Ingabe kufanele sithandaze nsuku zonke?
Eminye imibuzo okufanele ubuze nayo: "Ingabe kufanele ngidle nsuku zonke?" "Ngabe kumele ngilale nsuku zonke?" "Ngabe kumele ngixubhe amazinyo nsuku zonke?" Okosuku, mhlawumbe isikhathi eside, ungayeka ukwenza lezi zinto, kepha umuntu akakuthandi futhi angalimaza empeleni. Ngokungathandazi, umuntu angazigqaja, abe nobugovu futhi acindezeleke. Lokhu kungeminye yemiphumela. Mhlawumbe yingakho uKristu ayala abafundi bakhe ukuthi bathandaze njalo.
UKristu futhi utshela abafundi Bakhe ukuthi lapho umuntu ethandaza, kufanele aye egumbini lakhe elingaphakathi athandaze yedwa. Kodwa-ke, noKristu futhi uthi lapho ababili noma abathathu bebuthene ndawonye ngegama lakhe, ubakhona. UKristu ufuna umkhuleko wangasese nowomphakathi. Umkhuleko, kokubili ngasese nangomphakathi, ungeza ngezindlela eziningi: isibusiso nokudumisa, isicelo, ukunxusa, ukudumisa nokubonga. Kuzo zonke lezi zinhlobo, umthandazo uyingxoxo noNkulunkulu. Kwesinye isikhathi kuyingxoxo, kepha izikhathi eziningi kuyalalelwa. Ngeshwa, abantu abaningi bacabanga ukuthi umthandazo utshela uNkulunkulu lokho abakufunayo noma abakudingayo. Lababantu badumazekile lapho bengakutholi abakufunayo. Kungakho kubalulekile ukuyibona njengengxoxo lapho uNkulunkulu evunyelwe futhi ukuxhumana nalokho akufunayo kulowo muntu.
Awusoze wabuza "Ngabe kufanele ngikhulume nomngani wami osondele kakhulu nsuku zonke?" Vele akunjalo! Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi imvamisa ufuna ukukhuluma nomngane wakho ukuqinisa lobo bungani. Ngokufanayo, uNkulunkulu ufuna ukuba abafundi bakhe basondele kuye, lokhu kwenziwa ngomkhuleko. Uma wenza umkhuba wokukhuleka nsuku zonke, usondela kuNkulunkulu, usondela kakhulu kubangcwele ezulwini, uba nokuzithoba wena, ngakho-ke, ugxile kakhulu kuNkulunkulu.
Ngakho-ke, qala ukuthandaza kuNkulunkulu! Zama ukungakwenzi kakhulu ngosuku olulodwa. Umkhuleko, njengokuvivinya umzimba, kumele wakhe. Labo abangafanelekile ngeke bakwazi ukugijima umjaho ngosuku lwabo lokuqala lokuqeqeshwa. Abanye abantu bayadangala lapho bengakwazi ukwenza ubungqabavu bobusuku ngaphambi kweSakramente Elibusisiwe Khuluma nompristi bese uthola uhlelo. Uma ungavakashela isonto, zama ukuma imizuzu emihlanu yokukhuleka. Thola bese usho umthandazo wasekuseni nsuku zonke futhi, ekuqaleni kosuku, uwanikezele kuKristu. Funda indinyana evela eBhayibhelini, ikakhulukazi amaVangeli nencwadi yamaHubo. Njengoba ufunda le ndima, mane ucele uNkulunkulu ukuthi avule inhliziyo yakho kulokho ekutshela kona. Zama ukuthandaza irosari. Uma kuzwakala kukhulu kakhulu ekuqaleni, zama ukuthandaza iminyaka eyishumi kuphela. Into ebalulekile okufanele uyikhumbule hhayi ukukhungatheka, kepha ukulalela ukukhuluma kweNkosi. Lapho ukhuluma, hlala ugxile ekuceleni uNkulunkulu ukuba asize abanye, ikakhulukazi abagulayo nokuhlupheka, kubandakanya nemiphefumulo esihlanzweni.