Ungakufeza kanjani ukuvumelana ngobulili okukhulu emshadweni wakho

Le ngxenye yothando lomshado kufanele ihlakulelwe, njengempilo yomkhuleko.
Ngaphandle komyalezo umphakathi wethu owuthumela, izimpilo zethu zocansi zishiya lukhulu ukuthi lufiswe. "Kungokwemvelo ukuthi umbhangqwana uhlangane nezinkinga kulo mkhakha, njengakuzo zonke ezinye, kodwa kungaba okungalungile ukubekezelela," kusho uNathalie Loevenbruck, umeluleki wemishado ochwepheshe emibhangqwaneni engamaKristu. “Kuyiqiniso, kunezikhathi lapho abalingani benobunzima obukhulu bokushintsha isigqi nezifiso zabo. Kepha ucansi kumele lubonwe lubaluleke kakhulu, ”kusho yena.
Ubumbano phakathi kwabashadikazi bobabili buhlanganisa ubudlelwano obujulile kakhulu kunamazwi. Ukulahla ubulili, esikhundleni sokuxazulula inkinga ndawonye, kuzokhipha ababambanayo futhi kuphikisane ukubizwa kwabo ukuze babe “nyamanye” (Mk 10: 8). Ukuntuleka kothando nokusondelana kuyodingeka kunxephezelwe kwenye indawo. Ngaphandle kokuphinga, ukungathembeki kungazibonakalisa ngokusebenza sekwephuzile, ukutshala imali ngokweqile ekusebenzeni kwezenhlalo noma ngisho nokulutha. Kepha akubona bonke abantu abangakuthola masinyane lokhu kusondelana. Impilo yocansi yombhangqwana ukutshala imali edinga ikhono nesifiso. Ubulili kufanele buhlakulelwe njalo futhi kucocwe njengempilo yomkhuleko.

Izinkinga ezenza inhliziyo ihlupheke
ILoovenbruck iphikelela ngokuqinile ekubalulekeni kwendlela eqotho nebuthakathaka yokulalelana nokuthola izinkinga. Ukuntula inzalo kungaba nezimbangela eziningana ezingokomzwelo nezingokwengqondo: ukungazethembi, imicabango emibi yobulili, ukuhlukumezeka kwengane, izinkinga zempilo, njll. Uma kungekho okusebenzayo, zihlala zikhona ezinye izindlela zokukhombisa uthando nesisa. Akufanele siyeke.

“Ngenxa yokuthi thina maKhristu sinethuba elihle lokuthi sazi Lowo ohamba nathi endleleni eya [enkululekweni], kusho uLovenbruck, ekhombisa imisebenzi eminingi yeSonto lamaKhatholika. Isibonelo, kukhona imibhalo ye-Holy John Paul II, eye yasiza ekususeni izithiyo zezizukulwane zabakhulekeli, ezisola zonke izinto "zocansi".
Lapho konke kwehluleka, uLoovenbruck ucela abashade ukuthi bacabangele ukuthi ubunzima ababhekana nabo bubenza bahlupheke kanjani. Lokhu kuvumela ukuthi bakhule futhi bakhombise ububele komunye nomunye. "Ukwamukela ngokuthobeka izinkinga futhi sithandane yize sikhona ukuthuthukela ohlotsheni olujabulisayo lothando olubandakanya ukubekezela, ukuzidela nokwamukela," kusho yena. Kuyisenzo esithobekile sokulahlwa. Kepha kuqiniswa ukukhulisa ukuthembela kwabanye nakuNkulunkulu, okungasiza ukufezekisa ukuvumelana kobulili.