Rudzidziso Rwenyika: VaDalai Lama vakabvumidza here kuroora kweungochani?
Muchikamu cheKurume 2014 paLarry King Zvino, nhepfenyuro yeterevhizheni inowanikwa kuburikidza nedhijitari pane-inoda terevhizheni network Ora TV, Hutsvene Hwake Dalai Lama akataura kuti kuroora ngochani "Kwakanaka". Tichifunga nezveUtsvene Hwake 'zvataurwa kare kuti bonde reungochani rakaenzana ne "kusazvibata pabonde," izvi zvakaratidza sekuchinja maonero ake ekare.
Zvisinei, chirevo chake kuna Larry King hachina kupokana nezvaakataura munguva yakapfuura. Pfungwa yaro yakakosha yagara iri yekuti hapana chakaipa pabonde revane ungochani kunze kwekunge ichityora zvirevo zvechitendero chako. Uye izvo zvaizosanganisira chiBuddha, zvinoenderana neUtsvene Hwake, kunyange muchokwadi kwete chiBuddha chose chingabvumirane.
Kuonekwa paLary King
Kuti titsanangure izvi, ngatitangei titarise izvo zvaakaudza Larry King nezve Larry King Zvino:
Larry King: Iwe unofungei nezvemubvunzo wese unobuda ungochani?
HHDL: Ini ndinofunga inyaya yega. Ehe, iwe unoona, vanhu vane zvitendero kana vane tsika dzakasarudzika, saka iwe unofanirwa kutevedzera maererano netsika yako. Kufanana neBuddha, kune mhando dzakasiyana dzekusazvibata pabonde, saka unofanirwa kutevedzera nemazvo. Asi zvino kune asingatendi, zvinoenderana navo. Saka kune nzira dzakasiyana dzebonde, chero bedzi dzakachengeteka, zvakanaka, uye kana ndichibvumirana zvizere, zvakanaka. Asi kudheerera, kushungurudzwa, hakuna kunaka. Uku kutyorwa kwekodzero dzevanhu.
Larry King: Ko zvekuroora kana kuroorwa?
HHDL: Zvinoenderana nemutemo wenyika.
Larry King: Unofungei iwe pachako?
HHDL: Zvakanaka. Ini ndinofunga ibhizimusi rega. Kana vanhu vaviri - vaviri - vachinyatsofunga kuti zvinonyanya kushanda, zvinogutsa, mativi ese ari muchibvumirano chakazara, saka OK ...
Chirevo chakapfuura nezve ungochani
Mutevedzeri weAIDS achangoburwa Steve Peskind akanyora chinyorwa cheMarch 1998 chinyorwa cheBuddhist magazini inonzi Shambhala Sun, yakanzi "Zvinoenderana neBuddhist Tsika: Ngochani, Lesbians uye Tsananguro yeHupombwe." Peskind akataura kuti muna Kukadzi / Kurume 1994 magazini yeOUT, iyo Dalai Lama yakataurwa ichiti:
“Kana mumwe munhu akauya kwandiri akandibvunza kuti zvakanaka here kana kuti kwete, ndinotanga ndavhunza kana uine mhiko dzechitendero dzaunofanira kuchengeta. Saka mubvunzo wangu unotevera ndewokuti: Ndeupi mafungiro emumwe wako? Kana imi mose muchibvumirana, ndinofunga ndingati kana varume vaviri kana vakadzi vaviri vachizvipira vakabvuma kuva nekugutsikana pamwe chete pasina zvimwe zvinokuvadza vamwe, izvo zvakanaka. "
Zvisinei, Peskind akanyora, mumusangano nenhengo dzenharaunda yeSan Francisco ngochani muna 1998, Dalai Lama akati, "Kuita zvepabonde kunonzi kwakarurama apo vakaroorana vanoshandisa nhengo dzakagadzirirwa kusangana uye hapana chimwe chinhu," ndokuzoenderera mberi nekutsanangura heterosexual coitus sekushandisa chete kwakakodzera kwenhengo.
Ndeye flip flops? Kwete chaizvo.
Chii chinonzi kusazvibata pabonde?
Iwo maBuddhist Mirawo unosanganisira chengeto yakapusa kubva ku "kusazvibata pabonde" kana kwete "kushungurudza" bonde. Nekudaro, kana nhoroondo yeBuddha kana ivo vekutanga vadzidzi havana kunetsekana nekutsanangura chaizvo zvazvinoreva. Ivo Vinaya, iyo mirawo yemamongi mirairo, havadi mamonki nemasisita kuita bonde zvachose, saka zviri pachena. Asi kana iwe uri munhu asiri-asina kuroora, zvinorevei kusa "shungurudza" bonde?
Sezvo chiBuddha chakapararira kuenda kuAsia, pakange pasina masimba echechi ekumanikidza kunzwisisa kwakafanana kwedzidziso, seizvo Chechi yeKaturike yakamboita muEurope. Tembere nedzimba dzemamongi dzaiwanzo tora pfungwa dzemunharaunda dzezvakanaka nezvisizvo. Vadzidzisi vakaparadzaniswa nedaro uye zvipingamupinyi zvemitauro kazhinji vaiuya kumhedziso yavo pamusoro pezvinhu, uye ndizvo zvakaitika neungochani. Vamwe vadzidzisi vechiBhudha mune mamwe matunhu eAsia vakafunga kuti ungochani kwaive kusazvibata, asi vamwe mune dzimwe nzvimbo dzeAsia vakazvigamuchira sedambudziko hombe. Izvi zviri, mukukosha, nanhasi.
Mudzidzisi weTibetan Buddhist Tsongkhapa (1357-1419), tateguru wechikoro cheGelug, akanyora chirevo nezvebonde izvo veTibetan vanoona zvine chiremera. Kana iyo Dalai Lama ikataura nezve izvo zvakanaka nezvisiri izvo, ndizvo zviri kuitika. Asi izvi zvinongo sunga paTibetan Buddhism.
Izvo zvinonzwisiswa zvakare kuti iyo Dalai Lama haina iyo yega mvumo yekuwedzeredza dzidziso refu inogamuchirwa. Shanduko yakadaro inoda kubvumidzwa kwemaLama mazhinji epamusoro. Izvo zvinokwanisika kuti iyo Dalai Lama haina hupenyu hwemunhu kune hungochani, asi anotora basa rake semuchengeti wetsika zvakanyanya.
Kubata nemairaira
Kuongorora izvo zvinotaurwa naDalai Lama zvinoda zvakare kunzwisisa kuti maBuddhist anoona sei zvirevo. Kunyangwe zvakada kufanana neMirairo Gumi, mirau yeBuddhist haionekwe seyakanangana nemitemo yetsika yakasungirwa kumunhu wese. Panzvimbo iyoyo, ivo kuzvipira kwavo pachedu, vachisunga chete kune avo vakasarudza kutevera nzira yeBuddhist uye ivo vakatora mhiko dzekuzvichengeta.
Saka Hutsvene hwake paakati kuna Larry King, “SeBuddha, kune mhando dzakasiyana dzehupombwe, saka unofanira kuutevera nemazvo. Asi zvino kune asingatendi, zvava kwavari, ”ari kutaura kuti hapana chakaipa pabonde reungochani kunze kwekunge richityora mhiko dzechitendero dzawakatora. Uye ndizvo zvaaigara achitaura.
Zvimwe zvikoro zveBuddhism, zvakaita seZen, zviri kubvuma zvikuru ungochani, saka kuve ngochani Buddhist haisi iro dambudziko.