Kubudirira mune zvedzidzo kana kukundikana kwevabereki (naBaba Giulio Scozzaro)

Ndinorangarira St John Bosco, mudzidzisi mukuru wevechidiki, chaizvo munguva dzino dzekuparara pamweya nekushaya tariro kwevechidiki. Isu tinonzwa kwakawanda uye kwakawanda mishumo yevechidiki vakafa vakafa vakasungirirwa pamushonga kana kubva kunharo dzakatsamwa pakati pavo. Huwandu hwevechidiki nhasi vasinganamate kana kuziva Jesu hwakakwira, kupfuura 95%. Ko ivo vabereki vanofungei?
San Giovanni Bosco aishamisa nevana, vechidiki, zviuru zvevana vakasiyiwa mumugwagwa muguta reTurin vasina kugadzikana, uye nekuzvipira kukuru vakazvipira kuruponeso rwavo. Akavatora kubva mumugwagwa, vazhinji vacho yaive nherera, vamwe vakasiyiwa nevabereki nekuda kwehurombo uye kusava nehanya.
Chirevo chakamisikidzwa naSan Giovanni Bosco inzvimbo inochengetedza vechidiki vazhinji kubva mukusaziva zvine njodzi, kubva kune husimbe huripo uye kusagutsikana uku kunotungamira kuchishuwo chiri kukura chekushandisa zvinodhaka, doro uye bonde rakashata.
Dambudziko chairo nhasi kusavapo kwekuumbwa kwechitendero, havana ruzivo rwakakodzera rwehunhu hwevanhu uye vanorarama sevakarasika uye vapererwa.
Zvikanganiso zviri chaizvo zvevabereki. Zvizvarwa zviviri zvekupedzisira zvinoratidza vabereki vanonetsekana chete nekufadza vana vavo mune zvese, vachivasiya vakasununguka kudzokera kumba chero nguva yehusiku, vachibvumira izvo zvisina hunhu uye zvisina kana kutenderwa nevanhu.
Vanozvinyengera kuva nevana vakanakisa pakuvaona vachifara asi izvi zvinouya nekuvapa zvese zvavanokumbira.
Kunze kwevashoma, vamwe vese vabereki havazive mazano uye manyepo evana vavo, zvavanoita kana vabuda, kwavanoenda uye nezvavanoita. Ivo havazive zvinokanganiswa nevana vavo uye vanovarumbidza sekunge vasina hunhu uye vanozvibata nemazvo kunyangwe vasipo pamba ...
Vabereki vanoziva zvakakomba zvakakomba zvevana vavo uye vanovhara maziso avo kune zvese, ivo vanokanganwa kana kunyange kutsanangura zvikanganiso uye chokwadi zvine hunyoro hwakadzikama, nekuda kwerudo rwavo rwakashata uye vanosiya vana vavo vachigutsikana kuti vanobvumidzwa kuita zvese.
Vabereki vanofanira kugara vachida vana vavo, asi vanofanirwa kusvika pazivo yepamusoro yekutadza kwevana vavo nekukanganisa kuvabatsira uye, kana zvichidikanwa, kuvatuka kazhinji. Urwu ndirwo rudo rwechokwadi, vanofanirwa kugara vachiratidza izvo zvakakodzera kuita, zvinobatsira mweya, hana.
KUSINA KURANGIDZWA, KUSINA KUTYAIRA KUNYANYA, VECHIDUKU VANOGARA VAKAKOMESA KUNZE, KUNZE KWEMUSORO, ICHI ZVINONYANYA, ZVAKANAKA UYE VAKANYARARA VANoratidza MUMBA.
KANA MWANA ANE Pfungwa YOKUDZIMA, ANOTORA WESE KUTI AWANE ZVAANODA, KUNYANYA KUSA KURATIDZA IZVI ZVAKE NEZVAKANYANYA KUKUNDA KUNYANYA NEVASHAMWARI!
Maitiro evana muzera rekukura anofanirwa kuve ane rudo, anogara aripo uye ane chimiro, zvichivaita kuti vataure zvakawanda kuti vagadzirise. Vabereki vazhinji vanozviwana vachikwidziridzwa vana pavanobuda neshamwari, kana vakapindwa muropa nezvinodhaka, kana vakapindwa muropa nehunhu husingataurike vobva vadzokera kudzimba dzavo nechiso chakataridzika kunge ngirozi diki ... Vabereki vaivepi?
Kunze kwevashoma, vamwe vese vabereki havana hanya nedzidziso yekunamata yevana vavo, pamwe vanogutsikana pavakaenda kuMisa asi iri rinongova danho rekutanga. Vana vanofanirwa kuumbwa nekutaura zvakawanda navo kare pavanenge vari vana kuitira kuti vazive kutarisisa uye kushaya simba, kunyangwe zvimiro zvekunyarara kuti varege kuburitsa hurema hwavo.
Vana vanofanira kuteerera, kuteerera uye kuteedzera kuraira kwevabereki zvese zvehupenyu hwavo uye zvezera uye izvi zvinofanirwa kuratidza mwero, asi hazviwanzo kuitika nekuda kwekuvhiringidzika kwepfungwa uye kushaya simba kwevabereki.
Mubereki anoda vana vake zvechokwadi kana achinyanya kuva nehanya nemweya yavo, ivo chete ndivo vachararama nekusingaperi, asi muviri uchaora. Asi havazi vabereki chete vanonetseka pamusoro pemweya, zvakare zvakakosha kuhutano hwepanyama hwevana vavo, nekudya kwakakodzera uye izvo zvinodiwa kune hupenyu hunokudzwa.
