Amanye amathiphu asebenzayo okuqala isikole somkhuleko

Da UPaolo Tescione - Julayi 25, 2019

ukuqala isikole somkhuleko:

• Noma ngubani ofuna ukuthola isikole esincane somkhuleko kumele aqale azibophezele ekubeni yindoda noma owesifazane womkhuleko. Ukufundisa ukuthandaza akunikezi imibono ngomthandazo, izincwadi zanele ukwenza lokhu. Kuningi. Ukufundisa ukuthandaza kungenye into, ukudlulisa impilo. Yilabo kuphela abakhuleka ngentshiseko nangokungaguquguquki abangakwenza.

• Kubalulekile ukuphakamisa imithetho elula nesebenzayo kubantu abasha futhi ubacele ukuthi bayivivinye. Uma ungabenzi bakhuleke - kakhulu futhi njalo - uchitha isikhathi, ngeke ubafundise ukuthandaza.

• Kubalulekile ukuhamba ngamaqembu, hhayi kakhulu, ngoba indlela yomthandazo ikhathele. Uma uhamba ngezintambo, lapho omunye evuna omunye uyadonsa, futhi imashi ayimi. Amandla enye alungisa ubuthakathaka kwenye futhi amelana.

• Kubalulekile ukuthi iqembu lizibekele imigomo ethile: ingxenye yesine yehora yomthandazo ngamunye wansuku zonke, bese kuba isigamu sehora, bese kuba ihora. Imigomo eqondile ehlanganiswe ndawonye iya phambili futhi isiza wonke umuntu, oqinile nababuthakathaka.

• Ukuqinisekiswa kweqembu (noma ukubuyekezwa kwempilo) kuyadingeka endleleni eyenziwayo. Ukwabelana ngobunzima nokuthola izixazululo ndawonye. Kuwusizo kulokhu kuhlola ngezikhathi ezithile (njalo ngemva kwamasonto amabili, amathathu) ukuphoqelela ukuthi ungabhekani nanoma yini enye ngaphandle komthandazo.

• Kubalulekile ukunikeza ithuba imibuzo mayelana nomthandazo. Akwanele ukufundisa indlela yokuthandaza, kuyadingeka ukuthi abantu abasha baveze ubunzima babo futhi lowo obhekene nayo azame ukuphendula izithiyo zabo. Uma kukhona lokhu, kukhona ngempela isikole somkhuleko, ngoba kukhona ukushintshana futhi kukhona ukuqina.

• Umthandazo uyisipho sikaMoya: noma ubani oqala isikole somkhuleko kufanele aphathe abantu abasha ngamunye ngamunye futhi kulowo nalowo kufanele anxuse ukukhanya kukaMoya oNgcwele ngokungaguquki.

Umthombo: Indlela Yokuthandaza - P. De Foucauld Missionary Centre - Cuneo 1982