"Mwari akasarudza kutidaidza": nyaya yehama mbiri yakagadza vapristi vechiKatorike pazuva rimwe chete

Peyton naConnor Plessala ihama kubva kuFone, Alabama. Ndine mwedzi 18 ndisipo, gore rechikoro.

Zvisinei nekukwikwidza apo neapo uye kukakavara kunoonekwa nehama dzakawanda kuchikura, vagara vari shamwari dzepamwoyo.

"Tiri padyo kupfuura shamwari dzepedyo," Connor, 25, akaudza CNA.

Sewechidiki, muchikoro chepuraimari, chikoro chepamusoro, koreji, hwakawanda hwehupenyu hwavo hwaive hwakatarisana nezvinhu izvo munhu angatarisira: vafundisi, vehukama, shamwari, vasikana uye mitambo.

Kune nzira dzakawanda idzo majaya maviri aya angadai akasarudza kuitira hupenyu hwavo, asi pakupedzisira, mwedzi wapfuura, vakasvika panzvimbo imwechete: vakarara vakatarisana pamberi peatari, vachipa hupenyu hwavo mukushandira Mwari uye yeChechi yeKaturike.

Idzo hama mbiri idzi dzakagadzwa kuhupirisiti muna Chivabvu 30 muCathedral Basilica yeImmaculate Conception muMobile, munzvimbo yakasarudzika, nekuda kwedenda.

“Chero chikonzero, Mwari vakasarudza kutidaidza uye vakachiita. Uye isu takave nerombo rakanaka kuva nezvakakosha zvevabereki vedu vese uye nekurerwa kwedu kuzviteerera tobva tati hongu, "Peyton akaudza CNA.

Peyton, 27, anoti anofara kwazvo kutanga kubatsira nezvikoro zveKaturike nedzidzo, uye zvakare kutanga kunzwa kunzwa kureurura.

“Unopedza nguva yakawandisa museminari uchizvigadzirira kuti ubudirire rimwe zuva. Unopedza nguva yakawandisa mu seminari uchitaura pamusoro pezvirongwa, zviroto, tariro uye nezvinhu zvauchazoita mune ramangwana mune fungidziro ... zvino zvava pano. Uye saka handigone kumirira kuti nditange. "

"Kunaka kwechisikigo"

Maodzanyemba eLouisiana, uko vabereki vehama dzePlessala vakakurira, iwe uri muKaturike kunze kwekunge wataura neimwe nzira, Peyton akadaro.

Vese vari vaviri vabereki vaPlessala vanachiremba. Mhuri iyi yakatamira kuAlabama apo Connor naPeeton vaive vadiki.

Kunyangwe mhuri yaigara iri Katurike - uye vakarera Peyton, Connor nemunin'ina wavo uye munin'ina mukutenda - hama dzakati hadzisati dzave "kunamatira rozari yakakomberedza tafura yekicheni" yemhuri.

Pamusoro pekutora mhuri kumisa musi weSvondo wega wega, vaPlessalas vakadzidzisa vana vavo izvo zvinonzi naPeyton "hunhu hwakanaka" - kuve vanhu vakanaka uye vane hunhu; kukosha kwekusarudza shamwari nekuchenjera; uye kukosha kwedzidzo.

Kugara vachipindirana kwehama mumitambo yechikwata, kukurudzirwa nevabereki vavo, zvakabatsirawo kuvadzidzisa pane izvo zvakasikwa zvakasikwa.

Kutamba nhabvu, basketball, nhabvu uye baseball mumakore apfuura zvakavadzidzisa hunhu hwekushanda nesimba, kushamwaridzana, uye kuratidza muenzaniso kune vamwe.

"Vakatidzidzisa kuyeuka kuti paunoenda kunotamba mitambo uye une zita rekuti Plessala kumashure kwehembe, iyo inomiririra mhuri yese," akadaro Peyton.

