Kunyangwe mhuri dzakakamurwa dzinogara munyasha dzaMwari

Iye mupirisita aishanya akataura zvine rudo nezve yake homily yekukura kwake. Akabva ati, "Hatisi isu tese tine rombo rakaringana kuva nemhuri dzakakura kudaro uye dzine rudo?" Ini nemurume wangu takapanana kutarisa kwekubvunza. Hushumiri hwedu hwemhirizhonga mudzimba huri kukura zvakatsiga; boka rekurambana riri kuwedzera kusimba, sekusangana kuri kuita zvidhakwa kusingazivikanwe.

Izvi zvinoita kuti tifarire chero imwe parishi. Mazhinji edesiki pasina mubvunzo akafunga, "Ndiri kufara nekuda kwako, baba, asi handizvo chaizvo zvandinoona."

Ndinoziva vanhu vasingaverengeke vanorerwa nezvidhakwa, vamwe vacho sevana vasina kumbounza shamwari dzavo kumba nekuda kwechiitiko chinotyisa icho chingagone kuitika. Vanhu vane hama nemadzibaba mujeri. Vanobudirira magweta ana madzibaba vasina kumbovapa izwi rekubvumidzwa. Ndine shamwari ina ambuya vababa vaive vakamuvenga zvekuti vakaudza shamwari yangu, iye zvino achiri kuyaruka, pasina nguva refu kubva pakuvigwa kwababa vake, "Baba vako havana kumbokuda." Ndinoziva vanhu vanaamai vakavacheka vachidzokorora neshungu uye nehutsinye mazwi, kunyangwe paive vachiri vana vadiki.

Kushungurudzwa panyama, kushungurudzwa pabonde, kuzviuraya: haufanirwe kuenda kure kuti uzvitsvage. Isu zvirinani tisanyepedzera kuti hazvipo.

John Patrick Shanley, munyori wemafirimu anoti Monstruck naDoubt, anonyora muNew York Times kuti aende nababa vake kuIreland kwake, kwaanosangana nababamunini vake, tete nasekuru vake, vese vamwe vakataura. Tezvara vake vanoenda naye kuguva rasekuru, iro raakange asati aziva, uye anoratidza kuti vanopfugama mumvura kunaya kuti vanamate.

"Ndakanzwa kubatana nechinhu chinotyisa uye chikuru," anodaro, "uye ndakafunga izvi: ava ndivo vanhu vangu. "

Shanley paanobvunza nyaya pamusoro pekuru nasekuru vake, zvisinei, kuyerera kwemashoko kamwe kamwe kunooma: “[Sekuru] Tony angaite senge asina kujeka. Baba vangu vangadai vakanyarara. "

Pakupedzisira anodzidza kuti vanasekuru vake vaive "vanotyisa," kuzviisa zvinyoro. Sekuru vake vakafambidzana nepasina chero munhu: "Kunyange mhuka dzaizomutiza." Ambuya vake vanokakavara, pavakaunzwa nemuzukuru wavo wekutanga, "vakabvarura bhoneti rakanaka iro mwana aive akapfeka kubva mumusoro make, vachizivisa kuti: 'Rakanyanya kunaka kwaari!'"

Kuchengetwa kwemhuri iyi kwakaratidza kusada kweIrish kutaura zvakaipa zvevakafa.

Kunyange ichi chingave chiri chinonangwa chinangwa, tinogona kubvuma matambudziko emhuri nekunzwira tsitsi munhu wese akabatanidzwa. Iyo yekuramba uye kunyarara kodhi inopfuudzwa pasina mazwi mumhuri dzakawanda kazhinji inosiya vana kuti vazive kuti chimwe chinhu chisina kunaka asi ivo vasina mazwi kana mvumo yekutaura nezvazvo. (Uye sezvo 90 muzana yekutaurirana isiri-yemuromo, kunyarara kwacho kunozvitaurira.)

Kwete zvinonyadzisa chete, asi zviitiko zvinosuruvarisa - kufa, semuenzaniso - zvinogona kukodzera kurapwa chinyararire. Ndakaziva mhuri dzakazara vanhu - babamunini, kunyangwe hama - dzakadzimwa mundangariro dzemhuri nekunyarara. Tinotya misodzi here? Nhasi, izvo zvatinoziva nezvehutano hwepfungwa zvinoti zvakafukura chokwadi chemhuri pazera rakakodzera vana. Hatisi vateveri vemurume weGarirea here, uyo akati, "Chokwadi chichakusunungura"?

Bruce Feiler anonyora muNew York Times nezve tsvagiridzo nyowani inoratidza kuti vana vanonangana zvirinani nematambudziko kana vachiziva zvakawanda nezvemhuri dzavo uye voziva kuti ndevechimwe chinhu chikuru kwavari. Nhoroondo dzine hutano hwemhuri dzinosanganisira mapundu mumugwagwa: tinorangarira babamunini vakasungwa pamwe chete naamai vanodiwa nevose. Uye, anodaro, anogara achisimbisa kuti "chero zvaitika, takagara takabatana semhuri".

VaKaturike vanozvidaidza kuti zvinoenderana nenyasha dzaMwari.Hadzisi dzese nyaya dzemhuri dzinopera dzinofara, asi isu tinoziva kuti Mwari anomira akasimba padivi pedu. Sekupedzisa kwaJohn Patrick Shanley, "Hupenyu hunobata zvishamiso zvaro, kuputika kwakanaka kubva murima ndiko kunovatungamira"