Lithini iBhayibheli ngobulili ngaphandle komshado
"Balekela ubufebe" - okushiwo yiBhayibheli ngobufebe
NguBetty Miller
Balekela ubufebe. Zonke izono ezenziwa umuntu ngaphandle komzimba; kepha owenza ubufebe wona owakhe umzimba. Ini? Awazi yini ukuthi umzimba wakho uyithempeli likaMoya oNgcwele okukuwe, ukuthi unoNkulunkulu, awuyena owakho? Ngoba uzithenga ngentengo: ngakho-ke khazimulisa uNkulunkulu emzimbeni wakho nasemoyeni wakho, okukaNkulunkulu 1 Korinte 6: 18-20
Manje mayelana nezinto ongibhalele zona: kuhle ukuthi indoda ayithinti umuntu wesifazane. Kodwa-ke, ukuze bagweme ubufebe, indoda ngayinye mayibe nomkayo, nalowo wesifazane abe neyakhe indoda. 1 KwabaseKhorinte 7: 1-2
Lithini iBhayibheli ngobufebe?
Incazelo yesichazamazwi segama elithi "ubufebe" isho noma ikuphi ukuya ocansini ngokungemthetho kubandakanya nokuphinga. EBhayibhelini, incazelo yesiGreki yegama elithi "ubufebe" isho ukwenza ucansi olungavumelekile. Yini eyenza ucansi olungekho emthethweni? Yimiphi imithetho esiphila ngayo? Izindinganiso noma imithetho yezwe izikhathi eziningi ayihambisani neZwi likaNkulunkulu ngaso sonke isikhathi.Obaba abasungula i-United States basungula imithetho eminingi ekuqaleni eyayisekelwe ezindinganisweni zobuKristu nasemithethweni yeBhayibheli. Kodwa-ke, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi i-United States isukile kulezindinganiso futhi izindinganiso zethu zokuziphatha zishaqisa umhlaba njengamanje. Kodwa-ke, ukuziphatha okubi akutholakali e-United States kuphela, kungubhadane lomhlaba wonke. Imiphakathi kuwo wonke umlando nasemhlabeni jikelele yamukele izindinganiso zocansi ezibizwa ngokuthi yizono eBhayibhelini.
Imiphumela yobufebe ezimpilweni zethu
Ubufebe abubekezelelwa kuphela emphakathini wethu, kuyakhuthazwa empeleni. Isono sobufebe naso senziwa phakathi kwamaKristu, njengoba imibhangqwana eminingi "ihlala ndawonye" futhi iya ocansini ngaphambi komshado. IBhayibheli lisitshela ukuba sibalekele lesi sono. Weluleke amaKrestu wobulili obuhlukile ukuthi ahlanganyele efulethini futhi asitshela ukuthi awayi ocansini, ngakho-ke kwakungeyona neze iphutha. IBhayibheli lisho la mazwi kweyoku-1 Thesalonika 5: 22-23: “Gwema konke ukubonakala kobubi. Futhi uNkulunkulu ofanayo wokuthula uningcwelisa ngokuphelele; futhi ngithandaza kuNkulunkulu ukuthi wonke umoya, umphefumulo nomzimba wakho kulondolozwe kungasoleki ekufikeni kweNkosi yethu uJesu Kristu ”.
Impilo zethu njengamaKhristu ziwubufakazi obuphilayo babanye futhi singeke saphule imithetho kaNkulunkulu ngaphandle kokuvimbela abanye ukuthi beze kuKristu. Kufanele siphile impilo yethu ebumsulwa ngaphambi kwezwe elinobubi. Akufanele siphile ngezindinganiso zabo kodwa ngezindinganiso zikaNkulunkulu ezisebhayibhelini. Akukho mbhangqwana okufanele uhlale ndawonye ngaphandle kwezibopho zomshado.
Abaningi bathi bahlala ndawonye ngaphambi komshado ukuze babone ukuthi bayahambisana yini, njengoba bengafuni ukudivosa. Kungabonakala njengesizathu esizwakalayo sokwenza isono sobufebe, kepha emehlweni kaNkulunkulu kuseseyisono. Izibalo zikhomba nokho ukuthi labo abahlala ndawonye ngaphambi komshado maningi amathuba okuthi bahlukanise kunalabo abangahlali nabo. Ukuhlala ndawonye kukhombisa ukungamethembi ngokuphelele uNkulunkulu nokungakwazi ukuzibophezela ekukhetheni umlingani. AmaKrestu ahlala kulesi simo ayintando kaNkulunkulu futhi adinga ukuphenduka afune uNkulunkulu ukuthi azi ukuthi lo muntu nguyena ofanele yini kubo. Uma kuyintando kaNkulunkulu ukuba babe ndawonye, kufanele bashade. Ngaphandle kwalokho, izimo zabo zokuphila kufanele zishintshe.
