Ukuqabula noma ukunganga: lapho ukwanga kuba nesono
Iningi lamaKristu azinikele likholelwa ukuthi iBhayibheli liyabukhuthaza ubulili ngaphambi komshado, kepha kuthiwani ngezinye izindlela zothando lomzimba ngaphambi komshado? Ingabe iBhayibheli liyasho ukuthi ukwanga othando kuyisono esingaphandle kwemingcele yomshado? Futhi uma kunjalo, ngaphansi kwaziphi izimo? Lo mbuzo ungaba yinkinga ikakhulukazi kwabasha abasebasha abangamaKristu abalwele ukulinganisela izidingo zokholo lwabo nezindlela zokuphila nokucindezela kontanga.
Njengezinkinga eziningi namuhla, ayikho impendulo emnyama nomhlophe. Esikhundleni salokho, izeluleko zabeluleki abaningi abangamaKristu ukucela isiqondiso sikaNkulunkulu ukukhombisa indlela okufanele isilandelwe.
Okokuqala, ezinye izinhlobo zokuqabula zamukeleka futhi zilindelwe. Ibhayibheli lisitshela ukuthi, uJesu Kristu waqabula abafundi bakhe, ngokwesibonelo. Futhi sanga amalungu emindeni yethu njengendlela evamile yokubonisa uthando. Emiphakathini eminingi nasemazweni amaningi, ukwanga kuyindlela evamile yokubingelela phakathi kwabangane. Ngokusobala-ke, ukuqabula akusona isono ngaso sonke isikhathi. Vele, njengoba wonke umuntu eqonda, lezi zindlela zokuqabula ziyindaba ehlukile kunokwanga kothando.
Kwentsha nakwamanye amaKristu angashadile, umbuzo uwukuthi ngabe ukwanga kothando ngaphambi komshado kufanele kubhekwe njengesono.
Kuqala nini ukwanga?
Kwabazinikele kobuKristu, impendulo ihambelana nalokho okusenhliziyweni yakho ngaleso sikhathi. IBhayibheli lisitshela ngokucacile ukuthi inkanuko yisono:
“Ngoba imicabango emibi, ubufebe, ukweba, ukubulala, ukuphinga, ukuhaha, ububi, inkohliso, izinkanuko, inkanuko, ukunyundela, ukuqhosha nobuhlanya kuvela enhliziyweni yomuntu. Zonke lezi zinto ezimbi zivela ngaphakathi; zingcolile ”(Marku 7: 21-23, NLT).
UmKristu ozinikele kufanele abuze ukuthi izinkanuko zisenhliziyweni lapho eqabula. Ngabe ukuqabula kukwenza ufune ukwenza okwengeziwe nalowo muntu? Ngabe kukuholela esilingweni? Ingabe ngandlela thile isenzo sokuphoqelelwa? Uma impendulo yanoma imuphi wale mibuzo ingu "yebo", khona-ke ukwanga okunjalo kungenzeka kube yisono kuwe.
Lokhu akusho ukuthi kufanele sibheke konke ukwanga nomuntu esithandana naye noma nomuntu esimthandayo njengesono. Uthando oluphakathi kwabalingani abanothando aluthathwa njengesono ngamahlelo amaningi obuKristu. Kusho, nokho, ukuthi kufanele siqaphele ukuthi kusezinhliziyweni zethu futhi siqiniseke ukuthi sikulawula ukuzithiba ngesikhathi sokuqabula.
Ukuqabula noma ukunganga?
Indlela ophendula ngayo lo mbuzo incike kuwe futhi ingahle incike ekuchazeni kwakho kwemiyalo yokholo lwakho noma ezimfundisweni zesonto lakho elithile. Abanye abantu bakhetha ukungangaqabuki baze bashade; bayabona ukuthi ukwanga kuholela esonweni noma bakholelwa ukuthi ukwanga kothando kuyisono. Abanye bacabanga ukuthi inqobo nje uma bengamelana nesilingo futhi belawule imicabango nezenzo zabo, ukwanga kuyamukeleka. Isihluthulelo ukwenza okulungile kuwe nokuthi yini ehlonipha uNkulunkulu kakhulu .. AbaseKhorinte woku-10: 23 uthi:
"Konke kuvunyelwe, kepha hhayi zonke izinto ezizuzisayo.
Konke kuvunyelwe, kepha hhayi konke okwakhayo. "(NIV)
Intsha engamaKristu kanye nabodwa abangashadile bayayalwa ukuba basebenzise isikhathi emthandazweni futhi bacabangele abakwenzayo futhi bakhumbule ukuthi ngoba isenzo sivumelekile futhi sivamile akusho ukuthi kuyasiza noma kuyakha. Ungaba nenkululeko yokuqabula, kepha uma kukuholela ezinkanukweni, ekuphoqeni nakwezinye izindawo zesono, akuyona indlela eyakhayo yokudlulisa isikhathi.
KumaKristu, umthandazo uyindlela ebalulekile yokuvumela uNkulunkulu akuqondise kulokho okuzuzisa kakhulu empilweni yakho.