Izinyathelo ezi-5 zokukhulisa ukuhlakanipha okungcwele
Uma sibheka isibonelo soMsindisi wethu sokuthi kufanele sithande kanjani, siyabona ukuthi “uJesu ukhule ekuhlakanipheni” (Luka 2:52). Isaga esiyinselelo engapheli kimi sikhombisa ukubaluleka kokukhula okunjalo ngokuthi, "Inhliziyo yoqondayo ifuna ulwazi, kepha umlomo weziwula wondliwa ubuwula" (Izaga 15:14). Ngamanye amagama, umuntu okhaliphile ufuna ulwazi ngamabomu, kepha iziwula ziyazithungatha, zihlafuna ngamagama nemibono engenanzuzo, engenanambitheka futhi engenamsoco.
Siphakelani mina nawe? Ngabe silalela lesi sexwayiso seBhayibheli ngengozi "yokulahlwa kukadoti, ukulahlwa kukadoti?" Kwangathi ngamabomu singafuna ulwazi futhi siqaphele ukuchitha isikhathi esiyigugu ezintweni ezingenanzuzo. Ngiyazi ukuthi bengilangazelela futhi ngathandazela ulwazi lukaNkulunkulu kanye noshintsho endaweni eyodwa yempilo yami ukuze ngibone ukuthi sekuphele iminyaka emibili noma emithathu ngaphandle kokuthi ngilandele iseluleko sakhe ngenkuthalo futhi ngisifune.
Ngake ngafunda kumngane indlela ephathekayo nejabulisayo yokuzibekela imigomo futhi ngizikhumbuze ngokufuna ukuhlakanipha kukaNkulunkulu futhi ngivikele ingqondo yami ngeqiniso Lakhe. Lo mkhuba unginike indlela engingayilandela futhi ngenze isiqiniseko sokuthi ngilandela uNkulunkulu ngayo yonke inhliziyo yami.
1. Ngakha amafayela amahlanu njalo ngonyaka.
Cishe umangele ukuthi kungani lokhu kungabonakali ngokomoya. Kodwa hlala nami!
2. Hlela injongo yakho.
Okulandelayo, khetha izindawo ezinhlanu ofuna ukuba nguchwepheshe kuzo bese ulebula ifayela ngakunye. Izwi lesixwayiso: khetha izindawo kusuka endaweni yomoya. Uyasikhumbula isaga? Awufuni ukondla ngemisebenzi engenanani. Esikhundleni salokho, khetha izihloko zenani laphakade. Ukukusiza ukunquma lezi zindawo ezinhlanu, phendula imibuzo: "Ufuna ukwaziwa ngani?" nokuthi "Iziphi izihloko ofuna ukuhlobanisa igama lakho nazo?"
Nginomngane, uLois, isibonelo, ogama lakhe abantu abaningi bahlobanisa nomthandazo. Noma nini lapho sidinga umuntu esontweni ozofundisa ngomkhuleko, ahole usuku lomkhuleko lwabesifazane bethu, noma avule umhlangano wokukhuleka wokukhulekela, wonke umuntu uzicabangela yena ngokuzenzekelayo. Sekuyiminyaka engaphezu kwengu-20 efunda lokho okufundiswa yiBhayibheli ngomkhuleko, ebhekisisa ukuthi abesilisa nabesifazane abaseBhayibhelini bayathandaza, ufunda ngomthandazo, futhi uyathandaza. Umthandazo ngokuqinisekile ungenye yezindawo zakhe zobungcweti, enye yezigaba zakhe ezinhlanu.
Omunye umngani waziwa ngokwazi kwakhe iBhayibheli. Njalo lapho abesifazane esontweni bedinga umuntu ozohola uphenyo lweBhayibheli noma anikeze ukubuka konke ngabaprofethi, sasibiza uBetty. Kepha omunye umngane ukhuluma namaqembu okuphatha isikhathi esontweni. Laba besifazane abathathu sebephenduke ochwepheshe.