'Ndaigona kuzviita'

Peyton akaudza CNA kuti kunyangwe achienda kuzvikoro zveKaturike uye achiwana "hurukuro yekudaidzira" gore rega, hapana mumwe wavo akange ambofunga hupirisita senzira yehupenyu hwavo.

Izvi zvinoreva kuti, kusvika kutanga kwa2011, apo hama idzi padzakatora rwendo nevavanodzidza navo kuWashington, DC kuMarch for Life, musangano mukuru wepagore wepasirose muUnited States.

Mutungamiriri weboka ravo paMcGill-Toolen Catholic High Chikoro aive mupristi mutsva, achangobuda pachikoro chekudzidzisa, ane shungu nemufaro zvakaorora hama.

Chapupu chemuperekedzi wavo nevamwe vapristi vavakasangana navo parwendo irworwo chakaita kuti Connor atange kufunga nezvekujoinha seminari achangopedza chikoro chepamusoro.

Mukudonha kwa2012, Connor akatanga zvidzidzo zvake kuSt Joseph Seminary College muCovington, Louisiana.

Peyton akanzwawo kushevedzwa kuhupirisita parwendo irworwo, nekuda kwemuenzaniso wemuperekedzi wavo - asi nzira yake yekuseminari yakanga isina kutwasuka senge yemunin'ina wake.

"Ndakaona kekutanga," Shamwari, ini ndaigona kuita izvi. [Mupristi uyu] ane rugare naye, achifara uye achifara zvakanyanya. Ini ndaigona kuzviita. Uhwu ndihwo hupenyu hwandinogona kurarama, ”akadaro.

Pasinei nekutambudza kuenda kumusangano, Peyton akasarudza kuti achazotevera chirongwa chake chekutanga kudzidza pre-med kuLouisiana State University. Aizozopedza makore matatu ese, achidanana nemusikana waakange asangana naye kuLSU kwemaviri emakore iwayo.

Gore rake repamusoro rekoreji, Peyton akadzokera kuchikoro chake chepamusoro kuti aperekedze rwendo rwegore irworwo kuna Kurume weHupenyu, irwo rwendo irworwo rwakanga ratanga kukwevera kuhupirisita makore akati wandei apfuura.

Pane imwe nguva parwendo, panguva yekunamatwa kweSakaramende Yakaropafadzwa, Peyton akanzwa izwi raMwari: "Unoda here kuva chiremba?"

Mhinduro yacho, sezvakazoitika, yakanga iri aiwa.

“Uye nguva yandakazvinzwa, moyo wangu wakanzwa kugadzikana kupfuura zvazvaiva… Pamwe hazvina kumboitika muhupenyu hwangu. Ini ndaingoziva. Panguva iyoyo, ndanga ndati, "Ndiri kuenda kuseminari," akadaro Peyton.

“Kwechinguva, ndakave nehupenyu hupenyu. Ini ndaive negwara uye chinangwa. Ndaingoziva kuti ndaiva ani. "

Kujeka kutsva uku kwakauya nemutengo, zvisinei… Peyton akaziva kuti aifanira kusiya musikana wake. Akaitei.

Connor anoyeuka mbozhanhare yaPeyton, achimuudza kuti aive afunga zvekuuya kumusangano.

“Ndakavhunduka. Ndakafara. Ndakafara zvakanyanya nekuti takanga tichidzokerana zvakare, ”akadaro Connor.

Mukudonha kwa2014, Peyton akabatana nemunin'ina wake kuSt Joseph's Seminary.

"Tinogona kuvimba mumwe nemumwe"

Kunyangwe Connor naPeyton vanga vagara vari shamwari, hukama hwavo hwakachinja - kuita zvirinani - Peyton paakabatana naConnor seminari.

Kwehupenyu hwavo hwese, Peyton akange akwevera nzira kuna Connor, ichimurudzira uye kumupa zano paakasvika kuchikoro chesekondari, mushure mekunge Peyton adzidza tambo ikoko kwegore.

Zvino, kekutanga, Connor akanzwa kuita kunge "mukoma mukuru", ave neruzivo muhupenyu hweseminari.

