Izinyathelo ezi-4 zokucatshangelwa lapho iSonto likudumaza
Masibe neqiniso, uma ucabanga ngesonto, igama lokugcina ofuna ukulihlanganisa liyadumaza. Kodwa-ke, Siyazi ukuthi amakholwa ethu agcwele abantu abadumele nabalimele isonto - noma amalungu ebandla.
Ukuphela kwento engingafuni ukuyenza kukhanyisa okunye ukudumazeka lokhu ngoba bangokoqobo. Futhi ngokweqiniso, akukho lutho olubi njengebandla. Isizathu esenza ukudumazeka kwesonto kulimaze kangaka yingoba kuvame ukungalindeleki futhi kuvame kukumangaze. Kukhona izinto ezithile olindele ukuthi zenzeke ngaphandle kwebandla, noma kunjalo lapho zenzeka ngaphakathi esontweni ukudumazeka nobuhlungu bukhulu futhi buyingozi kakhulu.
Kungakho ngifuna ukukhuluma nabaphethwe kabi - labo abasohlangothini olwamukelayo. Ngoba ukuvuselelwa kuvame ukuba nzima futhi abanye abantu abalokothi balulame. Unalokho engqondweni, ngifuna ukukunikeza izinto ezine okufanele uzenze lapho isonto likudumaza.
1. Thola ukuthi ngubani noma yini ekudumazile
Kukhona isisho esithi ungamkhiphi umntwana emanzini okugeza, nokho inxeba lesonto lingakwenza wenze lokho kanye. Ungalahla konke, uhambe futhi ungaphinde ubuye. Ngokuyisisekelo, waphonsa ingane ngamanzi okugeza.
Into yokuqala engikhuthaza ukuthi uyenze ukukhomba ukuthi ngubani noma yini ekudumazile. Izikhathi eziningi, ngenxa yobuhlungu, sithatha isenzo sambalwa futhi siwasebenzise eqenjini lilonke. Kungaba ngumuntu okuphathe kabi noma okudumaze, kepha esikhundleni sokuthi ukhombe lowo osola inhlangano yonke.
Kodwa-ke, kungaba nezikhathi lapho lokhu kufaneleka, ikakhulukazi uma inhlangano ihlanganisa umuntu odale umonakalo. Kungakho kubalulekile ukukhomba umsuka wokudumazeka. Lokhu ngeke kukwenze uzizwe ungcono, kepha kuzokuvumela ukuthi ubheke ukunaka kwakho ngendlela efanele. Noma kungaba nzima kangakanani, ungasoli iqembu ngezenzo zomunye noma ezimbalwa, ngaphandle kokuthi iqembu lonke linephutha.
2. Lungisa ukudumazeka lapho kufanele
Lapho kwenzeka ukudumazeka, ngikukhuthaza ukuba ubhekane nokudumazeka, kodwa kuphela uma kufanele. Kunezikhathi lapho kufaneleka khona ukubhekana nobuhlungu futhi kunezikhathi lapho isilonda sijule kakhulu ukuthi singalulama kuleyo ndawo. Uma kunjalo, ikhambi okuwukuphela kwalo kungaba ukushiya leso simo futhi uthole enye indawo yokukhulekelwa.
Ngingumzali wezingane ezimbili futhi onezidingo ezikhethekile. Ngenxa yezidingo ezikhethekile zendodana yami, kungenzeka ingahlali ithule futhi isesontweni lapho kufanele ibe khona. Ngelinye iSonto umpristi wesonto lesonto esasifakaza kulo wafunda incwadi phambi kwebandla lomuntu owayevakashele isonto. Bathe ibandla leli lihle kodwa izingane ezinomsindo endaweni engcwele ziyisiphazamiso. Ngaleso sikhathi, kwakukhona izingane ezimbili kuphela endlini engcwele; bobabili babengabami.
Ubuhlungu abubangela ukufunda lencwadi kwadumaza lapho sasingakwazi ukubuyela khona. Ngokusobala, salishiya lelo sonto kungekudala. Senze isinqumo, ngingangeza emthandazweni, ukuthi ukube izingane zethu bezicasula kangaka ngabe asikho endaweni efanele. Ngihlanganyela le ndaba ukukwazisa ukuthi kufanele unqume ukuthi uzobhekana nokudana noma ungaboni ukuthi mhlawumbe usesimweni esingafanele. Ukhiye ukuthi uqiniseke ukuthi ufinyelela esinqumweni sakho ngomkhuleko, hhayi ngokomoya.
Okunye okumele sikuqaphele ukuthi ukudumazeka esaba nakho kuleli bandla elilodwa akuzange kusenze sibi kakhulu. Siqaphele ukuthi isonto elithile belingeyona indawo efanele umndeni wethu; bekungasho ukuthi wonke amasonto awawulungele umndeni wethu. Kusukela lapho siqhubeke nokuthola isonto elihlangabezana nazo zonke izidingo zethu futhi elinenkonzo yezidingo ezikhethekile zendodana yethu. Ngakho-ke, ngiyakukhumbuza, ungayilahli ingane ngamanzi webhubhu.
