Zvikonzero zvikuru zvinomwe zvekureurura mangwana
KuGregorian Institute kuBenedictine College tinotenda kuti yave nguva yekuti vaKaturike vakurudzire uye nesimba kusimudzira kureurura.
"Kuvandudzwa kweChechi muAmerica nepasirese kunoenderana nekuvandudzwa kwemuitiro wekupfemba," akadaro Papa Benedict munhandare yeNationalals muWashington.
Pope John Paul II vakapedza makore avo ekupedzisira pasi pano vachinamata maKaturike kuti vadzokere kureurura, kusanganisira ichi chikumbiro muchimbichimbi motu proprio pamusoro pekureurura uye encyclical paEucharist.
Iye pontiff akatsanangura dambudziko iri muChurch sedambudziko rekureurura, uye akanyorera vapristi:
"Ndiri kunzwa shungu yekukukoka neushamwari, sezvandakaita gore rapfuura, kuti ndiwanezve munhu patsva uye kuti nditorezve runako rweesakaramende reRubatsiro".
Sei kushushikana uku kwese pamusoro pekureurura? Nekuti kana tikasvetuka kureurura tinorasikirwa nepfungwa yechivi. Kurasika kwepfungwa yechivi ndiko kuri mudzi wezvakaipa zvakawanda munguva yedu, kubva pakushungurudzwa kwevana kusvika mukusavimbika kwemari, kubva pakubvisa nhumbu kusvika pakusatenda kuti kuna Mwari.
Ko zvino kusimudzira kureurura? Heano chikafu chekufunga. Zvikonzero zvinomwe zvekudzoka kureurura, zvose zvakasikwa uye zvemweya.
1. Chivi mutoro
Mumwe murapi akataura nyaya yemurwere uyo anga ave kuburikidza neyakaipisisa kutenderera kwekushushikana uye kuzvishora kubva kuchikoro chesekondari. Hapana chakaita sekubatsira. Rimwe zuva, murapi akasangana nemurwere pamberi pekereke yeKaturike. Vakachengetedza imomo imomo sezvo kwakatanga kunaya uye vakaona vanhu vachienda kunoreurura. "Ndoendawo here?" Akabvunza murwere, uyo akagashira sakaramende achiri mudiki. "Kwete!" Akadaro murapi. Murwere akaenda zvakadaro, ndokubuda kunze kwekureurura nekunyemwerera kwake kwekutanga mumakore, uye mumasvondo akatevera akatanga kugadzirisa. Iye murapi akadzidza kureurura zvakanyanya, akazove muKaturike uye izvozvi anokurudzira kureurura nguva dzose kuvarwere vake vese vechiKatorike.
Chivi chinotungamira mukusuwa moyo nekuti hakusi kutyora mitemo chete, kutyora chinangwa chakanyorwa mukuve kwedu naMwari.Kureurura kunosimudza mhosva nekuzvidya mwoyo kunokonzerwa nechivi nekukuporesa.
2. Chivi chinowedzera
Mune firimu 3:10 kuna Yuma, akaipa Ben Wade anoti, "Ini handitambise nguva kuita chero chinhu chakanaka, Dhani. Kana iwe ukaitira munhu chinhu chakanaka, ndinofungidzira chinova chijairira." Ari kutaura chokwadi. Sokutaura kwakaita Aristotle, "Tiri izvo zvatinoita kakawanda". Sekutaura kunoita Katekisimo, zvivi zvinokonzeresa kutadza. Vanhu havanyepe, vanova varevi venhema. Hatibi, tinova mbavha. Kutora danho rekupedzisira kubva kuchivi kunotsanangudza, zvinokutendera kuti utange miitiro mitsva yekunaka.
"Mwari vakatsunga kusunungura vana vake kubva muuranda kuti vavatungamise kurusununguko," akadaro Papa Benedict XVI. "Uye huranda hwakanyanya uye hwakadzama ndohwezvivi."
3. Tinoda kuzvitaura
Kana iwe ukatyora chinhu chiri cheshamwari uye kuti chaakada kwazvo, hazvingambove zvakaringana kungozvidemba. Iwe uchanzwa uchimanikidzwa kutsanangura zvawakaita, kuratidza kurwadziwa kwako uye kuita chero chinenge chakafanira kugadzirisa zvinhu.
Izvi zvinoitikawo kana tikatyora chinhu muukama hwedu naMwari.Tinofanirwa kutaura kuti tine urombo nekuyedza kugadzirisa zvinhu.
Papa Benedict XVI anosimbisa kuti isu tinofanirwa kunzwa kudiwa kwekureurura kunyangwe tisina kuita chivi chakakomba. “Tinochenesa dzimba dzedu, makamuri edu, kana svondo rega-rega, kunyangwe ivhu rakagara rakafanana. Kugara zvakachena, kutanga patsva; kana zvisina kudaro, pamwe tsvina haioneki, asi inoungana. Chinhu chakafanana chinoshandawo kumweya ”.
4. Kureurura kunobatsira kuti tizivane
Isu tanga takanganisa kwazvo pachedu. Kufunga kwedu isu pachedu kwakaita sekutevedzana kwemagirazi ekukanganisa. Dzimwe nguva tinoona shanduro yakasimba uye yakajeka kwatiri inotipa ruremekedzo, dzimwe nguva chiratidzo chinotyisa uye chine ruvengo.
Kureurura kunotimanikidza kuti titarise hupenyu hwedu netariro, kuti tisiyane nezvitadzo chaizvo kubva pane zvakaipa pfungwa uye kuzviona isu sezvatiri chaizvo.
