VaJudha Vanogona Kupemberera Krisimasi here?
Ini nemurume wangu tanga tichifunga zvakawanda nezveKisimusi neHanukkah gore rino uye tinoda kuve nepfungwa dzako pamaitirwo akanaka eKisimusi semhuri yechiJuda inogara munharaunda yechiKristu.
Murume wangu anobva kumhuri yechiKristu uye taigara tichienda kumba kwevabereki vake kumhemberero yeKisimusi. Ini ndinobva kumhuri yechiJuda, saka takagara tichipemberera Hanukkah kumba. Munguva yakapfuura, hazvina kundinetsa kuti vana vakafumurwa paKisimusi nekuti vaive vadiki kwazvo kuti vanzwisise mufananidzo mukuru - zvaive zvekuona mhuri nekupemberera imwe zororo. Zvino mukuru wangu ane makore mashanu uye anotanga kukumbira Santa (Santa anounzawo zvipo zveHanukkah? Jesu ndiani?) Wedu mudiki ane makore matatu uye haasati aripo zvakadaro, asi isu tinoshamisika kana zvingave zvakanaka kuramba uchipemberera Kisimusi.
Isu tagara tichitsanangura icho sezvinoitwa naambuya nasekuru uye kuti tinofara kuvabatsira kupemberera, asi kuti isu tiri mhuri yechiJudha. Ndeipi pfungwa yako? Mhuri yemaJuda inofanira kuita sei neKisimusi, kunyanya kana Kisimusi iri kugadzirwa kwakadaro munguva yezororo? (Kwete zvakanyanya kuna Hanukkah.) Ini handidi kuti vana vangu vanzwe sekunge varasika. Zvakare, Kisimusi yagara iri chikamu chakakosha pamhemberero yeKisimusi yemurume wangu uye ndinofunga anganzwa shungu kana vana vake vasina kukura nendangariro dzeKisimusi.
Mhinduro yaRabbi
Ndakakurira pamwe chete navaKaturike veGerman mumusha wakasanganiswa weNew York City. Semwana mudiki, ndaimbobatsira tete vangu "vokurera" Edith naSekuru Willie kushongedza muti wavo manheru eKisimusi manheru uye vaitarisirwa kunodya mangwanani eKisimusi kumba kwavo. Chipo chavo cheKisimusi kwandiri chaigara chakafanana: kunyoresa kwegore rimwe kuNational Geographic. Pashure pokunge baba vangu varoorazve (ndakanga ndine makore 15), ndakapedza Kisimusi shomanene nemhuri yamai vangu vokurera veMethodist mune mamwe maguta.
PaChristmas Eve, Babamunini Eddie, avo vaive negwenzi ravo rekuzvarwa uye ndebvu dzakange dzakafukidzwa nechando, akange achitamba Santa Claus achikwazisa pachigaro pachigaro cheguta ravo Hook-and-Ladder apo aifamba mumigwagwa yeKentport NY. Ndakaziva, ndaimuda uye ndakanyatsopotsa iyi Santa Santaus.
Vatezvara vako havasi kukumbira iwe nemhuri yako kuenda kuchechi yeKisimusi navo uye havasi ivo vari kunyepedzera dzidziso dzechiKristu nezvevana vako. Zvinoita sekunge vabereki vemurume wako vanongoda kugovana rudo nemufaro zvavanonzwa kana mhuri yavo yaungana pamwechete mumba mavo paKisimusi. Ichi chinhu chakanaka uye chikomborero chikuru chakakodzera kukumbirwa kwako kusinganzwisisike uye kusinganzwisisike! Hupenyu hauzombokupa iwe nguva yakapfuma uye inodzidziswa nevana vako.
Sezvavanofanira uye sezvavanogara vachiita, vana vako vachakubvunza mibvunzo yakawanda nezveKisimusi sekuru naambuya. Unogona kuedza chimwe chakadai.
“Tiri maJuda, ambuya nasekuru maKristu. Tinoda kuenda kumba kwavo uye tinoda kugovana kisimusi navo sezvavanoda kuuya kumba kwedu kuzogovana Isita nesu Zvitendero netsika zvakasiyana kubva kune mumwe nemumwe. Patinenge tiri mumba mavo, tinoda uye tinoremekedza zvavanoita nekuti tinovada uye tinovaremekedza. Vanoita zvimwe chete kana vari mumba medu. "
Paunobvunzwa kana iwe uchitenda Santa kana kuti kwete, vaudze chokwadi mumashoko avanogona kunzwisisa. Chengeta icho chiri nyore, chakananga uye chakavimbika. Heino mhinduro yangu:
“Ndinotenda zvipo izvi zvinobva murudo rwedu kune mumwe nemumwe. Dzimwe nguva zvinhu zvakanaka zvinoitika kwatiri nenzira yatinonzwisisa, dzimwe nguva zvinhu zvakanaka zvinoitika uye zvakavanzika. Ini ndinoda zvakavanzika uye ndinogara ndichiti "Ndatenda Mwari!" Uye kwete, handitende kuna Santa Claus, asi maKristu mazhinji anotenda. Ambuya nasekuru maKristu. Vanoremekedza zvandinotenda mazviri pamwe nekuremekedza zvavanotenda mazviri. Handifambe ndichivaudza kuti handibvumirane navo. Ndinovada zvakanyanya kupfuura zvandinobvumirana navo.
Pane kudaro, ini ndinowana nzira dzekugovana tsika dzedu kuti tikwanise kutarisira mumwe nemumwe kunyangwe tichitenda mune zvakasiyana zvinhu. "
Muchidimbu, vatezvara vako vanogovana rudo rwavo iwe nemhuri yako kuburikidza neKisimusi mumba mavo. Kuzivikanwa kwemhuri yako yechiJuda ibasa rekuti unorarama sei mumazuva makumi matatu nemazana masere egore. Kisimusi nevakuwasha vako ine mukana wekudzidzisa vana vako kukoshesa kwakadzama kwenyika yedu ine tsika dzakasiyana-siyana uye nzira dzakasiyana siyana dzinotungamirirwa nevanhu kune inoera.
Iwe unogona kudzidzisa vana vako zvinopfuura kungoshivirira. Unogona kuvadzidzisa kugamuchirwa.
About Rabbi Marc Disick
Rabhi Marc L. Disick DD akapedza kudzidza kubva kuSUNY-Albany muna 1980 aine degree muJudaic, Rhetoric uye Kutaurirana. Akagara muIsrael kwegore rake reJunior, achienda kuUAHC College Year Academy paKibbutz Ma'aleh HaChamisha uye kwegore rake rekutanga redzidziso dzechiRabi kuHeberu Union College muJerusarema. Munguva yezvidzidzo zvake zvechiRabhi, Disick akashanda kwemakore maviri semufundisi kuPrinceton University uye akapedza kosi dzeMasters muMajuda Dzidzo kuNew York University asati aenda kuHeberu Union College muNew York kwaakagadzwa mu 1986.