Ngabe iSonto LamaKatolika lifundisani ngomshado?
Umshado njengesikhungo semvelo
Umshado umkhuba ojwayelekile kuwo wonke amasiko ayo yonke iminyaka. Ngakho-ke yisikhungo semvelo, into evamile kubo bonke abantu. Ngokwezinga layo eliyisisekelo, umshado ukuhlangana phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane ngenhloso yokuthola ukuzwana nokusekelwa, noma uthando. Wonke umuntu osemshadweni ulahla amalungelo athile empilweni yakhe ukushintshana ngamalungelo ngempilo yomunye.
Ngenkathi isehlukaniso sikhona emlandweni wonke, bekuyivelakancane kuze kube namakhulu ambalwa eminyaka edlule, okukhombisa ukuthi ngisho nangendlela yemvelo, umshado kufanele ubhekwe njengemanyano yaphakade.
Izici zomshado wemvelo
Njengoba k. UJohn Hardon uyachaza kuPocket Catholic Dictionary yakhe, kunezici ezine ezivamile emshadweni wemvelo emlandweni wonke:
Kuyinyunyana yabobulili obuhlukile.
Kuyinyunyana yaphakade, ephela kuphela ngokushona koshade naye.
Akufaki inyunyana nanoma yimuphi omunye umuntu inqobo nje uma umshado ukhona.
Ubunjalo bayo obuhlala njalo nokungafani buqinisekiswa yinkontileka.
Ngakho-ke, ngisho nasezingeni lemvelo, isehlukaniso, ukuphinga kanye "nomshado wobungqingili" akuhambelani nomshado futhi ukuntuleka kokuzibophezela kusho ukuthi awukho umshado owenzekile.
Umshado njengesikhungo esingaphezu kwemvelo
ESontweni LamaKatolika, noma kunjalo, umshado ungaphezu kwesiko lemvelo; waphakanyiswa nguKristu uqobo, ekuhlanganyeleni kwakhe emshadweni waseKhana (Johane 2: 1-11), ukuba ngomunye wesakramente eziyisikhombisa. Ngakho-ke, umshado phakathi kwamaKristu amabili unesici esingaphezu kwendalo kanye nesendalo. Ngenkathi ambalwa amaKhristu angaphandle kwamasonto amaKhatholika nama-Orthodox abheka umshado njengesakramente, iSonto lamaKhatholika ligcizelela ukuthi umshado phakathi kwamaKristu amabili abhapathiziwe, uma nje ungena ngenhloso yokuthola umshado weqiniso, uyisakramente .
Izikhonzi zesakramente
Umshado phakathi kwamaKristu amabili angewona amaKatolika kodwa abhapathizwe ungaba kanjani isakramente uma umpristi wamaKatolika engawenzi umshado? Iningi labantu, kufaka phakathi iningi lamaRoma Katolika, aliboni ukuthi ongqongqoshe besakramente yilabo abashade nabo ngokwabo. Ngenkathi iSonto likhuthaza ngokuqinile amaKatolika ukuba ashade phambi kompristi (futhi abe nesisindo somshado, uma bobabili abashadayo bangamaKhatholika), ukukhuluma ngokungqongqo, umpristi akudingekile.
Isibonakaliso nomphumela wesakramente
Abalingani bayizikhonzi zesakramente lomshado ngoba isibonakaliso - uphawu lwangaphandle - lwesakramente akuyona iMisa lomshado noma yini umpristi angayenza ngaphandle kwenkontileka yomshado uqobo. Lokhu akusho ukuthi ilayisense lomshado abantu abathola kulo mbuso, kodwa izifungo ezenziwa yilowo nalowo mbhangqwana komunye. Uma nje oshade naye ngamunye ehlose ukungena emshadweni weqiniso, isakramente liyagujwa.
Umphumela wesakramente ukwanda kokungcweliswa komusa kubantu abashade, ukubamba iqhaza empilweni yaphezulu kaNkulunkulu uqobo.
Inyunyana kaKristu nebandla lakhe
Lo musa wokungcwelisa usiza umngane womshado ngamunye ukusiza omunye ukuthi athuthuke ebungcweleni, futhi ubasize ngokuhlanganyela ukubambisana ezinhlelweni zikaNkulunkulu zokuhlenga ngokukhulisa izingane kuKholo.
Ngale ndlela, umshado wesakramente ungaphezu kobumbano lwendoda nowesifazane; eqinisweni, kuluhlobo nophawu lobumbano lwaphezulu phakathi kukaKristu, umyeni nomyeni wakhe webandla lakhe, umakoti. NjengamaKhristu ashadile, avulekele ekudalweni kwempilo entsha futhi azibophezele ekusindisweni kwethu sobabili, asihlanganyeli kuphela esenzweni sikaNkulunkulu sokudala, kodwa esenzweni sikaKristu sokuhlenga.