Hwemweya uye hwakakura rudo rwevabereki rwevana vavo rwuripo kana vachifambisa dzidziso yechitendero zvinoenderana neEvhangeri.
Munhu anoshamisa waSt. John Bosco ndiye muenzaniso wevabereki vese, iye ne "nzira yekudzivirira" akakwanisa kudzora vechidiki semhuka dzakashata, dzakazvipira kuhunhu, kuba uye nemhando dzose dzekudarika.
Izvo zvinokwanisika kudzoreredza vechidiki vakadzikira, zvinotora rudo rukuru, kuva padhuze, kwechokwadi uye kutungamira kutungamira, kugara uchinamatira ivo.
Mune yedzidziso nehunhu hwevana nevechidiki, zvakakosha kuvayambira pamusoro pemhedzisiro yetsika dzavo uye kazhinji nzira dzechisimba dzekuita, zvinovapa iko kungwarira uko kazhinji kazhinji kwavasingarime nekuti havana hanya uye havaite rangarira kunyeverwa kwevabereki vavo.
Pasina zviyeuchidzo izvi uye kunyimwa kwekupedzisira kwemazuva mashoma ezvinodiwa nevana vavo, vabereki havabatsire vana nevana.
Icho chiito chechokwadi cherudo kwavari kuvadaidza kuti vadzokere nekusimba uye nerudo rukuru, zvikasadaro ivo vanotora uye zvese zvinokodzera.
Vana (vana kana vechidiki) havafanirwe kupihwa zvese zvavanoti hazvina basa, kana vasina simba mune izvi uye vachizvisimbisa, vakatokunda.
Iyo fosi yakanaka yekuvaita kuti "vaiwane" nekuremekedza nhengo dzemhuri, hunhu husinga tsoropodzwa mukati nekunze, nekuzadzikiswa kwemabasa, ezvavo, sekunamata, kuzvipira kudzidza, kuremekedza munhu wese, kurongedza yekamuri uye kubatsira kupa kutenderera imba.
Civic dzidzo inopa hwaro hwedzidzo kuzvizvarwa zvinotevera, vanhu vanozotora zvinzvimbo, uye hana inofanira kuumbwa nevabereki.
Kusvikira vakaiswa nenjodzi nezvakaipa, vechidiki vakachena, inyaya yekuumbwa uye ivo vanoumbwa nemienzaniso yavanogashira. Hakusi kungova kwakanaka uye kusingagumi kwevabereki, kutendeseka kwepfungwa kwevadzidzisi, kunoona kubudirira mune zvedzidzo zvirimo.
Mugwagwa, zvakatipoteredza, hutano, mikana yakaenzana uye hunhu "dzidzo" hazviwanzo rondedzere mhedzisiro yekudzidza uye kugadziriswa kwehunhu hunhu, hazviitwe nekuti tsika yekudarika nemhirizhonga, yavanowana kubva pawebhu uye kubva kuterevhizheni, nevaimbi vasina hunhu uye kazhinji varombo.
Nhasi uno vanenge vese vechidiki vanokura vasina nzira dzakachengeteka uye dzakarurama kubva kuvabereki vavo.
Iko kufunga kwakapinzwa nhasi nevazhinji venhau kunopa vechidiki swagger iyo makumi mashoma emakore apfuura anga asingafungidzike, uye izvi zvakare zvinoratidza kushaya simba kwevabereki kwakakanganiswa nekunaka, mutsa, rupo. Panzvimbo pezvo kuenderana nenzira isiri-yekudzidzisa, kusakwanisa kutaurirana nevana, kushaya simba kana vana vachisimudza mazwi avo kana kutochema!
NDIKO KUKUNDIKANA KWAKAZARA KWEMABASA EVABEREKI NEDZIDZO.
MuItaly kune dzidzo inogara ichingokura uye kushomeka kwetsika uye kwakaomarara kudzidzisa kwemitemo yehupenyu hweveruzhinji, kusanganisira hunhu hwakanaka uye hunhu hwakanaka.
Ini ndinodzivirira vechidiki uye ndinorevera kuvabereki mutoro webasa risingadzoreke pakunamata nehunhu. Zvinofanira kutaurwa kuti kunyange vechidiki vakadzidza nhasi vanotsauswa zviri nyore nevamwe vechidiki vasina hunhu, vakapindwa muropa neunzenza uye kushaya dzidzo.
Kuva mubereki kwakaoma, saka pasina munamato, pasina rubatsiro rwaJesu haukwanisi kutarisana nevechidiki uye iko kukundikana chaiko.
MuEvhangeri, Jesu anomutsa musikana, saka vabereki vese vanofanirwa kukumbira Ishe kuti vasimudze vana vavo kubva paupenyu husina maturo, hunhu hwemhirizhonga nerufu, kubva pane zvese hunhu hunopesana nehunhu hwechiKristu.
Vabereki vanofanirwa kubatsira vana vavo zvakanyanya kubva vachiri vadiki, hausi mufaro wechokwadi kana vachivagutsa mune zvese, asi kana vakura sekuda kwaJesu.
Kana murume wechidiki achiratidzika kunge akarasika uye achinamatira zvakawanda kwaari, kutendeuka kwake, kumutswa kwake pamweya kunosimbirwa, Jesu anogara achiteerera uye anopindira kana angowana mukana muhana yejaya iri. Jesu anoda vechidiki vese uye anoda kununura munhu wese kubva mukutongwa kusingaperi, imi vabereki mune basa rekudzidzisa vana venyu kunamata.
Vanodzedzereka uye vasina rutendo muna Mwari vanogona kuchinja vova maKristu akanaka, anocherekedza hunhu, neminamato yevabereki vavo!