Sezvinotaurwa naBenedict XVI, kureurura "kunotibetsera kuva nehana inokurumidza, yakavhurika hana uye nekudaro kukurisa pamweya uye sevanhu vemunhu".
5. Kureurura kunobatsira vana
Kunyangwe vana vanofanira kusvika kureurura. Vamwe vanyori vakanongedzera zvakashata zvekureurura kwehudiki - kumisikidzwa muzvikoro zveKaturike uye "kumanikidzwa" kufunga nezve zvinhu zvaunonzwa uine mhosva nazvo.
Hazvifanirwe kudaro.
Mupepeti weKaturike Digest Danielle Bean akambotsanangura kuti hama dzake nehanzvadzi dzakabvarura sei runyorwa rwezvitadzo mushure mekureurura ndokuzvikanda pasi mugero rekereke "Kusununguka kwakadii!" Akanyora. “Kumisikidza zvivi zvangu kunyika yerima kwayakabva zvakaita sezvakakodzera chose. 'Ndakarova hanzvadzi yangu katanhatu' uye 'ndakataura kuseri kwaamai vangu kanokwana' pakanga pasisina mitoro yandaifanira kutakura ”.
Kureurura kunogona kupa vana nzvimbo kurega chikepe pasina kutya, uye nzvimbo yekuwanira nemutsa kuraira kwemunhu mukuru pavanotya kutaura nevabereki vavo. Kuongororwa kwakanaka kwehana kunogona kutungamira vana kuzvinhu zvekureurura. Mhuri zhinji dzinoita kuti kureurura kuve "kubuda", kunoteverwa nechero ice cream.
6. Kureurura zvivi zvinofa kunokosha
Sekutaura kunoita Katekisimo, kutadza kureurura chitadzo "kunokonzera kubviswa muumambo hwaKristu uye nekufa kusingaperi kwegehena; zvirokwazvo rusununguko rwedu rune simba rekuita sarudzo dzakajeka, dzisingadzoreke ”.
Muzana ramakore rino rechimakumi maviri nembiri, Chechi yakaramba ichitiyeuchidza kuti maKatorike avo vakaita zvivi zvinouraya havagone kusvika kuCommunication vasina kureurura.
"Kuti zvivi zvife, zvinhu zvitatu zvinodiwa." Chivi chinofa chine nyaya yakakura uyezve, chinoitwa nekuziva kwakazara uye nekubvuma nemaune ", inodaro Katekisimo.
Mabhishopi eUnited States akayeuchidza maCatholic nezve zvivi zvakajairika izvo zvinoumba nyaya huru mugwaro ra2006 "Vakakomborerwa vaenzi pakudya kwake". Zvitadzo izvi zvinosanganisira kushaya Misa musi weSvondo kana mabiko ezvirevo, kubvisa nhumbu uye hutachiona, chero zviitiko zvipi nezvipi zvepabonde, kuba, kuona zvinonyadzisira, kuchera, kuvenga uye godo.
7. Kureurura kusangana pamwe chete naKristu
Mukureurura, ndiKristu anotiporesa uye anotikanganwira, kubudikidza neshumiro yemupristi. Isu tine kusangana kwedu naKristu mune zveruzhinji. Kufanana nevafudzi nevaroyi vari muchidyiro, tinoshamiswa uye tichizvininipisa. Uye sevatsvene pakarovererwa, tinonzwa kuonga, kutendeuka uye rugare.
Iko hakuna kubudirira kukuru muhupenyu kupfuura kubatsira mumwe munhu kuti adzokere kureurura.
Tinofanira kuda kutaura nezve kureurura apo tinotaura nezve chero chiitiko chakakosha muhupenyu hwedu. Kutaura "Ini ndichazokwanisa kuzviita gare gare, nekuti ndinofanira kuenda kunoreurura" kunogona kuve kunogutsa kupfuura hurukuro yezvouMwari. Uye sezvo kureurura chiitiko chakakosha muhupenyu hwedu, iri mhinduro yakakodzera kumubvunzo "Chii chauri kuita vhiki ino?". Vazhinji vedu vane zvakare nyaya dzinonakidza kana dzekupururudza nyaya, dzinofanira kutaurwa.
Ita kureurura chiitiko chakajairwazve. Rega vanhu vazhinji sezvinobvira vawane runako rweiyi saramende inosunungura.
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Tom Hoopes ndiye Mutevedzeri weMutungamiri weKoreji Relations uye Munyori paBenedictine College muAtchison, Kansas (USA). Zvinyorwa zvake zvakaonekwa muKutanga Zvinhu 'Mafungiro Ekutanga, National Ongororo Pamhepo, Dambudziko, Wedu Svondo mushanyi, Mukati meKaturike uye Columbia. Asati ajoina Benedictine College, aive director mukuru weNational Catholic Register. Aive munyori wezvematongerwo enyika wasachigaro weUS House Ways & Means Committee. Pamwe chete nemukadzi wake Kubvumbi aive co-mupepeti weRutendo & Mhuri yemagazini kwemakore mashanu. Vane vana vapfumbamwe. Maonero avo akaratidzirwa mune ino blog hazvireve kuti anoratidza iwo eBenedictine College kana iyo Gregorian Institute.
[Dudziro naRoberta Sciamplicotti]
Kunobva: Zvikonzero zvikuru zvinomwe zvekureurura mangwana (uye kazhinji)