Kana iwe wakarambana uye wakaroora zvakare, unogara muhupombwe here?
The Bible Divorce and Remarry kudzidza kunotsanangura mamiriro ezvinhu angaite murume nemukadzi kupedza muchato wavo nekurambana. Chidzidzo ichi chinotsanangura izvo zvinoonekwa naMwari sekurambana kubva muBhaibheri. Kurambana kwebhaibheri kune mvumo yekuroorwazve nechikomborero chaMwari. Muchidimbu, kurambana kwebhaibheri kurambana kunoitika nekuti murume kana mukadzi anenge atadzira akaita chivi chebonde nemumwe munhu asiri waakaroorana naye (kurara nemhuka, ungochani, kuita bonde, kana makunakuna) kana nekuti murume asiri muKristu akawana kurambana. Chero ani zvake akarambana nemubhaibheri ane mvumo yekuroorazve nechikomborero chaMwari.Chero kumwe kurambana kana kuroorazve haana maropafadzo aMwari uye zvivi.
Kuita upombwe sei
Mateo 5:32 inonyora chirevo chekutanga pamusoro pekurambana uye hupombwe chakaitwa naJesu muevhangeri.
. . . asi ini ndinoti kwamuri: Ani nani unoramba mukadzi wake, kunze kwekushaya hunhu, unomuita kuti aite upombwe; uye ani nani anowana mukadzi akarambwa anoita upombwe. (NASB) Mateo 5:32
Nzira yakapusa yekunzwisisa zvinoreva ndima iyi kubvisa chirevo chakakosha "kunze kwechikonzero chekushaya hunhu". Heino ndima imwechete nemutongo wabviswa.
. . . asi ini ndinoti kwamuri ani nani unoramba mukadzi wake. . . zvinomuita kuti aite upombwe; uye ani nani anowana mukadzi akarambwa anoita upombwe. (NASB) Mateo 5:32 yakagadziridzwa
Mazwi echiGiriki anoti "unoita upombwe" uye "unoita upombwe" anobva kumidzi yemazwi moicheuo uye gameo. Izwi rekutanga, moicheuo, riri muchimiro chekungoita chirevo, zvinoreva kuti kurambana kwakaitika uye Jesu anotora kuti mukadzi akaroorazve. Nekuda kweizvozvo, aimbova mukadzi uye murume anomuroora anoita hupombwe. Rumwe ruzivo rwunopihwa muna Mateo 19: 9; Mako 10: 11-12 naRuka 16:18. Muna Mako 10: 11-12, Jesu anoshandisa mufananidzo wemukadzi aramba murume wake.
Uye ndinoti kwamuri: Ani nani anoramba mukadzi wake, kunze kwekufeva, akaroora mumwe mukadzi, unoita upombwe. Mateu 19: 9 (NASB)
Uye akati kwavari: “Ani naani anoramba mukadzi wake uye akaroora mumwe mukadzi anoita upombwe kwaari. uye kana iye achiramba murume wake akaroorwa nemumwe murume, anoita upombwe “. Mako 10: 11-12 (NASB)
Ani naani anoramba mukadzi wake akawana mumwe anoita upombwe, uye ani naani anowana mukadzi akarambwa anoita upombwe. Ruka 16:18 (NASB)
Kukurudzira mumwe munhu kuita upombwe
Izwi repiri, gameo, iri zvakare mune yenguva yekureva izvo zvinoreva kuti mukadzi akaita hupombwe pane imwe nguva panguva yaakaroora mumwe murume. Ziva kuti chero murume akarambana akaroora kana kuroorwazve anoita upombwe uye anokonzeresa murume / mukadzi mutsva kuita upombwe, kunze kwekunge kurambana kuri "nekuda kwekunyara. Kusanyara kunoshandurwawo seunzenza kana porneia.
Aya mavhesi anoratidza kuti murume kana mukadzi asingaroorezve saka haana mhosva yehupombwe. Kana mumwe wevakarambana akaroora, vanozoita mhombwe kana mhombwe zvinoenderana naVaRoma 7: 3.
Naizvozvo, kana akawanikwa nomumwe murume, kunyange murume wake achiri mupenyu, anonzi chifeve. asi kana murume afa, asununguka pamurairo, kuti arege kuita upombwe, kunyange akawanikwa nomumwe murume. VaRoma 7: 3 (NASB)
Sei achinzi mhombwe kana kuti anonzi mhombwe? Mhinduro ndeyekuti vakaita zvivi zvehupombwe.
