Usuku lukaValentine nemvelaphi yalo yobuqaba
Lapho uSuku lukaValentine lusondela, abantu abaningi baqala ukucabanga ngothando. Ubuwazi ukuthi uSuku lukaValentine lwanamuhla, yize lwaqanjwa ngegama lomfelukholo ongcwele, empeleni lusuka esikweni lasendulo lobuqaba? Ake sibheke ukuthi usuku lukaValentine lwavela kanjani emcimbini wamaRoma laya kwi-giant giant namuhla.
Uthi bewazi?
Usuku lukaValentine kungenzeka ukuthi lwavela kwilotho yothando lwaseRoma, eyayibanjelwe ngesikhathi seLupercalia.
Amaholide abuyekezwa ngenkathi ubuKrestu buqhubeka futhi buqanjwa kabusha ngokuthi uSuku Lwezithandani.
Cishe ngonyaka wama-500 AD, uPapa Gelasius wanquma ukuthi ilotho labangcwele lalizinikele kakhulu kunokukhetha abalingani abangathandana nabo othandweni embizeni.
ILupercalia ithanda ilotho
Umdwebo wedili lobufundisi Lupercalia
UFebruwari yisikhathi esihle sonyaka sokuba semakhadini okubingelela noma ebhizinisini lenhliziyo eshokoledi. Le nyanga sekuyisikhathi eside ihlotshaniswa nothando nezothando, kusuka ezinsukwini zokuqala kweRoma. Ngaleso sikhathi, uFebhuwari kwakuyinyanga lapho abantu babegubha khona iLupercalia, umkhosi wokuhlonipha ukuzalwa kukaRomulus noRemus, amawele asungula idolobha. Njengoba iLupercalia yavela futhi isikhathi sihamba, yaphenduka umkhosi wokuhlonipha ukuzala nokufika kwentwasahlobo.
Ngokomlando, abesifazane abasebasha babefaka amagama abo ku-urn. Amadoda afanelekayo ayezodonsa igama bese kuthi abashadikazi babezoshada kuze kuphele umkhosi, futhi kwesinye isikhathi nokude. Ngenkathi ubuKrestu buqhubeka eRoma, lo mkhuba wabukelwa phansi njengowobuqaba nokuziphatha okubi, futhi wacindezelwa nguPapa Gelasius cishe ngonyaka ka AD 500. Muva nje kube nenkulumompikiswano yezifundo mayelana nokuba khona kwelotho iLupercalia - futhi abanye abantu bakholelwa ukuthi kungenzeka akhona nhlobo - kepha kuseyinganekwane esikhumbuza amasiko asendulo okwenza umentshisi alungele lesi sikhathi sonyaka!
Umkhosi ongokomoya ongaphezulu
Cishe ngesikhathi esifanayo lapho kususwa ilotho yothando, uGelasius wayenombono omuhle. Kungani ungashintshi iLotto ngokuthile okungokomoya okungatheni? Washintsha ilotho yothando wayenza ilotho yabangcwele; esikhundleni sokudonsa igama lentombazane enhle emgodini, izinsizwa zadonsa igama losanta. Inselelo yalaba bachelors kwakuwukuzama ukufana kakhulu nosanta ngonyaka ozayo ngokufunda nokufunda imiyalezo yabo bangcwele.
Wayengubani uValentino vele?
Ngenkathi ezama ukukholisa le nsizwa ehloniphekile yaseRoma ukuthi ingcwele, uPapa Gelasius waphinde wamemezela uSt.Valentine (okuningi ngaye ngomzuzwana) ngongcwele wezithandani, futhi usuku lwakhe lwaluzoba minyaka yonke ngoFebhuwari 14. buza ukuthi wayengubani ngempela uSuku Lwezithandani; kungenzeka ukuthi wayengumpristi ngesikhathi sokubusa kukaMbusi uClaudius.
Inganekwane ithi umpristi osemncane, uValentine, akazange alalele uClaudius ngokwenza imikhosi yomshado yezinsizwa, lapho inkosi yayithanda ukubabona beboshelwe enkonzweni yezempi kunasemshadweni. Ngesikhathi esejele, uValentine wathandana nentombazane eyayimvakashele, mhlawumbe indodakazi yomgcini wejele. Ngaphambi kokuba abulawe, ubezomthumelela incwadi, esayinwe, Evela ku-Valentine yakho. Akekho owaziyo ukuthi le ndaba iyiqiniso yini, kepha ngokuqinisekile yenza uSuku lukaValentine lube iqhawe lezothando nelibuhlungu.
Isonto lobuKristu lazabalaza ukugcina amanye amasiko la futhi isikhashana ngoSuku lukaValentine lanyamalala e-radar, kepha phakathi neNkathi Ephakathi ilotho yesithandwa yaphinde yathandwa. Ama-knighthoods amancane ahlangana nabesifazane futhi afaka amagama abo abathandekayo emikhonweni yabo unyaka wonke. Ngempela, ezinye izazi zisola izimbongi ezinjengoChaucer noShakespeare ngokuvela kosuku lukaValentine emkhosini wanamuhla wokuthandana nothando. Engxoxweni eyayiqhutshwa ngo-2002, uprofesa waseGettysburg College uSteve Anderson wathi kwakungeyona into enkulu kwaze kwaba yilapho uGeoffrey Chaucer ebhala iPhalamende Lezinyoni, lapho zonke izinyoni emhlabeni zihlangana khona ngoSuku Lwezithandani ukuzokhwelana. nabalingani babo impilo yonke.
"[UGelasius] wayenethemba lokuthi amaKristu okuqala ayezogubha amasiko abo othando ngelinye ilanga ngaphambili bese ewanikela kosanta kunonkulunkulukazi wothando waseRoma uJuno ... usuku lwephathi evinjiwe, kodwa leli holidi lezothando ali ... Ngokungafani noPapa Il usuku lomkhosi weGelasius, "izinyoni zothando" zikaChaucer sezihambile “.
Usuku Lwanamuhla Lwezithandani
Cishe ngasekupheleni kwekhulu le-18, amakhadi oSuku Lwezithandani aqala ukuvela. Kwashicilelwa amapheshana amancane, nezinkondlo ezinemizwa abantu abasha abangazikopa futhi bazithumele kulokho abakuthandayo. Ekugcineni, abaphrinta bathola ukuthi kunenzuzo eyayizokwenziwa ngamakhadi enziwe ngaphambilini, agcwaliswe ngezithombe zothando namavesi anothando. Amakhadi okuqala e-American Valentine adalwa ngu-Esther Howland ngawo-1870, ngokusho kwe-Victorian Treasure. Ngaphezu kukaKhisimusi, amakhadi amaningi ashintshaniswa ngoSuku Lwezithandani kunanoma yisiphi esinye isikhathi sonyaka.