Eminyakeni edlule ngihlanganise uhlu lwamafayili abafundi abelugcina ekilasini lami elithi “Owesifazane Ngokwenhliziyo KaNkulunkulu”. Nazi ezinye zezihloko zokuvuselela ukucabanga kwakho. Zivela ezindleleni ezisebenzayo (ukungenisa izihambi, impilo, imfundo yezingane, umsebenzi wasendlini, ukutadisha iBhayibheli) kuye kwezenkolo: izimfanelo zikaNkulunkulu, ukholo, isithelo sikaMoya. Kubandakanya izindawo zenkonzo - ukwelulekwa ngeBhayibheli, ukufundisa, ukusebenzela, inkonzo yabesifazane - kanye nezindawo zabalingiswa - impilo yokuzinikela, amaqhawe okholo, uthando, ubuhle bokuzinikela. Bagxila ezindleleni zokuphila (ukungashadi, ukuba ngumzali, ukuhleleka, ukuba ngumfelokazi, indlu kamfundisi) futhi bagxile kokungokwakho: ubungcwele, ukuzithiba, ukuzithoba, ukwaneliseka. Awuthandi yini ukuya ezifundweni ezizofundwa yilaba besifazane eminyakeni eyishumi noma ufunde izincwadi abangazibhala? Ngemuva kwakho konke, ukukhula ngokomoya okunjalo kumayelana nokulungiselela inkonzo. Okokuqala kumayelana nokugcwalisa ukuze ube nokuthile ongakunikela enkonzweni!
3. Gcwalisa amafayela.
Qala ukufaka imininingwane kumafayela akho. Ziyakhuluphala njengoba usesha ngenkuthalo futhi uqoqa konke mayelana nesihloko sakho ... izindatshana, izincwadi, omagazini bezohwebo kanye nokunqunywa kwezindaba ... ukuya emihlanganweni ... ukufundisa ngale ndaba ... ukuchitha isikhathi nalabo abahamba phambili kulezi zindawo, uqoqa ubuchopho babo ... cwaninga futhi ucwenge isipiliyoni sakho.
Ngaphezu kwakho konke, funda iBhayibheli lakho ukuze uzibonele lokho okushiwo uNkulunkulu ngezindawo onentshisekelo kuzo. Ngemuva kwakho konke, imicabango yakhe ilwazi oluyinhloko olufisayo. Ngize ngibhale neBhayibheli lami ikhodi. UPink uqokomisa amavesi anentshisekelo kwabesifazane futhi mhlawumbe akumangazi ukuthola ukuthi elinye lamafayela ami amahlanu lithi "Abesifazane" Ngaphezu kokumaka lezo zinyathelo ngombala obomvana, ngafaka u- "W" ebangeni eceleni kwazo. Noma yini eBhayibhelini lami ekhuluma ngabesifazane, amakhosikazi, omama, omama bezindlu, noma abesifazane beBhayibheli ine- "W" eceleni kwayo. Ngenze into efanayo ngo "T" wokufundisa, "TM" wokuphathwa kwesikhathi, njll. Uma usukhethile izindawo zakho futhi usethe ikhodi yakho, ngiyaqinisekisa ukuthi uzojabula kakhulu futhi ube nomdlandla wokuthi uzovuka ngaphambi kokuba i-alamu ikhale ikhathazekile ukuvula iZwi likaNkulunkulu, ukubhala ngesandla, ukufuna ukuhlakanipha kwakhe ezindaweni ufuna ukuhlakanipha!
4. Zibuke ukhula.
Ungalokothi uvumele izinyanga noma iminyaka idlule unethemba eliyingxenye lokuthi kukhona okuzoshintsha empilweni yakho noma uzokhuluma noNkulunkulu ngaphandle kokulungiselela kanye negalelo elivela kuwe. Uyothokoza futhi umangale lapho ubheka emuva ezifundweni zakho bese ubona ukuthi uNkulunkulu usebenze kuwe, wakhulisa ukuzethemba kwakho ukuthi iqiniso Lakhe alisoze lakushiya noma likulahle.
5. Yelula amaphiko akho.
Ukukhula komuntu ngokomoya kumayelana nokulungiselela inkonzo. Kuza kuqala ukugcwalisa ukuze ube nokuthile ongakunika. Njengoba uqhubeka nokufuna kwakho ulwazi ngezihloko ezinhlanu zokomoya, khumbula ukuthi usebenza kulokhu kukhula komuntu ukusebenzela abanye.
Ngenkathi umngani wami othandazayo uLois egcwalisa ingqondo yakhe ngezinto zikaNkulunkulu kanye nokufunda kwakhe impilo yonke ngomthandazo, wakuvumela lokho kugcwaliswa kugcwalise abanye enkonzweni. Ukukhonza abanye kusho ukugcwaliswa ngezinto zaphakade, izinto ezifanele ukwabiwa. Ukugcwala kwethu kuba ukuchichima okuyinkonzo yethu. Yilokho okufanele sikunikeze futhi sikudlulisele kwabanye. Njengomeluleki othandekayo oqeqeshwe njalo ngaphakathi kimi, "Akukho okumele kwenziwe akulingani nalutho oluphumayo". Sengathi uJesu angaphila akhanye kusuka kuwe nakimi!