Ukubhekana nokudangala ngendlela yobuKristu

Ezinye izeluleko zokukunqoba ngaphandle kokulahlekelwa ukuzethemba.
Ukudana komoya kuyisifo futhi ukuba ngumKristu akusho ukuthi awusoze wahlupheka ngakho. Ukukholwa kuyasindisa, kepha akuphulukisi; hhayi ngaso sonke isikhathi, kunoma yikuphi. Ukukholwa akuwona umuthi, kakhulu i-panacea noma i-magic potion. Kodwa-ke, kunikeza, kulabo abazimisele ukukwemukela, ithuba lokuzwa ukuhlupheka kwakho ngendlela ehlukile nokuthola indlela yethemba, ebaluleke kakhulu ngoba ukudangala kubukela phansi ithemba. Lapha sethula amathiphu wokunqoba lezo zikhathi ezinzima zikaF. UJean-François Catalan, isazi sezengqondo kanye noJesuit.
Ingabe kuyinto evamile ukungabaza ukholo lwakho futhi ukuyekele ngisho nalapho unenkinga yokudangala?
Abangcwele abaningi abakhulu badlula emathunzi aminyene, lawo “ubusuku obumnyama”, njengoba babebabiza ngokuthi yiSan Giovanni della Croce. Nabo bahlushwa ukuphelelwa yithemba, ukudabuka, ukukhathala kwempilo, kwesinye isikhathi kuze kube nokuphelelwa yithemba. USant'Alfonso waseLigouri uchithe impilo yakhe ebumnyameni ngenkathi eduduza imiphefumulo ("ngihlupheka isihogo", angasho), njengoCuré of Ars. KuSanta Teresa woMntwana uJesu, "udonga lwamehlukanisa neZulu". Wayengasazi ukuthi uNkulunkulu noma izulu likhona. Kodwa-ke, wayithola leyo ndima ngothando. Izikhathi zabo zobumnyama azibavimbanga ukuba banqobe ngesenzo sokukholwa. Futhi bangcweliswa ngokufanele ngenxa yalolo kholo.
Lapho ucindezelekile, usengakwazi ukuzinikela kuNkulunkulu. Ngaleso sikhathi, umqondo wokugula uyashintsha; ufa luvuleka odongeni, yize ukuhlupheka nesizungu kungapheli. Kungumphumela womzabalazo oqhubekayo. Futhi kungumusa esinikezwe wona. Kukhona ukunyakaza okubili. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, wenza okusemandleni akho, noma ngabe kubonakala kuncane futhi kungaphumeleli, kepha uyakwenza - ukuthatha umuthi wakho, ukubonana nodokotela noma nodokotela owelaphayo, uzama ukuvuselela ubungani - obungaba nzima kakhulu ngezinye izikhathi ngoba abangane bangase ukungahambi, noma labo abasondelene nathi bayadangala. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ungathembela emseni kaNkulunkulu wokukusiza ukuba uzibambe usuphelelwe yithemba.

Ukhulume ngabangcwele, kepha kuthiwani ngabantu abavamile?
Yebo, isibonelo sabangcwele singabonakala sikude kakhulu nokuhlangenwe nakho kwethu. Imvamisa siphila ebumnyameni obumnyama kunobusuku. Kepha, njengabangcwele, okuhlangenwe nakho kwethu kusikhombisa ukuthi yonke impilo yamaKristu, ngandlela thile, umzabalazo: impi yokulwa nokuphelelwa yithemba, ngokumelana nezindlela ezahlukahlukene esiziholela kuzo, ubugovu bethu, ukuphelelwa yithemba. Lo ngumzabalazo esinawo nsuku zonke futhi uthinta wonke umuntu.
