Lifundzisani liBhayibheli ngemshado?

Lifundzisani liBhayibheli ngemshado? Umshado isibopho esijulile futhi esihlala njalo phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane. Kubhaliwe ebhayibhelini, kuMathewu 19: 5,6 (TILC): “Ngakho-ke indoda izoshiya uyise nonina iyohlangana nowesifazane wayo futhi laba bobabili babe munye. Ngakho-ke abasasebabili kepha bayindalo eyodwa. Ngakho-ke umuntu akahlukanisi lokho uNkulunkulu akuhlanganisile. "

Amadoda kufanele aziphathe kanjani nawomkawo? Kubhaliwe ebhayibhelini, kwabase-Efesu 5: 25,28 (NR): "Madoda, thandani omkenu, njengoba noKristu alithanda ibandla, wazinikela ngenxa yakhe ... ... Ngokunjalo, nabesilisa nabo kufanele bathande abafazi, njengomuntu wabo. Othanda umkakhe uzithanda yena. "

Amadoda kufanele ahloniphe omkawo. Kubhaliwe ebhayibhelini, ku-1 Petru 3: 7 (NR): “Nani, nina madoda, hlalani ndawonye nabafazi benu ngenhlonipho efanele owesimame, mayela nevoti elixegayo. Bahloniphe, ngoba nabo bayizindlalifa kanye nawe zomusa wempilo, ukuze imithandazo yakho ingavinjezelwa. "

Umfazi kufanele aziphathe kanjani umyeni wakhe? Kubhaliwe ebhayibhelini, kwabase-Efesu 5: 22-24 (NR): “Bafazi, zithobeni kubayeni benu, njengeNkosi; indoda empeleni inhloko yomfazi, njengoba noKristu eyinhloko yebandla, yena onguMsindisi womzimba. Manje njengoba isonto lizithoba kuKristu, ngakho-ke amakhosikazi nawo kufanele azithobe kubayeni bawo kukho konke. "

Ngabe konke lokhu kusho ukuthi amakhosikazi kufanele njalo ayekethise? Cha. Umshado udinga ukuzithoba ngazo zombili izinhlangothi. Kubhaliwe ebhayibhelini, ku-Efesu 5:21 (NR): "Ngokuzithoba komunye nomunye ngokwesaba uKristu."

Ngusiphi secwayiso lesenqabisa kuhlukunyetwa ngemtimba nome ngemlomo? Kubhaliwe ebhayibhelini, kwabaseKolose 3:19 (NR): "Madoda, thandani omkenu, futhi ungabacasukeli."

Ukuze umshado uphumelele, kubalulekile ukuxazulula ukungaqondi ngaso leso sikhathi. Kubhaliwe eBhayibhelini, ku-Efesu 4:26 (TILC): "Futhi uma uthukuthela, qaphela ukuthi ungoni: intukuthelo yakho iyacishwa ngaphambi kokushona kwelanga."

Khulisa ubuhlobo bakho ebunyeni nasekuqondeni. Kubhaliwe ebhayibhelini, kwabase-Efesu 4: 2,3 (TILC): “Zithobe njalo, ube nobungane futhi ubekezele nibekezelelane uthando; zama ukulonda ngokuthula okukuhlanganisayo, lowobo bunye obuvela kuMoya oNgcwele. "

Umphakathi kufanele uwubheke kanjani umshado? Kubhaliwe eBhayibhelini, kumaHeberu 13: 4 (NR): “Umshado kufanele uhlonishwe yibo bonke futhi umbhede wokuhlangana awugcinwa ngokungathembeki; ngoba uNkulunkulu uzokwahlulela izifebe neziphingi. "

Ngumiphi imiyalo uNkulunkulu awuvikela emshadweni? Nesikhombisa neshumi. Kubhaliwe eBhayibhelini, ku-Eksodusi 20:14, 17 (TILC): "Ungaphingi" futhi "Ungafisi okungokwomunye: noma ikhaya lakhe noma umkakhe ... .."

Yisiphi kuphela isizathu esizwakalayo uJesu asinikeza sokumisa umshado? Kubhaliwe ebhayibhelini, kuMathewu 5:32 (NR): "Kepha ngithi kini: Yilowo nalowo othuma umkakhe, ngaphandle kobufebe, umenza ophingayo, nalowo oshade naye amuke, uyaphinga."

Umshado kufanele uhlale isikhathi esingakanani? Kubhaliwe eBhayibhelini, ku Roma 7: 2 (NR): “Eqinisweni, umfazi oshadile uboshwe ngumthetho kumyeni wakhe esaphila; kepha uma umyeni efa, kuyachithwa umthetho obopha indoda yakhe. "

Imiphi imiyalo enikezwe ukuthi ubani ongashada naye? Kubhaliwe ebhayibhelini, ku-2 KwabaseKhorinte 6:14 (NR): “Ningazifaki ngaphansi kwabakholwayo ngaphansi kwejoka elingelenu; ngoba buyini ubudlelwano phakathi kobulungiswa nobubi? Noma, kunakuhlangana kuni phakathi kokukhanya nobumnyama?

Uthando nesipho sokuya ocansini babusiswa uNkulunkulu lapho bephila ngesimo somshado. Kubhaliwe ebhayibhelini, kuzaga 5: 18,19 (NR): “Mawubusiswe umthombo wakho, futhi uphile ngenjabulo nomakoti wobusha bakho… amakhonkco akhe akugcoba ngaso sonke isikhathi, njalo uhlale ulambatha uthando wakhe. "