Maitiro ekuita hukuru hukuru hwepabonde muwanano yako

Ichi chikamu cherudo rwemurume / mukadzi chinofanira kukudziridzwa, sehupenyu hwekunamata.
Kunyangwe paine meseji yatinotumirwa nesosaiti, hupenyu hwedu hwepabonde hunosiya zvakawanda zvekuda. "Zviri muropa kuti murume nemukadzi vasangane nematambudziko munzvimbo iyi, sekune chero imwe, asi zvingave zvakaipa kuvaregerera," anodaro Nathalie Loevenbruck, chipangamazano wezvekuroora uyo ane hunyanzvi muvaKristu vakaroorana. “Ehe, pane dzimwe nguva apo vavakaroorana vane nguva yakaoma yekugadzirisa madanho nezvido zvavo. Asi bonde rinofanira kutorwa zvakanyanya, ”anodaro.
Kubatana pakati pevaviri vakaroorana kunosanganisira kubatana kwakadzama kupfuura mazwi. Kusiya zvebonde, pachinzvimbo chekugadzirisa dambudziko pamwe chete, kuchaendesa kure vaviri vacho uye kunopesana nezvavanoda kuti vave "nyama imwe" (Mk 10: 8). Kushaikwa kwerudo nehukama zvichafanirwa kuripwa kumwe kunhu. Kunze kwehupombwe, kusavimbika kunogona kuzviratidza nekushanda kunonoka, kuisa mari zvakanyanya mukudyidzana, kana kunyangwe nemadhakwa. Asi havazi vese vanogona kukurumidza kuita hukama hwepedyo ava pamwe chete. Hupenyu hwepabonde hwevaviri ndeyekudyara kunoda hunyanzvi uye chishuwo. Zvepabonde zvinofanirwa kugara zvichirimwa nekunatsiridzwa sehupenyu hwekunamata.

Matambudziko anoita kuti mwoyo utambure
Loevenbruck anosimbirira zvakanyanya pamusoro pekukosha kwenzira yekutendeseka uye yakapfava yekuteerera kune mumwe nemumwe nekuziva matambudziko. Kusava nehanya kunogona kuve nezvakasiyana zvepfungwa uye zvepfungwa zvikonzero: kushaya kuzviremekedza, kufunga zvisirizvo nezvebonde, kushungurudzika kwehudiki, matambudziko ehutano, nezvimwe. Kana pasina chinoshanda, panogara paine dzimwe nzira dzekuratidza rudo nehunyoro. Hatifanirwe kukanda mapfumo pasi.

“Nekuti isu maKristu tine mukana mukuru wekuziva Uyo anotiperekedza munzira inoenda ku [rusununguko], Loevenbruck anotsigira, zvichiratidza boka guru remabasa eChechi yeKaturike. Kune, semuenzaniso, zvakanyorwa naSt. John Paul II, izvo zvakabatsira kubvisa kuzvidzora kwezvizvarwa zvevanamati, kufungira zvinhu zvese "zvepabonde".
Kana zvese zvikatadza, Loevenbruck anokumbira vakaroora kuti vafunge kuti matambudziko avanosangana nawo anoita sei kuti vatambure. Izvi zvinovatendera kukudziridza uye kuratidza tsitsi kune mumwe nemumwe. "Kuremekedza nekuzvininipisa matambudziko uye kudanana chero hazvo kuri kufambira mberi kuenda kurudzi rwemufaro rerudo, kuzvipira uye kugamuchirwa," anodaro. Icho chiratidzo chekuzvininipisa chekusiiwa. Asi inosimbiswa nekuwedzera kuvimba mune vamwe uye muna Mwari, izvo zvinogona kubatsira kuwana hukama pabonde.