Panguva imwecheteyo, kunyangwe hama dzaive zvino dzichitevera nzira imwechete, ivo vachiri kusvika hupenyu hwemusangano nenzira yavo, nepfungwa dzavo uye vakatarisana nematambudziko nenzira dzakasiyana, akadaro.

Ruzivo rwekutambira chinetso chekuve mupirisita rwakabatsira hukama hwavo kukura.

“Peyton aigara achiita zvinhu zvake nekuti ndiye aive wekutanga. Aive wedangwe. Uye saka, akange asina muenzaniso wekutevera ipapo, ini ndichiita, ”akadaro Connor.

"Uye saka, iyo pfungwa yekuputsa:" Tichava vakafanana ", yanga yakandiomera, ndinofunga ... Asi ini ndinofunga, mumarwadzo ari kukura eizvozvo, isu takakwanisa kukura uye kunyatsoona zvipo zveumwe neumwe uye mumwe nemumwe. kushaya simba tobva tavimba zvakanyanya kune mumwe nemumwe ... ikozvino ndinoziva zvipo zvaPeyton zvirinani, uye anoziva zvipo zvangu, uye saka tinogona kuvimba nemumwe nemumwe.

Nekuda kwenzira iyo kiredhiti koreji yake yakaendeswa kubva kuLSU, Connor naPeyton vakapedzisira vari mukirasi imwechete yekugadzwa, kunyangwe makore maviri aConnor "musoro wekutanga".

"Ibva panzira yeMweya Mutsvene"

Zvino zvavakagadzwa, Peyton akati vabereki vavo vanogara vachirohwa nemubvunzo, "Chii chamakaita imi mese kuendesa hafu yevana venyu muhupirisita?"

Kuna Peyton, paive nezvinhu zviviri zvakakosha mukurerwa kwavo zvakamubatsira iye pamwe nehama dzake kukura sevaKaturike vakazvipira.

Kutanga, akadaro, iye nehama dzake vakapinda zvikoro zveKatorike, zvikoro zvine chitendero chakasimba.

Asi paive nechimwe chinhu muhupenyu hwemhuri yaPlessala icho, kuna Peyton, chaitonyanya kukosha.

"Takadya manheru ega ega nemhuri, zvisinei nehurongwa hunodiwa kuti basa rishande," akadaro.

“Kana taifanira kudya na16pm nekuti mumwe wedu aive nemutambo husiku ihwohwo takaenda tese, kana kuti taifanira kudya na00 manheru, nekuti ndaiuya kumba ndichibva kunodzidziswa nhabvu kunonoka kuchikoro, chero zvazvaive. Isu taigara tichiedza kudya pamwe nekunamata tisati tadya. "

Ruzivo rwekuungana manheru ega ega nemhuri, vachinamata uye kushandisa nguva pamwe chete zvakabatsira mhuri kugara pamwe nekutsigira nhamburiko yenhengo yega yega, hama dzakadaro.

Hama padzakaudza vabereki vavo kuti dzavaipinda seminari, vabereki vavo vakabatsira chaizvo, kunyange hazvo hama dzaifungidzira kuti amai vavo vangashungurudzika kuti vaizopedzisira vava nevazukuru vashoma.

Chinhu chimwe chete Connor akanzwa amai vake vachitaura kakati wandei apo vanhu vanobvunza zvakaitwa nevabereki ndechekuti "akabva paMweya Mutsvene."

Ivo hama vakati vanotenda zvikuru kuti vabereki vavo vagara vachitsigira basa ravo. Peyton akati iye naContor vanombosangana nevarume mumusangano vakapedza kuenda nekuti vabereki vavo vaisatsigira danho ravo rekupinda.

"Hongu, vabereki vanoziva zvakanyanya, asi kana zvasvika pakudanwa kwevana vako, Mwari ndiye anoziva, nekuti ndiMwari anodana," akadaro Connor.