Ngamunye wethu unempi yethu siqu yokubhekana namandla abhubhisayo aphikisana nokuphila okuyiqiniso, noma ngabe aqhamuka emvelweni (yemvelo, isifo, ukutheleleka, igciwane, umdlavuza, njll), izimbangela zengqondo (noma yiluphi uhlobo lwenqubo ye-neurotic, ukungqubuzana uqobo, ukukhungatheka, njll.) noma ngokomoya. Khumbula ukuthi ukuba sesimweni sokudangala kungaba nezimbangela zomzimba noma zengqondo, kodwa futhi kungaba ngokomoya ngemvelo. Emphefumulweni womuntu kukhona isilingo, kukhona ukumelana, kukhona isono. Ngeke sithule ngaphambi kwesenzo sikaSathane, umphikisi, ozama 'ukusikhubekisa endleleni' ukuze asivimbele ukusondela kuNkulunkulu. Ungasisebenzisa ngokunenzuzo isimo sethu sosizi, usizi, sokudangala. Umgomo wayo ukudangala nokuphelelwa yithemba.
Ingabe Ukudana Kungaba Isono?
Akunjalo; ukugula. Ungaphila ukugula kwakho ngokuhamba ngokuthobeka. Lapho uphansi kwalasha, ulahlekelwe amaphuzu akho okukhulunywa ngakho futhi ubhekana nobuhlungu bokuthi ayikho indawo yokujika, ubona ukuthi awunamandla onke nokuthi awukwazi ukuzisindisa. Noma ngabe usesikhathini esibi kakhulu sokuhlupheka, usukhululekile: ukhululekile ukuzwa ukudangala kwakho kusuka esimweni sokuthobeka noma sokukhathazeka. Impilo yonke engokomoya ibeka ukuguqulwa, kepha lokhu kuguqulwa, okungenani ekuqaleni, akulutho nje lokuguqulwa kombono, lapho siguqula khona umbono wethu futhi sibheke kuNkulunkulu, sibuyele kuYe. Lokhu kuguquka komphumela ukukhetha kanye nokulwa. Umuntu ocindezelekile akaxolelwe kulokhu.
Ngabe lesi sifo singaba yindlela yobungcwele?
Impela. Sikhombe izibonelo zabangcwele abaningana ngaphezulu. Kukhona nabo bonke laba bantu abagulayo abafihliwe abangasoze babhalwa phansi kodwa abaye baphila ukugula kwabo ngobungcwele. Amagama kaFr. ULouis Beirnaert, i-psychoanalyst yezenkolo, ufaneleke kakhulu lapha: “Empilweni edabukisayo futhi eyenziwe kabi, ubukhona obufihliwe bezimfanelo zezenkolo (uFaith, Ithemba, uCharity) buyabonakala. Siyabazi abanye abangama-neurologists abalahlekelwe amandla abo okucabanga noma sebephelelwe amandla, kepha okholo lwabo olulula, olweseka isandla saphezulu abaluboni ebumnyameni ebusuku, lukhanya njengobukhulu bukaVincent de Paul! ”Ngokusobala lokhu kungasebenza kunoma ngubani ocindezelekile.
Ingabe yilokhu uKristu adlula kukho eGetsemane?
Ngendlela ethile, yebo. UJesu wazizwa enamandla aphelelwa yithemba, usizi, ukushiywa nosizi kuyo yonke impilo yakhe: "Umphefumulo wami udabuke kakhulu, kuze kube sekufeni" (UMathewu 26:38). Le yimizwa umuntu ngamunye ocindezelekile ahlangabezana nayo. Waze wacela uBaba ukuthi "ayeke le ndebe ingidlulise" (uMathewu 26:39). Kwakungumzabalazo omubi nosizi olubi kuye! Kuze kube isikhathi "sokuguqulwa", lapho ukwamukelwa kuphinde kwatholakala: "kodwa hhayi njengoba ngifuna, kodwa uzokwenza kanjani" (uMathewu 26: 39).
Umuzwa wakhe wokulahlwa wenyuka umzuzu lapho athi, "Nkulunkulu wami, Nkulunkulu wami, ungilahleleni?" Kepha iNdodana isalokhu ithi "uNkulunkulu wami ..." Lesi isiqubulo sokugcina sikaPastor: UJesu unokholo kuYise okwamanje lapho kubonakala sengathi uYise umlahlile. Isenzo sokukholwa okumsulwa, samemeza ebumnyameni bobusuku! Kwesinye isikhathi yindlela okumele siphile ngayo. Ngomusa wakhe. Kuqala "Nkosi, woza usisize!"