Ngenkathi ucabanga ngomkhuleko ngalokho okufanele ukwenze, ungathola ukuthi into embi kunazo zonke ongayenza esimweni sakho ukuphunyuka kukho. Kwesinye isikhathi yilokhu isitha sakho uSathane esifuna ukwenze. Kungakho kufanele uphendule ngomkhuleko hhayi ngokomzwelo. USathane angasebenzisa ukudumazeka ukudala ukudumazeka futhi uma kubonakala ngempela kungaholela ekusukeni ngaphambi kwesikhathi. Kungakho kufanele ubuze uNkulunkulu, ufuna ngikwenze noma sekuyisikhathi sokuhamba? Uma uthatha isinqumo sokubhekana nokudumala, nansi inkombandlela yemibhalo yokuthi ungayenza kanjani:
"Uma elinye ikholwa likona, ngena ngasese uyokhombisa ukona. Uma omunye umuntu elalela futhi evuma, usumtholile lowo muntu. Kepha uma ungakwazi, uze nomuntu oyedwa noma amabili bese ubuyela emuva, ukuze konke okushoyo kuqinisekiswe ngofakazi ababili noma abathathu. Uma lowo muntu enqaba ukulalela, thatha udaba lwakho uye esontweni. Ngakho-ke uma engasemukeli isinqumo sebandla, phatha lowo muntu njengomhedeni okhohlakele noma umthelisi ”(UMathewu 18: 15-17).
3. Cela umusa wokuthethelela
Noma kubuhlungu bebandla kungaba kungokoqobo futhi kubuhlungu kangakanani, ukuthethelelwa kungaba nemiphumela emibi kakhulu. Kungakho-ke, kungakhathalekile ukuthi ngubani okuphathe kabi nokuthi yini abakwenzile, kufanele ucele uNkulunkulu ukuthi ubathethelela. Lokhu kuzokonakalisa uma ungakwenzi.
Ngiyabazi abantu abalimele esontweni futhi bavumele ubunya babo ukuba buhlukumezeke ebudlelwaneni babo noNkulunkulu nabanye abantu. By the way, leli ikhasi elisanda kuphuma kwincwadi yokudlala yesitha. Yonke into edonsa wedge, idala ukwahlukana noma ikwehlukanise nomzimba kaKristu ishukunyiswa isitha. Ukungaxoleli nakanjani kuzokwenza lokhu kuwe. Kuzokuthatha ukugibela futhi kukushiye endaweni yokuzihlukanisa wedwa. Lapho uhlala wedwa, usengozini.
Isizathu esenza ukuthi ukuthethelelwa kufuneke kangaka yingoba uzizwa sengathi uyakuthethelela isimilo futhi ungatholi ukwaneliseka okugcwele noma ukuziphindisela. Udinga ukuqonda ukuthi ukuthethelelwa akuyona mayelana nokuthola isimangalo sakho. Ukuthethelela kusho ukuqiniseka inkululeko yakho. Uma ungathetheleli, uzoboshwa ngonaphakade ngobuhlungu nokudangala okwenziwe kuwe. Lokhu kudumala empeleni kuzoba isigwebo sempilo yonke. Kungaba nemiphumela emibi kakhulu kunale ongayicabanga, yingakho kufanele ucele uNkulunkulu ukuba umthethelele. Angisho ukuthi lokhu kuzoba lula, kepha kuzodingeka uma kwenzeka ufuna ukubaleka ejele lokudumazeka.
“Ngemuva kwaloko Phetro weza kuJesu wambuta watsi: 'Nkhosi, kufanele kanganani ngitsetselele umfowethu noma udadewethu ongonile? Kuze kube kasikhombisa? UJesu waphendula wathi, 'Ngiyakutshela, hhayi kasikhombisa, kodwa amahlandla angamashumi ayisikhombisa nesikhombisa' ”(UMathewu 18: 21-22).
4. Khumbula ukuthi uNkulunkulu ukuphatha kanjani ukudumazeka kwakho
Kwakukhona lezi namasongo ezazithandwa isikhashana, WWJD. Yini uJesu azoyenza? Lokhu kubalulekile ukukhumbula lapho kubhekana nokudumazeka. Lapho ubheka lo mbuzo, uwubeke ohlakeni olufanele.
Nakhu engikushoyo: ngabe wenzenjani uJesu uma ngimphoxa? Akekho umuntu ebusweni bomhlaba ongasho ukuthi akakaze adumaze uNkulunkulu. Yini uNkulunkulu ayenza lapho ukwenzile? Ukwenze kanjani? Yilokhu okudingeka ukukhumbule lapho othile ekudumaza.
Kumele ngivume ukuthi ukuthambekela kwemvelo ukuzithethelela kubuhlungu futhi ungabuphathi ngendlela uJesu azokwenza ngayo. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, lokhu kugcina kukuzwisa ubuhlungu ukwedlula labo abakudumaze. Khumbula la magama:
“Bambelelanani, nithethelelane uma noma ngubani kini enesikhalazo ngomunye. Thethelela njengoba neNkosi ikuxolele. Futhi kukho konke lokhu okuhle ubeka uthando, olubahlanganisa bonke ebunyeni obuhle ”(KwabaseKolose 3: 13-14, ukugcizelela okungeziwe).
“Uthando lukulokhu: hhayi ukuthi sasithanda uNkulunkulu, kodwa ukuthi yena wasithanda futhi wathumela iNdodana yakhe njengomhlatshelo ohlawulela izono zethu. Bathandekayo, njengoba uNkulunkulu asithanda kakhulu, nathi kufanele sithandane ”(1 Johane 4: 10-11, kugcizelela).
"Ngaphezu kwakho konke, thandanani kakhulu, ngoba uthando lumboza izono eziningi" (1 Petru 4: 8).
Lapho udangele, ngithandazela ukuthi ukhumbule uthando olukhulu uNkulunkulu alunisa phezu kwakho nezono zakho eziningi uNkulunkulu azithethelele. Akubenzi lula ubuhlungu kepha kukunikeza umbono ofanele wokubhekana nawo.