"Kana iwe uchida kutsvaga mhinduro, unofanirwa kubvunza mubvunzo"

Kunyange Connor kana Peyton aisazombotarisira kuva vapristi. Kana, ivo vakati, vabereki vavo kana hama dzavo dzaisatarisira kana kufanofungidzira kuti vangadaidzwa nenzira iyoyo.

Mumashoko avo, ivo vaingova "vanawo zvavo" vaiita zvavanotenda, vaipinda chikoro chesekondari, uye vaifarira zvakawanda zvakasiyana.

Peyton akataura chokwadi chekuti vaviri ava vakatanga kuzvidemba kwekutanga kwehupirisita hazvishamisi.

"Ini ndinofunga chero murume anonyatsoita kutenda kwake angangodaro akafunga nezvazvo kamwechete, nekuda kwekuti vakasangana nemupristi uye mupristi angangodaro akati, 'Hei, unofanira kuzvifunga," akadaro.

Vazhinji vehama dzaPyton dzakazvipira veKatorike vakaroora zvino, uye ndokuvabvunza kana pane imwe nguva vakambofunga nezvehupirisita vasati vaziva muchato. Vanenge zvese zvese, akadaro, akati hongu; vakafunga nezvazvo kwevhiki kana maviri, asi havana kumboramba vakabatirira.

Izvo zvaive zvakasiyana kwaari naConnor ndezvekuti pfungwa yehupirisita haina kubva.

“Akaramba akanamatirana neni ndokuzogara neni kwemakore matatu. Uye pakupedzisira Mwari vakati, “Yava nguva, murume. Nguva yekuzviita, ”akadaro.

"Ndangoda kukurudzira vana, kana chave chinguva chaicho uye zvinongokurova, nzira chete yauchazomboona kuti kuri kuenda kuseminari."

Kusangana uye kusvika pakuziva vapristi, uye nekuona mararamiro avo uye sei, zvaibatsira kuna Peyton naConnor.

"Hupenyu hwevapristi ndidzo zvinhu zvinonyanya kubatsira kuti vamwe varume vafunge nezvehupirisita," akadaro Peyton.

Connor akabvuma. Kwake, kutora kunyura uye kuenda kuseminari achiri kungonzwisisa ndiyo yaive nzira yakanakisa yekusarudza kana Mwari ainyatsomudaidza semupristi.

“Kana iwe uchida kutsvaga mhinduro, unofanirwa kubvunza mubvunzo. Uye nzira chete yekubvunza nekupindura mubvunzo wehupirisita ndeyekuenda kuchikoro chebhaibheri, ”akadaro.

“Endai kumusangano. Iwe hausi kuzove wakaipisisa pane izvi. Ndiri kureva, urikutanga kurarama hupenyu hwakazvipira kumunamato, kudzidziswa, kudhiraira mukati mako, kudzidza zvauri, kudzidza zvaunogona uye zvausingakwanise, kudzidza zvakawanda nezvekutenda. Zvese izvi zvinhu zvakanaka. "

Seminari haisi yekuzvipira zvachose. Kana murume wechidiki aenda kumaseminari uye oziva kuti hupristi hausi hwake, hazvingazonyanya kuipa, Connor akadaro.

"Iwe wakadzidziswa mune murume ari nani, shanduro iri nani yako, iwe wakanamata zvakanyanya kupfuura zvawaizoita dai usiri iwe seminari."

Kufanana nevanhu vazhinji vezera ravo, Peyton naConnor nzira dzekufona kwavo kwekupedzisira zvave zvichitambudza.

"Kurwadziwa kukuru kwezviuru zvemakore kwakagara ipapo uye kuyedza kufunga nezve izvo zvaunoda kuita nehupenyu hwako kwenguva yakareba zvekuti hupenyu hwako hunopfuura," akadaro Peyton.

“Uye saka, chimwe chezvinhu zvandiri kuda kukurudzira vechidiki kuti vaite kana iwe uchinge uchinzwisisa, ita chimwe chinhu nezvazvo.