Kuroorana maererano neBhaibheri
Kuroora inyaya yakakosha muhupenyu hwechiKristu. Mabhuku mazhinji, magazini, uye zvekupa mazano zvekuroora zvakapihwa kumusoro wenyaya wekugadzirira michato uye kusimudzira muchato. MuBhaibheri, mune zvinopfuura mazana mashanu zvinotaurwa kuTestamente Yekare neItsva kumazwi ekuti "muchato", "wakaroora", "murume" uye "mukadzi".
Kuroora kwechiKristu uye kurambana nhasi
Sekureva kwehuwandu hwehuwandu hwakaitwa munzvimbo dzakasiyana siyana dzevanhu, muchato unotanga nhasi ungangoita 41-43 muzana ungangopedzisira nekurambana. Tsvagiridzo yakanyorwa naGlenn T. Stanton, Global Insight director wezvemagariro uye kumutsiridza mhuri uye muongorori mukuru wezvekuroora nekuita zvepabonde kuFocus on the Family, zvinoratidza kuti maEvangelical maKristu vanogara vachienda kuchechi kurambana pamwero wakaderera 35% ichienzaniswa nevakaroora vepanyika. Maitiro akafanana anowanikwa mukuita kwevaKaturike nemaPurotesitendi vanoshanda kumberi. Mukupesana, vanozviti maKristu, vasinganyanyoenda kana kusatomboenda kuchechi, vane mwero wakakura wekurambana kupfuura vakaroorana vekunyika.
Stanton, anova zvakare munyori we Nei Muchato Nyaya: Zvikonzero Zvokutenda Mukuroora muPostmodern Society, anoti: "Kuzvipira mune zvechitendero, pane kungobatana nechitendero, kunopa mukana wakakura wekubudirira muwanano."
Kana kuzvipira kwechokwadi pakutenda kwako kwechiKristu kunoguma nemuchato wakasimba, saka pamwe Bhaibheri rine zvaro rakakosha kutaura pamusoro penyaya iyi.
Muchato wacho wakaitirwa kushamwaridzana uye kudanana
Ishe Mwari vakati, 'Hazvina kunaka kuti munhu ave oga. Ndichamuitira rubatsiro rwakakodzera '… uye paakanga akarara, akatora rumwe rumbabvu rwemurume ndokuvhara nzvimbo iya nenyama.
Uye Jehovha Mwari akaita mukadzi kubva parumbabvu rwaakanga atora kubva kumurume, akamuuyisa kumurume. Munhu ndokuti: Zvino uyu ipfupa remafupa angu, nenyama yenyama yangu, achanzi "mukadzi", sezvo akatorwa kubva kumurume ". Nekuda kweizvi murume achasiya baba namai vake uye abatanidze mukadzi wake, uye vachava nyama imwe. (Genesisi 2:18, 21-24, NIV)
Pano tinoona kubatana kwekutanga pakati pemurume nemukadzi: muchato wekutanga. Kubva pane ino nhoroondo munaGenesi tinogona kupedzisa kuti roorano izano raMwari, rakagadzirwa uye rakatangwa neMusiki. Isu tinoona zvakare kuti pakati pechirongwa chaMwari chemuchato hushamwari pamwe nehukama.
Zvimiro zvevarume nevakadzi muwanano
Nekuti murume musoro wemukadzi wake sezvo Kristu ari musoro wemuviri wake, kereke; akapa hupenyu hwake kuti ave Muponesi wake. Sezvo kereke ichizviisa pasi paKristu, saizvozvowo vakadzi vanofanira kuzviisa pasi pavarume venyu pazvinhu zvese.
Uye imi varume munofanira kuda vakadzi venyu nerudo irwo rwakaratidzwa naKereke kukereke. Akarasa hupenyu hwake kuti huite dzvene uye rive rakachena, rakashambidzwa nerubhabhatidzo uye neshoko raMwari.Iye akazviitira kuti azvipe pachezvake sekereke inobwinya isina banga, makaka kana kumwe kusakwana. Panzvimbo pezvo, chichava chitsvene uye chisina chingapomerwa. Saizvozvo, varume vanofanira kuda vakadzi vavo sokuda kwavanoita miviri yavo. Nekuti murume anonyatsozvida iye kana achida mukadzi wake. Hapana munhu anovenga muviri wake asi anouchengeta nerudo, Kristu zvaanochengeta muviri wake, inova kereke. Uye isu tiri muviri wake.
Sezvazvakanyorwa zvichinzi: “Murume achasiya baba vake namai vake uye agonamatira kumukadzi wake, uye vaviri ava vachabatanidzwa. Ichi ndicho chakavanzika chikuru, asi mucherechedzo wekuti Kristu nechechi vamwechete sei. VaEfeso 5: 23-32, NLT)
Uyu mufananidzo wemuchato muVaEfeso unowedzera kuita chimwe chinhu chakapamhamha kupfuura kambani nekudyidzana. Hukama hwemuchato hunoratidza hukama pakati paJesu Kristu nechechi. Varume vanokokwa kuti vasiye hupenyu hwavo murudo rwechibairo uye kuchengetedzwa kwemadzimai. Mukumbundikira kwechokwadi uye kunodiwa kwemurume ane rudo, mukadzi upi asingadi kuzviisa pasi penhungamiro yake?
