Izizathu ezi-6 zokubonga kulezi zikhathi ezesabekayo
Umhlaba ubonakala umnyama futhi uyingozi njengamanje, kodwa kukhona ithemba nenduduzo engatholakala.
Mhlawumbe uboshwe ekhaya uvalelwe wedwa, usinda kunguqulo yakho ye-Groundhog Day. Mhlawumbe uzoqhubeka nokusebenza, ngomsebenzi obalulekile ongenakwenziwa ukude. Ungaba phakathi kwabantu abaningi abaphethwe ukungasebenzi futhi uzame ukuthola indlela yokuphuma kuleli phupho elibi. Noma ngabe kwenzekani, i-coronavirus yenoveli ishintshe impilo njengoba sazi.
Njengoba izinsuku namasonto ziqhubekela phambili, ngaphandle kokuphela okucacile kobhadane olubonakalayo, kulula ukuzizwa ungenathemba. Noma kunjalo, phakathi kobuhlanya, kunezikhathi ezincane zokuthula nenjabulo. Uma siyifuna, kusekuningi esingakubonga ngakho. Futhi ukubonga kunendlela yokushintsha konke.
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IMiphakathi iyahlangana.
Isitha esivamile sihlanganisa abantu ndawonye, futhi kulapho umphakathi womhlaba ubhekene nalesi sihlava. Osaziwayo bayahlangana bafunde izindaba baphinde baqoqe imali yokondla izingane. Umbhali uSimcha Fisher ubhale isithombe esihle ngezinto ezinhle nezinhle ezenzeke phakathi nalolu bhubhane:
Abantu bayasizana. Abazali emakhaya bamukela izingane zabazali abasebenzayo; abantu baphonsa ama-casseroles emiphakathini yomakhelwane abahlukanisiwe; Amaloli okudla nezindawo zokudlela zinikela ngokudla kwamahhala ezinganeni ezivaliwe ezinhlelweni zokudla kwasemini ezikoleni. Abantu basebenzisa izinkundla zokuxhumana ukufanisa labo abangakwazi ukunyakaza nalabo abangakwazi, ngakho-ke akekho osala ngemuva. Izinkampani eziningi zamandla namanzi zimisa izaziso zokuvalwa; abanikazi bomhlaba bayakwenqabela ukuqoqwa kwerenti, kanti abaqashi babo bahamba bengaholile; amakhondomu anikezela ngendawo yokuhlala yamahhala kubafundi ababhajwe ekuvalweni okungazelelwe kwamanyuvesi abo; abanye abahlinzeka ngemisebenzi ye-intanethi banikela ngensizakalo yamahhala ukuze wonke umuntu akwazi ukuhlala exhumekile; abadlali be-basketball banikela ngengxenye yomholo ukuze bakhokhele amaholo abasebenzi basezinkundleni abamiswe imisebenzi yabo; abantu bafuna ukudla okunzima ukukuthola kwabangane abanokudla okunomkhawulo. Ngiphinde ngabona izakhamizi ezizimele zinikela ukusiza ukukhokhela irenti yabantu ongabazi, ngoba nje iyadingeka.
Komakhelwane nasemindenini emhlabeni wonke, abantu basebenza kanzima ukuze basizane, futhi kuyathinta futhi kuyakhuthaza ukufakaza.
IMIKHAYA EMININGI ICHITHA ISIKHATHI ESININGI KUNYE.
Ekuphithizelweni kwesikole, umsebenzi, imisebenzi yangaphandle kanye nemisebenzi yasendlini, kungaba nzima ukuthola ukukhanya okungenasikhathi njengomndeni. Noma ngabe kujatshulelwa isikole sigqoke amaphijama noma kudlalwa imidlalo yebhodi ntambama "ngoba nje", imindeni eminingi isithokozela lesi sikhathi esithe xaxa esinye nomunye.
UMDLALO WEMIKHAYA
Vele, izingxabano nokulwa akunakugwenywa, kepha noma lokho kungaba yithuba lokuxazulula izinkinga nokwakha amakhono wokuxhumana (ikakhulukazi uma ukhuthaza izingane zakho ukuthi zixazulule ukungaboni ngaso linye kwazo ndawonye!).
KUNESIKHATHI ESENGEZIWE SOKUTHANDAZA.
