvatinomukumbira, tinoziva kuti tine zvikumbiro zvatakamukumbira ".

Mukutenda, tinogona kumukumbira kuti aunze mumwe munhu muhupenyu hwedu kuti atikurudzire, atidenhe, uye arambe achinongedzera kuna Jesu.Kana isu takakumbira Mwari kuti atibatsire kukudziridza hushamwari hwepedyo hunogona kutikurudzira mukutenda nehupenyu hwedu, tinofanira kutenda kuti Iye achatipindura. Tinotarisira kuti Mwari aite zvisingaenzaniswi kupfuura zvatinogona kukumbira kana kufungidzira kuburikidza nesimba Rake riri kushanda matiri (VaEfeso 3:20).

2. Tsvaga muBhaibheri uwane huchenjeri nezvehukama
Bhaibheri rizere nehungwaru, uye bhuku raZvirevo rine zvakawanda zvarinotaura nezvehukama, kusanganisira kusarudza shamwari zvine hungwaru uye kuva shamwari. Goverana mazano akanaka kubva kushamwari.

Inoyambira zvakare pamusoro pevaya vanogona kuputsa hushamwari: "Munhu akaipa anomutsa kukakavara uye makuhwa anoparadzanisa shamwari dzepedyo" (Zvirevo 16:28) uye "Ani naani anokurudzira rudo anofukidza kudarika, asi anodzokorora nyaya yacho Anoparadzanisa shamwari "(Zvirevo 17: 9).

MuTestamente Itsva, Jesu ndiye muenzaniso wedu mukuru pane zvazvinoreva kuva shamwari. Inoti, "Hakuna munhu ane rudo rukuru kune urwu: kufira mweya wake nekuda kweshamwari dzake" (Johane 15:13). Kubva kunaGenesi kusvika kuna Zvakazarurwa tinoona nyaya yerudo rwaMwari uye hushamwari nevanhu. Aigara achitidzingirira. Tichatevera vamwe nerudo rwakafanana narwo rwataiva narwo naKristu

3. Iva shamwari
Izvo hazvisi zvekusimbisa kwedu chete uye nezvatinogona kuwana kubva pahukama. VaFiripi 2: 4 inoti, "Mumwe nemumwe ngaarege kutarira kune zvake chete, asi nezvakewo" uye 1 VaTesaronika 5:11 inoti, "Naizvozvo kurudziranai uye musimbisane, sezvamuri kunyatsoita".

Kune vazhinji vari voga uye vari mumatambudziko, vanoshuva shamwari uye munhu wekuteerera. Ndiani watinogona kukomborera nekukurudzira? Pane chero munhu watinofanira kuziva? Havasi vese vatinozivana navo kana munhu watinobatsira vanozove shamwari dzepedyo. Nekudaro, isu tinodaidzwa kuti tide muvakidzani wedu uyezve vavengi vedu, uye nekushandira avo vatinosangana navo nekuvada sezvinoita Jesu.

Sokutaura kunoita VaRoma 12:10: “Dananai nokudanana sehama. Pfuurai mumwe kune mumwe mukukudza. "

4. Tanga iwe
Kutora nhanho mukutenda kunogona kuoma chaizvo. Kukumbira mumwe munhu kuti asangane nekofi, koka mumwe munhu kumba kwedu kana kuita chimwe chinhu chatinotarisira kuti chinobatsira mumwe munhu kutora ushingi. Panogona kuve nemhando dzose dzezvipingaidzo. Pamwe ari kukunda kunyara kana kutya. Pamwe pane chivakwa chetsika kana chemagariro chinoda kuputswa, kufungira kunoda kupikiswa kana isu tinongoda kuvimba kuti Jesu achave nesu mukubatana kwedu kwese.

Zvinogona kunge zvakaoma uye kutevera Jesu hakusi nyore, asi hapana imwe nzira iri nani yekurarama. Tinofanira kuva nechinangwa uye kuvhura moyo yedu nemisha kune avo vakatikomberedza, kuratidza mutsa uye mutsa nekuvada sekuda kwatinoita Kristu. NdiJesu akatanga ruregerero nokudurura nyasha dzake patiri tichiri vavengi nevatadzi pamberi paMwari (VaRoma 5: 6-10). Kana Mwari achigona kupa nyasha dzakakura kudaro patiri, tinogona kupa iyo imwecheteyo nyasha kune vamwe.

5. Rarama nekuzvipira
Jesu aigara achifamba kubva panzvimbo kuenda pane imwe nzvimbo, achisangana nevamwe vanhu kunze kwechaunga uye achizadzisa zvido zvavo zvepanyama uye pamweya. Zvisinei, akaramba achiwana nguva yekugara naBaba Vake mumunamato uye nevadzidzi Vake. Pakupedzisira, Jesu akararama hupenyu hwekuzvipira paakateerera Baba Vake uye nekuisa hupenyu Hwake pamuchinjikwa isu.

Zvino isu tinogona kuve shamwari dzaMwari nekuti akafira zvivi zvedu, achizviyananisa muhukama chaihwo naye.Tinofanira kuita zvakafanana torarama hupenyu hushoma nezvedu, hwakawanda nezvaJesu uye husina udyire kune vamwe. Nekushandurwa nerudo rwechibairo rweMuponesi, tinokwanisa kuda vamwe zvakanyanyisa nekuisa mari kuvanhu sezvakaitwa naJesu.

6. Mira neShamwari mukukwira nekudzika
Shamwari yechokwadi yakatsiga uye ichagara munguva dzekutambudzika nemarwadzo, pamwe nemunguva yemufaro nekupembera. Shamwari dzinogovana humbowo nezvabuda uye zviri pachena uye zvine chokwadi. Hukama hwepedyo hwakagovaniswa pakati paDavid naJonathan muna 1 Samere 18: 1 hunoratidza izvi: "Paakangopedza kutaura kuna Sauro, mweya waJonatani wakabatanidzwa pamweya waDavidi, uye Jonathan akamuda semweya wake." Jonatani akaratidza mutsa kuna Dhavhidhi apo baba vake, Mambo Sauro, vakatevera hupenyu hwaDavidi. David aivimba naJonathan kuti abatsire kunyengetedza baba vake kuti vazvibvumire, asi zvakare kumuyambira kana Sauro achiri shure kweupenyu hwake (1 Sameri 20). Mushure mekunge Jonathan aurayiwa muhondo, David akarwadziwa, izvo zvakaratidza kudzama kwehukama hwavo (2 Sameri 1: 25-27).

7. Rangarira kuti Jesu ndiye shamwari yekupedzisira
Zvinogona kuva zvakaoma kuita hushamwari hwechokwadi uye hunogara, asi nekuti tinovimba Ishe kuti vatibatsire neizvi, tinofanira kuyeuka kuti Jesu ndiye shamwari yedu yekupedzisira. Anodaidza vatendi shamwari dzake nekuti akavhura kwavari uye haana chaakavanza (Johane 15:15). Akatifira isu, akatanga kutida (1 Johane 4:19), akatisarudza (Johane 15:16), uye tichiri kure naMwari akatiswededza neropa rake, rakadeurwa nekuda kwedu pamuchinjikwa (VaEfeso 2:13).

Ishamwari yevatadzi uye anovimbisa kusazombosiya kana kusiya avo vanovimba naye. Hwaro hwehukama hwechokwadi uye husingaperi huchave hunotikurudzira kuti titevere Jesu muhupenyu hwedu hwese, tichishuvira kupedzisa mujaho wekusingaperi.