Iseluleko esisebenzayo nesisebhayibhelini ngomshado wamaKristu
Umshado uhloselwe ukuba ubunye obujabulisayo nobungcwele empilweni yobuKristu, kodwa kwabanye ungaba umzamo oyinkimbinkimbi futhi oyinselele. Mhlawumbe uye wazithola usemshadweni ongajabulisi, umane ubekezelele ubuhlobo obubuhlungu nobulukhuni.
Iqiniso liwukuthi ukwakha umshado onempilo nokuwugcina uqinile kudinga umsebenzi. Nokho, izinzuzo zalo mzamo ziyigugu futhi azinakulinganiswa. Ngaphambi kokuba ulahle ithemba, cabangela iseluleko somshado wamaKristu esingakulethela ithemba nokholo esimweni sakho esibonakala singenakwenzeka.
Ungawakha kanjani umshado wakho wobuKristu
Nakuba ukuthanda nokuhlala njalo emshadweni kudinga umzamo wamabomu, akuyona inkimbinkimbi kangako uma uqala ngezimiso ezimbalwa eziyisisekelo. Okokuqala ukwakha umshado wakho esisekelweni esiqinile: ukholo lwakho kuJesu Kristu. Okwesibili ukugcina isibopho esingenakunyakaziswa sokwenza umshado wakho uphumelele. Lezi zimiso ezimbili eziyisisekelo zingaqiniswa kakhulu ngokuzijwayeza imisebenzi emihlanu elula njalo:
Thandazani ndawonye: Zinikeni isikhathi sokuthandaza nomngane wakho womshado nsuku zonke. Umthandazo awukusondezi nje kuphela omunye komunye, kodwa uqinisa ubudlelwano bakho neNkosi ngokujulile.
Ukufunda IBhayibheli Ndawonye: Bekani eceleni izikhathi ezivamile zokufunda iBhayibheli nokukhulekela ndawonye. Indlela yokuthandaza ndawonye, ukwabelana ngeZwi likaNkulunkulu kuyowucebisa kakhulu umshado wakho. Njengoba nobabili nivumela iNkosi neZwi layo ukuba kuguquke kusuka ngaphakathi kuya ngaphandle, nizoba othandweni kakhulu omunye nomunye nasekuzinikeleni kwenu kuKristu.
Yenzani izinqumo ezibalulekile ndawonye: Vumelanani ukwenza izinqumo ezibalulekile, njengokuphatha izimali, ndawonye. Ngeke ukwazi ukusigcinela izimfihlo uma uzibophezela ekwenzeni zonke izinqumo ezibalulekile zomndeni ndawonye. Lena enye yezindlela ezinhle kakhulu zokuthuthukisa ukwethembana nokuhloniphana njengombhangqwana.
Hambani Esontweni Ndawonye: Thola isonto lapho wena nomngane wakho womshado ningakhonza khona, nikhonze, futhi nenze abangane abangamaKristu ndawonye. IBhayibheli kumaHeberu 10:24-25 lithi enye yezindlela ezingcono kakhulu zokuvusa uthando nokukhuthaza izenzo ezinhle ukuhlala uthembekile emzimbeni kaKristu. Ukuzibandakanya esontweni futhi kunikeza umndeni wakho uhlelo oluphephile lokusekela lwabangane nabeluleki ukuze bakusize ezikhathini ezinzima empilweni.
Yondla I-Romance Yakho: Qhubeka uphume futhi uthuthukise ezothando zakho. Imibhangqwana eshadile ivame ukungayinaki le ndawo, ikakhulukazi lapho iqala ukuba nezingane. Ukugcina uthando luphila kuzodinga ukuhlela okuthile, kodwa kubalulekile ukulondoloza ukusondelana emshadweni. Ungayeki ukwenza nokusho izinto zothando owazenza nisaqala ukuthandana. Hug, kiss futhi uthi ngiyakuthanda njalo. Lalela oshade naye, nibambene ngezandla futhi nihambe nihamba olwandle ekushoneni kwelanga. Bamba izandla zakho. Yiba nomusa futhi ucabangele omunye nomunye. Bonisa inhlonipho, hleka ndawonye, futhi uqaphele lapho oshade naye ekwenzela okuthile okuhle. Khumbula ukuncoma nokubungaza impumelelo yomunye nomunye empilweni.
Uma nobabili nenza lezi zinto ezinhlanu kuphela, akukhona nje ukuthi umshado wenu uqinisekile ukuthi uyohlala, uzofakaza ngesibindi ngohlelo lukaNkulunkulu lomshado wamaKristu.
Ngoba uNkulunkulu wasungula umshado wamaKristu
Indlela yokugcina yokwakha umshado wamaKristu oqinile iBhayibheli. Uma sifunda lokho iBhayibheli elikushoyo ngomshado, ngokushesha sizothola ukuthi umshado wawuwumbono kaNkulunkulu kusukela ekuqaleni. Eqinisweni, kwakuyisimiso sokuqala esamiswa uNkulunkulu kuGenesise, isahluko 2 .
Ezinhliziyweni zesu likaNkulunkulu ngomshado yizinto ezimbili: ubungane nokusondelana. Ukusuka lapho inhloso iba umfanekiso omuhle wobudlelwane besivumelwano esingcwele nesimiswe ngokwaphezulu phakathi kukaJesu Kristu noMlobokazi wakhe (ibandla), noma umzimba kaKristu.
Kungase kukuthuse ukufunda lokhu, kodwa uNkulunkulu akazange adale umshado ukuze nje akujabulise. Injongo kaNkulunkulu enkulu emshadweni iwukuba imibhangqwana ikhule ndawonye ebungcweleni.
Kuthiwani ngesehlukaniso nokuphinde ushade?
Amasonto amaningi asekelwe eBhayibhelini afundisa ukuthi isehlukaniso kufanele sibhekwe njengesinyathelo sokugcina ngemva kokuba yonke imizamo yokubuyisana ibhuntshile. Njengoba nje iBhayibheli lisifundisa ukushada ngokucophelela nangenhlonipho, isehlukaniso kumelwe sigwenywe ngazo zonke izindlela. Lolu cwaningo luzama ukuphendula eminye yemibuzo evame ukubuzwa mayelana nesehlukaniso nokushada kabusha.