Ukuzibulala: Iimpawu zokuLumkisa kunye nokuThintela
Umzamo woku suicidio luphawu lwe ukungonwabi kakhulu kakhulu. Baninzi abantu abathatha isigqibo sokuzibulala minyaka le. Ulawulo lukarhulumente lucela ulwazi olungakumbi ngempilo yengqondo, engafumani nkxalabo efanayo nempilo yomzimba. Abantu abaninzi bayazibulala. Kodwa yintoni esinokuyenza ukunceda abo basokolayo?
Ukuthetha ngempilo yengqondo kubaluleke kakhulu, njengokukwazi ukuvuma iimpawu ze ukudangala ezihlala zifihlelwe Paura ukugwetywa. Ngamanye amaxesha emva koncumo kukho into esingazange sayicinga. Umntu ozama ukuzibulala uveza into enkulu kakhulu ukubandezeleka, ucinga ukufa kuphela kwesicombululo. Zininzi unobangela tyhala umntu kwesi senzo sigqithisileyo. Ezona zixhaphakileyo kukuqhawuka kweqhina leemvakalelo, ukungaphumeleli kwesikolo, ubunzima bezemali okanye ukuphulukana nomsebenzi, isigulo esibi.
Ukuzibulala yenye isicelo Uncedo loku lubalulekile ukungenelela ukuba siqaphela imiqondiso yesilumkiso. Ukuqonda imeko yengqondo yomntu kubalulekile kudala Iibhondi ezisekwe kukuthenjwa, kuphela ngale ndlela esinokuthi sivule kwaye sithethe ngathi. Kubalulekile comunicare, sungula incoko apho unokujonga khona emehlweni kwaye umamele ithoni yelizwi. Ngokubanzi ngaphambi kokwenza lo mqondiso, abantu bathetha kakhulu, nkqu ngokungangqalanga, malunga neenjongo zabo. Kungenxa yoko le nto kubaluleke kakhulu ukumamela. Kufuneka sibonise ukuba sinayo ingqalelo kubantu abasweleyo, ukubakho apho kubalulekile. Masizenze iyafumaneka ukukhapha umntu onesifo sengqondo ukuya kugqirha onamava ukuba oko kuyimfuneko.
Ukuzibulala kuluncedo olusisiseko lokholo
Indlela ye fede ibalulekile. Kunokuba luncedo ukuthetha ne ngeleli Ngubani umntu ngokwemvelo owaziyo imiphefumlo kwaye uyazi indlela yokubanceda. “Musa ukuzenzakalisa” ngamazwi kaThixo othando kwabo bathe bathatha isigqibo okanye bazama ukuzibulala. Isidingo ukuthandaza kumntu odinga uncedo, thandaza kuye ingelosi yokukhokhela ukuyikhusela. Ukuthembana, ubuhlobo, ukholo kunye nomthandazo zezona nyathelo zibaluleke kakhulu zokusondela kwabo, nokuba kukomzuzwana nje, baye bacinga ngombono wokuzibulala.