Kokubili ngoba ubhadane lunika isizathu esibucayi sokuphendukela kuNkulunkulu ngomkhuleko, futhi ngoba kunesikhathi esikhululekile sosuku, umthandazo usezinhliziyweni zabaningi abasekhaya. UNathan Schlueter uphakamisa ukuthi imindeni iphenduke lesi sikhathi ibe ngukuhlehla, futhi ihlose ukuthandaza ndawonye nokusondela kuNkulunkulu. Uyabhala,
Yenza lokhu kube njengokuhlehla komndeni. Lokhu kusho ukuthi umkhuleko ojwayelekile womndeni usenhliziyweni yohlelo lwakho. Sithandazela iLitany yaseSt.Joseph njalo ekuseni kanye neRosari njalo kusihlwa, senza ubuhlalu obunye nenhloso ekhethekile, yabagulayo, abasebenzi bezempilo, abangenamakhaya, ubizo, ukuguqulwa kwemiphefumulo, njll. , njll.
Le yindlela enhle uma usekhaya esikhundleni sokuqhubeka nokusebenza. Ukucabanga ngalesi sikhathi ngokuthi "ukuhlehla komndeni" kuyindlela enhle yokuqamba kabusha ukuzihlukanisa nethuba lokukhula ebungcweleni nabantu obathanda kakhulu.
SIKHONA ISIKHATHI SOKUZINIKELA KWI-HOBBIES.
Angazi ngawe, kepha izifunzo zami ezinkundleni zokuxhumana zigcwale izithombe zemiklamo yenhlangano yomndeni nabenzi bokupheka. Ukuhlala ekhaya, ngaphandle kohambo olude noma isheduli ephelele yokuqokwa, abantu abaningi banesikhala osukwini lwabo lokwenza amaphrojekthi amade okubhaka nokubhaka (imvubelo yokuzenzela, noma ngubani?), Ukuhlanza okujulile, izinto okufanele uzenze izinto ozithandayo.
ABANTU Bazama UKUXHUMANA NABANGANE ABADALA.
Abangane engingakaze ngikhulume nabo kusukela ekolishi, umndeni ohlala ngaphandle kombuso, nabangane bami bendawo bafinyelela kuwo wonke umuntu ezinkundleni zokuxhumana. Siyaphenyana, sinezinsuku zokudlala ezingokoqobo ngombukiso ne-FaceTime, kanti umamncane ufundela izingane zami izincwadi zezindaba ku-Zoom.
Yize kungangeni esikhundleni sokuxhuma mathupha, ngiyabonga ngobuchwepheshe besimanje obukuvumela ukuba ukhulume futhi uxhumane nabantu emhlabeni wonke, ngaphandle kokushiya ikhaya lakho.
SINOKUBONGA OKUSHA NGENJABULO ENCANE YOKUPHILA.
ULaura Kelly Fannuci uthumele le nkondlo ku-Instagram okungishukumisele ukukhala:
Yizo kanye izinto ezincane - "uLwesibili onesicefe, ikhofi nomngani" - abaningi bethu abaphuthelwa kakhulu manje. Ngisola ukuthi emva kokuba lolu bhubhane seludlulile futhi izinto sezibuyele kwesijwayelekile, sizoba nokubonga okusha ngalezi zinjabulo ezincane kunokuba sizithathe kalula.
Njengoba siqhubeka nokuzihlukanisa, ngikwazi ukudlula ezikhathini ezinzima ngokucabanga ukuthi yini engingakwazi ukulinda ukukubona uma sekuphelile. Njalo ehlobo, abangane bami bomakhelwane nami sipheka ngemuva kwegceke. Izingane zigijima otshanini, amadoda ahlomisa i-grill, futhi umngane wami omkhulu umenzela ama-margaritas adumile.
Imvamisa ngiyithatha kalula le mihlangano; sikwenza njalo ehlobo, yini inkinga enkulu? Kepha njengamanje, ukucabanga ngalezi zikhathi zakusihlwa ezingahlelekile yikhona okungidlulisa. Lapho ekugcineni sengihlangana nabangane bami futhi, ngijabulela ukudla futhi ngiphumule ukuhleka nokukhuluma, ngicabanga ukuthi ngizogcwala ukubonga.
Kwangathi singelokothe silahlekelwe ukwazisa ngesipho salezi zinto ezincane ezijwayelekile esizilahlekelwa kakhulu manje.