Akafa kwemaminetsi gumi nemana mushure mekutsikwa nemabhiza, anotiudza hupenyu hwapashure porufu

Wati wambove uine chiitiko chepedyo-kufa? Wakamboona hupenyu hwako huchipenya pamberi pemeso ako kana pamwe chiitiko chekunze kwemuviri?

Makore makumi matatu nematatu apfuura, Lesley Lupo akafa kwemaminetsi gumi nemana mushure mekutsikwa nemabhiza, asi ndozvakaitika mumaminetsi gumi nemana ayo vanhu vazhinji vanonetseka kutenda, nekuti havazi vese vakave nerufu rwepedyo. "Ndakasvetuka ndichibuda mumuviri wangu uye ndange ndangoita 31m kure, uye izvo zvaindinetsa mupfungwa nekuti ndakanga ndisina zvido zvemweya," akadaro Lupo.

Icho chaive chiitiko chekunze-chemuviri kune iye panguva iyoyo 36-gore-okuberekwa Lupo, sezvo iye akatsikwa neanopfuura masere mabhiza papurazi.

“Handina kunzwisisa kuti chii chaiitika. Ndakangovhunduka, ”akadaro Lupo. “Uyezve, mamwe masekondi gumi, ndakaona rimwe bhiza richiridza mhere, uye munhu wese akamhanya achitiza, uye ndakazvitarisa ndikabatwa mune izvi uye ini ndaive, senge, ndainonoka, munoziva. Ndakatendeuka, ruoko rwangu rwakapinda nepakati, mabhiza akamhanya, asi ikozvino ndiri kudhonza, ndichinetseka kuti ndibve munzira yangu, ndichiridza mhere. Mhumhi haina kunzwa kurwadziwa. Anotsanangura manzwiro erunyararo, zvisinei nekurwadziwa mumuviri kwaakanzwa muviri wake.

"Dai paine munhu ainditarisa panguva iyoyo, angadai akati, nhai Mwari wangu, vakatambura zvakanyanya, uye ini handina kutambura zvachose nekuti handina kuzvinzwa," akadaro Wolf. “Mabhiza aya aindirova, uye pekupedzisira muviri wangu wakabhururuka uchibva mudanga ndokuumbika, ndikaziva kuti ndafa, zvapera. Ndakatanga kuseka. Ndakatarisa tarisa fenzi sezvo guruva rakanga rogara. " Sezvo vanhu vakamhanyira kudivi raWolf kunomubatsira, aive achisangana neimwe nzvimbo. Anoriidza kuti "kumusoro" uye kune vanhu vazhinji inogona kunge iri kudenga.

Kuna Lupo, uyo aisatenda kuti kuna Mwari, kwaive kusagadzikana kwakazara. "Tucson iri kutanga kupera," akadaro Lupo. “Zvakatanga - kufamba zvakandikomberedza, uye kamwe kamwe ndiri musango. Yakanga yakaita sesango remuouki riine rwizi shure kwangu, uye rwakanga rwakanyanya, rwakasvibira, uye kudzikama kwandainzwa paPasi pandakanga ndichizvitarisa pandakarega muviri wangu. Zvaive sekubvisa bhandi remuviri mashoma madiki uye kurikanda pamubhedha. "

Lupo akarangarira achisangana nevanhu vaakange asati ambosangana navo, asi vamwe vanhu vanotaura vachiona hama dzakafa dzavasati vamboona, kunyange kunzwa nezvezviitiko. "Izvi zvinogona kusimbiswa nekuenda nekufukura ruzivo uye uchinyatsotaura kuti munhu iyeye akafa munhu uyu asati ave neruzivo urwu, uye vakanzwa kuti vakasangana naye muzviitiko zvavo. Aya maonero echokwadi, ”yakadaro International Association for Near-Death Studies.

Chiitiko ichi chaive chisiri nyore munzira yekudzoka. Lupo akati anonzwa kusurukirwa. Kune imwe, zvaive zvakaoma mumuviri uye zvinoshungurudza, nekuti hapana akamutenda. "Rwaive rwendo rwangu rwepamusoro uye ndaida kutaura kune wese munhu nezvazvo," akadaro Lupo. “Zvakanaka, chiremba wangu afunga kuti ndanga ndichifungidzira. Ndakanga ndisina maitiro ekushandisa zvinodhaka uye ini ndakanga ndisiri pamishonga. Kunyangwe mune zvimwe zvezvitendero zvakarongeka, hapana munhu anoda kunzwa nezvazvo, kunyangwe iwe uchigona kuvaudza hongu, ndinoziva denga, ndanga ndiripo, nekuti munhu wese anokuitira kunge unopenga. "

Kwemakore mazhinji, vanhu vanga vachifunga kuti kwaive kurwara nepfungwa kana kuona zvisirizvo, asi kana vanhu vakatarisa hunhu hwevaviri, pane mamwe mapoinzi akafanana. Zvisinei, kana uchitarisa maitiro ehurwere hwepfungwa uye chiitiko chepedyo-kufa, hapana chakajairika.

“Semuenzaniso, ndangariro yechiitiko ichi yakajeka uye haichinje nekufamba kwenguva. Sezvineiwo, pane dzimwe nguva, inogona kuve mhando yekuyedza kunzwa muyedza achiudza zvese izvo zvakasarudzika, nekuti pavanotanga kukwanisa kuigovana kekutanga kuti vawane kusimbiswa, iwo madheti acho ndeyechokwadi ruzivo, uye pavanonyanya kurangarira iwo madhiri, ndipo pavanonyanya kugara navo nguva dzose. Panguva iyo, kana uine zvisirizvo kana fungidziro, izvo zvinhu zvinopera mumazuva nemaawa uye havagone kurangarira nyaya imwechete kaviri. "

Mhumhi haisi yega munhu akamboona izvi. Muchokwadi, mamirioni avanhu kupota pasirese vakagovana nyaya dzavo. Kunyangwe ivo vakave neruzivo rwekunze-kwemuviri, vakaona hupenyu hwavo kupenya pamberi pemeso avo, kana kuti vakasvika kune imwe nzvimbo mushure mekufa, pane mukana wekuti pane chimwezve chinhu.

“Kana mumwe munhu achida kufunga kuti hapana, saka funga kudaro. Iyi ndiyo sarudzo yake, ”akadaro Lupo. "Handina kuzombodzokera kumashure."