NjengamaKristu, inhloso yanoma yibuphi ubudlelwano kufanele kube ukwenza iNkosi ithande futhi yaziwe kangcono ezimpilweni zethu. Ukuhlala ndawonye kuyihlazo futhi kunobugovu njengoba amaqembu engenandaba ukuthi abanye bacabangani nokuthi angayithinta kanjani imindeni yabo kanye nabanye. Baphilela ukujabulisa izinkanuko zabo kanye nezifiso zabo zobugovu. Le ndlela yokuphila iyalimaza futhi ikakhulukazi ezinganeni ezinabazali abaphila isibonelo esibi phambi kwabo. Akumangazi ukuthi izingane zethu zididekile ngokuthi yini elungile nengalungile lapho abazali behlisa ubungcwele bomshado ngokuhlala ndawonye ngaphandle komshado. Ukuhlala ndawonye kungenza kanjani izingane zithandane futhi zihlonishwe lapho abazali bazo bephula imithetho kaNkulunkulu phambi kwabo ngoba benenkanuko?
Namuhla kuyadingeka ukufundisa abantu abasha ukugwema ukuya ocansini futhi bahlale bezintombi ngitsho nangaphambi komshado. Izinkinga eziningi kangaka emishadweni namuhla zibangelwa ukuthi akuzona izintombi uma zishada. Intsha iletha imizwelo elimele nemizimba egulayo emishadweni yayo ngenxa yezenzo zokuziphatha okubi zangaphambili. Izifo ezidluliselwa ngocansi (izifo ezithathelwana ngocansi) zigcwele kangangokuba izibalo ziyethusa. Kunezigameko ezintsha zezigidi eziyi-12 zezifo ezithathelwana ngocansi e-United States unyaka ngamunye futhi ama-67% alawa avela kubantu abangaphansi kweminyaka engama-25. Eqinisweni, unyaka nonyaka osemusha oyedwa kwabayisithupha uthola inkontileka ye-STD. Emkhatsini wa-100.000 150.000 nema-XNUMX labomake kuba nembewu minyaka yonke ngenca yetifo letitfolakala ngekwecansi. Abanye babekezelela iminyaka yobuhlungu ngoba ezinye zalezi zifo azelapheki. Intengo emibi kakhulu ukukhokha izono zocansi.
Isono sobufebe asichazwa nje kuphela njengokuya ocansini ngokungemthetho phakathi kwalabo abangashadile, futhi siyisambulela sezinye izono zocansi. IBhayibheli liphinde likhulume ngesono sokulala nesihlobo njengobufebe ku-1 Korinte 5: 1: “Kubikwa kakhulu ukuthi kukhona ubufebe phakathi kwenu, nobufebe obunjalo obungabekiwe neze phakathi kwabezizwe, ukuthi ube nobaba . "
IBhayibheli futhi libala abaqwayizi njengezifebe kusAmbulo 21: 8: “Kepha abesabayo, nabangakholwayo, nabanengekayo, nababulali, nezifebe, nabathakathi, nabakhonza izithombe, nabo bonke abaqamba amanga, isabelo sabo siyakuba echibini elivuthayo. ngomlilo nesibabule: kuyini ukufa kwesibili. “Zonke izifebe nezimpisi ziyizifebe. Imibhangqwana "ehlala ndawonye" ngokweBhayibheli, yenza isono esifanayo esenziwa yizifebe. Abangashadile "abenza uthando" bawela esigabeni esifanayo. Ukuthi umphakathi wamukele lolu hlobo lwempilo akukwenzi kulunge. IBhayibheli kumele libe yisilinganiso sethu sokulungile nokungalungile. Sidinga ukuguqula amazinga ethu uma singafuni ukuthi ulaka lukaNkulunkulu lwehlele phezu kwethu. UNkulunkulu uyasizonda isono kodwa uyasithanda isoni. Uma umuntu ephenduka abize uJesu namuhla, kuzomsiza ukuphuma ebudlelwaneni obungemthetho futhi kubaphulukise kuwo wonke amanxeba adlule futhi kuphulukise noma yikuphi ukugula okungenzeka ukuthi wakuthola.
UNkulunkulu usinike imithetho yeBhayibheli ukuze sizuze. Azenzelwe ukusincisha noma yini enhle, kepha zinikezwe thina ukuze sijabulele ubulili obufanele ngesikhathi esifanele. Uma silalela amazwi eBhayibheli futhi “sibalekela ubufebe” futhi sikhazimulise uNkulunkulu ngemizimba yethu, iNkosi izosibusisa ngaphezu kwalokho esingakholelwa kukho.
INkosi ilungile ezindleleni zayo zonke, futhi ingcwele kuyo yonke imisebenzi yayo. INkosi isondele kubo bonke abayibizayo, kubo bonke abayincengela eqinisweni. Uyasuthisa ukufisa kwalabo abamesabayo; naye uyakuzwa ukukhala kwabo, abasindise. INkosi igcina bonke abamthandayo, kepha uyabachitha bonke ababi. Umlomo wami uyakukhipha indumiso kaJehova, inyama yonke ibonge igama lakhe elingcwele kuze kube phakade naphakade. IHubo 145: 17-21