Varume nemadzimai vakasiyana asi vakaenzana
Saizvozvo, imi vakadzi munofanira kugamuchira masimba evarume venyu, kunyangwe avo vanoramba kugamuchira Mashoko Akanaka. Hupenyu hwako hwamwari hunotaura kwavari zvirinani pane chero izwi. Vachakundwa nekutarisa maitiro ako akachena uye ehumwari.
Usatombo kunetseka pamusoro pekunaka kwekunze… Unofanira kuzivikanwa nerunako runobva mukati, runako rusingamiswe rwe mweya wakapfava uye wakanyarara, unokosha kwazvo kuna Mwari… Saizvozvo, imi varume, kudzai vakadzi venyu. Mubate nekunzwisisa pamunogara mese. Anogona kunge asina kusimba kupfuura iwe, asi ndiye mumwe wako akaenzana muchipo chaMwari chehupenyu hutsva. Ukasamubata sezvaunofanirwa, minamato yako haizopindurwe. (1 Petro 3: 1-5, 7, NLT)
Vamwe vaverengi vachasiya pano chaipo. Kuudza varume kuti vatore chinzvimbo chakasimba muwanano uye madzimai kuti vataure hachisi rairo yakakurumbira nhasi. Kunyangwe zvakadaro, gadziriro iyi mumuchato inoratidza hukama huri pakati paJesu Kristu nemuroora wake, kereke.
Ndima iyi muna 1 Peter inowedzera imwe kurudziro yekuti vakadzi vateerere kune varume vavo, kunyangwe avo vasingazive Kristu. Kunyangwe ichi chiri chinetso chakaoma, vhesi iyi inovimbisa kuti hunhu hwemukadzi hwemukati uye runako rwemukati ruchakunda murume zvinobudirira kupfuura mazwi ake. Varume vanofanirwa kukudza vakadzi vavo, vave vane moyo munyoro, uye vanonzwisisa.
Kana tikasangwarira, zvisinei, tinopotsa kuti Bhaibheri rinoti varume nevakadzi vanove vakaenzana mukupiwa naMwari kwehupenyu hutsva. Kunyangwe murume achishandisa chinzvimbo chechiremera nekurayira uye mukadzi anoita basa rekuzviisa pasi, vese vaviri vagovana nhaka muushe hwaMwari. Mabasa avo akasiyana asi akakosha zvakafanana.
Chinangwa chemuchato kukura pamwe muhutsvene
1 Vakorinde 7: 1-2
… Zvakanaka kuti murume asaroore. Asi nekuda kwekuti pane hupombwe hwakawanda, murume umwe neumwe anofanira kuva nemukadzi wake uye mukadzi wega wega ave nemurume wake. (NIV)
Ndima iyi inoratidza kuti zviri nani kusaroora. Avo vari mumichato yakaoma vaizobvuma munguva pfupi. Munhoroondo yese, zvaitendwa kuti kuzvipira kwakadzama kune zvekunamata kunogona kuwanikwa kuburikidza nehupenyu hwakazvipira kusaroora.
Ndima iyi inotaura nezvehupombwe. Mune mamwe mazwi, zvirinani kuroora pane kuita hupombwe. Asi kana tikajekesa zvinoreva kusanganisa mhando dzese dzounzenza, tinogona nyore kusazvifunga, kukara, kuda kudzora, ruvengo nenyaya dzese dzinomuka kana tapinda muhukama hwepedyo.
Zvinokwanisika here kuti chimwe chezvinangwa zvakadzama zvekuroora (kunze kwekubereka, kufambidzana, uye kufambidzana) kutimanikidza kusangana nehunhu hunokanganisa? Funga nezvehunhu uye hunhu izvo isu zvatisingazomboone kana zvatisingazomboone kunze kwehukama hwepedyo Kana isu tikabvumidza zvinetswa zvewanano kutimanikidza kupinda mukukonana, tinoshandisa chirango chemweya chakakosha zvikuru.
Mubhuku rake, The Holy Marriage, Gary Thomas anobvunza uyu mubvunzo: "Ko kana Mwari akaronga muchato kutiita vatsvene pane kutifadza?" Zvinokwanisika here kuti pane chimwe chinhu chakadzika kwazvo mumoyo maMwari pane kungoita kuti tifare?
Pasina mubvunzo, roorano ine hutano inogona kuve sosi yemufaro mukuru uye kugutsikana, asi Thomas anoratidza chimwe chinhu chakatonaka, chimwe chinhu chisingaperi - kuti roorano chishandiso chaMwari chekuita isu kuti tifanane naJesu Kristu.
Muchirongwa chaMwari, tinodaidzwa kuti tiise zvishuwo zvedu zvekuda nekushandira murume / mukadzi wedu. Kubudikidza nemuchato tinodzidza nezverudo, kuremekedza, kukudza uye maitiro ekuregerera uye kuregererwa. Isu tinoona kukanganisa kwedu uye tinokura kubva pane izvo chiratidzo. Tinokudziridza moyo wemuranda uye tinoswedera padyo naMwari.Saizvozvo, tinowana mufaro wechokwadi wemweya.