Ndoita sei? Ndaita hupombwe
Upombwe hunogona kuregererwa, asi izvozvo hazvichinje chokwadi chekuti chaive chivi. Kushoreka dzimwe nguva kunonzi kune mazwi "hupombwe", "mhombwe" uye "mhombwe". Asi izvi hazvisi zvebhaibheri. Mwari haana kutikumbira kuti tiumburuke muzvivi zvedu mushure mekunge tareurura zvivi zvedu kwaari uye nekugamuchira kuregererwa kwake. VaRoma 3:23 inotiyeuchidza kuti munhu wese akatadza.
. . . nekuti vese vakatadza vakasasvika pakubwinya kwaMwari. . VaRoma 3:23 (NASB)
Zvivi zvese uye vazhinji vakatoita hupombwe! Mupositora Pauro akanetsa, akabata zvakaipa, uye akatyisidzira maKristu mazhinji (Mabasa 8: 3; 9: 1, 4). Muna 1 Timotio 1:15 Pauro akazvidaidza kuti wekutanga (protos) wevatadzi. Nekudaro, munaVaFiripi 3:13 akati haana hanya nezvakaitika kare uye akaenderera mberi nekushandira Kristu.
Hama, handizvione sendakabata izvozvi; asi chinhu chimwe chete chandinoita: kukanganwa zviri kumashure uye kutsvaga zvinouya zviri mberi, ndinozvisundidzira ndakananga kuchinangwa chemubairo wekudana kwaMwari kumusoro muna Kristu Jesu. VaFiripi 3: 13-14 (NASB)
Izvi zvinoreva kuti kana tangoreurura zvivi zvedu (1 Johane 1: 9), tinokanganwirwa. Pauro anobva atikurudzira kuti tikanganwe uye kuti tirambe tichionga Mwari nekuregerera kwake.
Ndaita hupombwe. Ndinofanira kuikanzura here?
Vamwe vakaroorana vakaita upombwe nekuroora kana vasingafaniri kudaro vakashamisika kana vaizofanira kurambana kuti vagadzirise hupombwe. Mhinduro ndeye, nekuti izvo zvinogona kutungamira kune chimwe chivi. Kupara chimwe chivi hakugadzirise chitadzo chakapfuura. Kana vaviri vacho vakatendeseka, vakatendeka kubva pasi pemoyo yavo vakareurura zvivi zvehupombwe, vakaregererwa. Mwari vakamukanganwa (Mapisarema 103: 12; Isaya 38: 17; Jeremia 31: 34; Mika 7: 19). Hatifanire kukanganwa kuti Mwari anovenga kurambana (Maraki 2:14).
Vamwe vakaroorana vanonetseka kana vachifanira kurambana newavakaroorana naye iyezvino vodzokera kune vavakaroorana naye. Mhinduro yacho zvakare "aiwa" nekuti kurambana chitadzo, kunze kwekunge wawakaroorana naye arara nemumwe munhu. Uyezve, kuroorwazve kweaimbova mukadzi hazviiti nekuda kwaDheuteronomio 24: 1-4.
Munhu anoreurura chitadzo chake kuna Mwari kana achinge ataura kuti chitadzo uye obvuma kuti akatadza. Kuti uwane rumwe ruzivo, verenga chinyorwa "Ungaregerera Sei Chivi cheUpombwe? - Chivi chisingaperi here? ”Kuti unzwisise kuti hupombwe hunotora nguva yakareba sei, verenga: "
Mhedziso:
Kurambana kwaive kusiri muhurongwa hwepakutanga hwaMwari, Mwari vanozvitendera chete nekuda kwekuoma kwemoyo yedu (Mateo 19: 8-9). Mhedzisiro yechivi ichi yakafanana nezvimwe zvivi. pane zvinogara zvisingadzivisike mhedzisiro. Asi usakanganwa kuti Mwari vanoregerera chivi ichi kana chareururwa. Akakanganwira Mambo David uyo akauraya murume wemukadzi uyo David waakaita hupombwe naye. Hakuna zvivi izvo Mwari zvaasingaregerere, kunze kwechivi chisingaregererwi. Mwari haaregereri zvivi kana kureurura kwedu kusiri kwechokwadi uye isu tisina kutendeuka zvechokwadi. Kutendeuka kunoreva kuti takazvipira kusadzokorora zvivi.