Izinto ezi-3 amaKristu kufuneka azazi malunga nexhala kunye nokudakumba
L 'ixhala kunye ukudangala zizifo ezixhaphake kakhulu kubemi behlabathi. E-Italiya, ngokwedatha ye-Istat, kuqikelelwa ukuba i-7% yabemi abangaphezu kweminyaka eyi-14 (abantu abazizigidi ezi-3,7) banengxaki yoxinzelelo-uxinzelelo ngo-2018. Inani eliye lakhula ngokuhamba kweminyaka kwaye limiselwe ukwanda. Ukuxhalaba kunye nokudakumba kudla ngokudibana. Yintoni afanele ayazi amaKristu?
1. Yazi ukuba oku kuqhelekile
Akuyomfuneko ukuba uzive ‘uhlukile’ ukuba unengxaki yokuxhalaba okanye ukudandatheka, njengoko sichazile kwintshayelelo, abantu abaninzi bayabandezeleka yaye awahlukanga. Iinkxalabo zobomi ziqhelekile kubo bonke, zichaphazela umntu ngamnye kodwa unokujongana nazo noThixo othi kuwe: 'Musa ukoyika'. Uninzi lwamaqhawe eBhayibhile abandezeleka kuyo (uYona, uYeremiya, uMoses, uEliya). Into ekhathazayo kukuba uhlala kule meko. Ukuba oku kuyenzeka, thetha nogqirha wakho, umfundisi, okanye umcebisi ongumKristu.
2. Ubusuku obumnyama bomphefumlo
Wonke umntu "ubusuku obumnyama bomphefumlo". Oku kuqhelekile kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo kudlula ekuhambeni kwexesha. Xa sibala iintsikelelo zethu, sinokuphuma rhoqo kolu dandatheko. Nanku umbono. Yenza uluhlu lwazo zonke izinto ozifunayo ukuba nombulelo ngazo: ikhaya, umsebenzi, intsapho, inkululeko yonqulo, njl. Ndiyambulela uThixo ngayo yonke lento emthandazweni. Kunzima ukudandatheka xa ubulela uThixo.Beka izinto ngendlela. Izinto zisenokuba mbi ngakumbi, kwaye ukudandatheka asikokwenu kuphela. Uninzi lwabashumayeli babalaseleyo luye lwabandezeleka, njengoCharles Spurgeon noMartin Luther. Ingxaki ivela xa ungaphumi kudandatheko lwakho. Ukuba awukwazi ukuyeka ukudandatheka, fumana uncedo. Kholwa kuThixo Thandaza ufunde iBhayibhile yakho. Oku kuhamba indlela ende ekuziseni ekukhanyeni kubusuku obumnyama bomphefumlo.
3. Kuninzi okuxakayo malunga nantoni
U-Adrian Rogers wayedla ngokuthi i-85% yezinto esizikhathazayo azizange zenzeke, kwi-15% asikwazi ukwenza nantoni na. Xa kungekho nto sinokuyenza ukutshintsha ezo zinto, sinikele amaxhala kuThixo.UThixo unamagxa abanzi kunathi. Uyawubona umzabalazo wethu. Kwakhona, inkxalabo ibonisa ukuba asithembeli kuThixo ukuba yonke into iya kusisebenzela okulungileyo (Roma 8,18:8,28) kwaye ngaphezu koko, kufuneka siphile sicinga ngesiphelo nozuko oluya kufika noluya kutyhilwa kuthi (Roma XNUMX:XNUMX). XNUMX:XNUMX).